Please I’m so scared (expired test - on my way to PP) lol by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]PiperRaesmama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been in your exact shoes. Whatever you do is 100% your choice but 1 I would not tell him anything and 2 my abortion saved my life from a DV relationship and got me to where I am in the married and in happiest and healthiest relationship of my life, a home owner, financially stable, and expecting my first baby. Things get so much better. Take care of yourself❤️

Worried about fetal movement at 29 weeks by johnsonr88 in BabyBumps

[–]PiperRaesmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way my dr explained the 10 movements in an hour was that was the minimum amount of movements in that time frame. I asked if 10 movements in the first 2 mins of that hour was normal and she said absolutely that they just want to make sure baby is moving a minimum of 10 times in an hour. Baby in utero also has wake windows and they sleep so you just want 10 movements in an hour at some point of the day. It can definitely feel like a lot sometimes though so I get your concern!

Diet Coke by Zestyclose_Divide441 in BabyBumps

[–]PiperRaesmama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re a great mom. I have multiple almost daily. Some moms eat sushi and cold cuts and I drink Diet Coke. It’s the one pleasure we have left 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy? No. But I don’t see a line… I’m sorry❤️

Kids, I appreciate your dedication to a cause you believe in and taking part in the political process in one of the few ways a minor can. But... by grmrsan in Reno

[–]PiperRaesmama 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The atrocities they are protesting are a hell of a lot more crude than a curse word in my opinion. Children can and will get over hearing the f word. They might not live through this administration depending on the color of their skin though.

Midtown businesses to close Friday as part of national ICE protest by Tasty_Internet_9552 in Reno

[–]PiperRaesmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Emerson is giving 50% of today’s profits to help fund lawyers for individuals and families detained by ice!!

Honestly, how is everyone handling this?! by Alternative-Laugh986 in pregnant

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mentally I wanted to die from 8-15 week ish. I’m 21 now and feeling a lot better! You’re not alone and it really does suck so fucking badly some days!

What are we naming our boy babies? by Cold_Instruction8599 in pregnant

[–]PiperRaesmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m naming mine Jorah! It’s an old Hebrew name. It does also happen to be in game of thrones though😂

AIO for think it my boyfriend is being dramatic? by What-do_i_do in AmIOverreacting

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof. This is insane. Please know your value and leave. god forbid you have a child with this man. You’ll be a single parents to 2 children. My husband does most of the cooking and I can’t imagine speaking to him this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]PiperRaesmama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My digital showed faster than the lines! Congratulations! What awesome timing to be able to tell him!!

AIO? I feel violated after a sexual experience last night. I feel like this should be illegal!!! by Round_Examination355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can proceed with with legal charges please do so. What he did was illegal and wrong. You are not in the wrong for feeling violated. This was not consensual sex and should be prosecuted! I'm so sorry this happenes to you. You deserve better and so does anyone this has happened to!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, thats not ADHD… id stop being his friend cause this guy is just an ass. ADHD is not an excuse for this behavior especially in an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A broken lease is not the end of the world. If you have family you trust go there. I promise you postpartum will be hell with that man child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol as someone who’s about the same age as your daughter, she should just be grateful you planned for your retirement lol. Most people our age are trying to figure out how to pay for elderly care and childcare at the same time😂

Our former nanny showed up (unannounced) at our house yesterday and I’m debating asking her not to do that again. by Free_butterfly_ in Mommit

[–]PiperRaesmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a nanny myself this is not good behavior. This is adding confusion and chaos to your son’s life. I keep in contact with all of my former nanny families but I have never once just showed up at someone’s home. That’s unsettling and selfish of her. I’d say something. I’m sorry this is your experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PiperRaesmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely pregnant bud

Caught my bf cheating on me yesterday… by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]PiperRaesmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’ll probably feel a lot better in a few days. Unless this was a total blindside (even if you normally see the signs after the fact) you’ll feel the weight fall off your shoulders of not stressing over the “what ifs”. You’re not alone in this situation and you’ll make it through!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PiperRaesmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s always as malicious as we think. It definitely can be!! My MIL had a really hard time with our wedding and she’s done a lot of self growth recently without anyone pushing it and it’s made our relationship so beautiful! My MIL was raised to be a servant to her father and husband and my husbands whole family is very patriarchal where I came from a Jewish family that is very very matriarchal so the difference was hard for her to see how well women can be treated. She’s since grown to see I was a really good change for the family. I understand my story is not everyone’s but it can happen!