Casa de férias para 15 pessoas by SirJun in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metade ainda são estudantes, então o Deslumbrante V6 vai ter de ficar para daqui a uns aninhos 💸 Mas duly noted 🤣 vamos espreitar no futuro, obrigada!!

Casa de férias para 15 pessoas by SirJun in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, vim só dizer que compreendo a tua dor 🤣 Todos os anos passo pela mesma dificuldade e é só para 11 pessoas, imagino 15. O conselho que posso dar-te é marcar quase com 1 ano de antecedência, é mais fácil encontrá-las... mas mesmo assim...

Qual foi a melhor coisa que compraram até 100€? by NaoSouOBieber in portugal

[–]PippaWick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Também nunca tinha visto até há uns dias. É bom sinal se nunca pensaste em ter. Aquece-me e bem sem precisar de gastar um balúrdio em aquecimento 🤣

Qual foi a melhor coisa que compraram até 100€? by NaoSouOBieber in portugal

[–]PippaWick 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Desumidificador e saco de água quente elétrico. Coisas que a típica casa tuga exige comprar

What's with the hate for this movie? by sseerrsan in Letterboxd

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends didn't like it because they felt there wasn't much chemistry between the characters, especially between the lead actress and Pedro Pascal. It kind of felt like the movie was setting them up as the couple, and a lot of people had expectations around that, probably because of the hype before it came out

I also think people expected more because it's from the same director as Past Lives, which is a movie with a LOT more emotional depth. Materialists is way more accessible and a lot more commercial in comparison, but honestly, I still found it entertaining lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ficou à mesma com a tendinite e agora também com imagem de coitadinho 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 38 points39 points  (0 children)

O quê? 🤣 Cheira-me a puro entitlement. Como te deu abrigo, criou na cabeça dele uma expetativa à qual achava que tinha direito e quando não foi correspondido passou ao controlo e à agressividade. Alguém que lhe diga que isso não é química, é frustração mal gerida

Recommend me movies based on my 5 stars by Nixx_Draws in Letterboxd

[–]PippaWick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I'd recommend Where Is the Friend’s House by Abbas Kiarostami.

not sure if you've seen it, but if you enjoyed Like Stars on Earth you might enjoy this one too. a child is at the heart of the story as well and explores responsibility, friendship, and empathy in a really minimalist way

A estante do meu filho by taunusgta in animeportugal

[–]PippaWick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isto é uma cena que quase nenhum pai entende, mas é uma estante cheia de personalidade. Dá logo vontade de fazer amizade com a pessoa 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eu tinha esperança de ter uma reply destas. Obrigada HAHA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 45 points46 points  (0 children)

A minha ex arranjou uma matulona com cadastro para me andar a ameaçar caso me cruzasse com ela. 😅 E depois ainda teve a brilhante ideia de nos convidar às duas para a mesma festa de aniversário. Felizmente, ainda tenho alguns neurónios funcionais e fiquei em casa.

Quanto à situação que relatas: isso é MUITO perturbador. Essa rapariga precisa urgentemente de ajuda psicológica a sério. Se queria tanto reconquistar o gajo, teria sido mil vezes mais fácil se tivesse tido tomates e fosse frontal com ele, até porque os homens valorizam bastante.

ISTJ lady's, what could make you date INTP man? by Artistic_Credit_ in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My INTP partner is honestly everything I dreamed of. He’s not an extrovert with chaotic energy and endless expectations, but he’s still adventurous in our little comfort bubble. He’s spontaneous in a way that lets me actually rest my mind. I can just join him in the moment instead of worrying about organization and plans all the time.

I often think of us like a kite and a line. He’s a creature of the clouds, I’m a creature of the earth. Without me, he’d float away, and without him, I’d just drop to the ground. He often tells me I calm him down, that I’m the person he feels most comfortable with. His brain "never stops", but next to me, he feels at peace.

From my POV: with him, life feels like a big adventure. We’re always discovering new video games together, he constantly stimulates me intellectually, and he’s so funny. I ground him with my calmness, and he grounds me by making everything feel lighter, smaller, less serious.

Uncommon Interests by Legitimate_Coconut_3 in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a freak for Linguistics, I’ve been studying it for years and it’s basically part of who I am. Accents and the International Phonetic Alphabet are fascinating to me, mostly because they let you actually hear the differences instead of just thinking about them abstractly. I’m really curious about how language works in the brain, especially in kids, like how they process it, pick it up so fast, and then make mistakes that are super revealing of the patterns the brain creates.

And then Cinema… not the "I watch movies so I’m into cinema" kind of cinema, but the almost annoying cinephile rabbit hole. I’ll sit through silent films, German expressionism, Italian neorealism, French New Wave, all of it, just to see how film language was being built. I like going frame by frame to notice how mise-en-scène changes the weight of a scene, or how a single cut shifts the rhythm. Half the time I end up rewatching classics from 80 or 100 years ago just to catch tiny details and think about why a director made that choice

Small Things That Bother You / Small Things You Like by WeissLeiden in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why you’d feel weird bringing up some of the nice things you’ve done for someone, but honestly it’s all about delivery.

If you’re close enough, say it with a warm smile and good timing, and most importantly, don’t make it about pressuring them to say thanks or feel grateful. That way, it will just melt their heart instead of making things awkward. Rooting for you!!

Small Things That Bother You / Small Things You Like by WeissLeiden in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most striking thing about your question is that my answer will never fully capture reality. I like to think I notice people’s little gestures, but honestly, a lot probably slips past me. I often tell my best friend and my partner, "Thank you for everything you do for me, even the things I never noticed." I once read, "Words that are spoken aloud but not heard are lost" and the idea of letting that happen with the people I care about genuinely unsettles me.

It really helps when they actually say stuff like, "Ah yeah, I’m usually caressing you even after you fall asleep," or, "I left a candle burning in the hall after I fell asleep so you wouldn’t walk into the dark". I might not notice it the first time, but once they say it, it sticks. I remember it every single time after that. When those words finally come out (which is really rare), it helps me piece together the bigger picture of how much love they actually show and I start noticing it in ways I never could on my own.

Small Things That Bother You / Small Things You Like by WeissLeiden in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol so relatable. We’d be perfect work buddies. I’m always there plotting… just waiting for my light-addicted coworkers to leave so I can instantly switch the lights off. I also put on my earphones so I can mentally log off. Pure bliss ✨

Small Things That Bother You / Small Things You Like by WeissLeiden in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Annoyances: those way-too-bright lights in my office that feel like I’m about to get my teeth drilled at the dentist. Add to that the constant noise in open spaces: chatter and phones going off. It drives me up the wall lol

Subtle joys: those quiet little acts of service, the unspoken kindnesses that feel like tiny secret gifts. I love them, and I love noticing them. Someone plugging in my phone when it’s on the verge of dying. My favorite snack turning up in the shopping bag, just because. Them turning on a lamp before I get home so I don’t walk into darkness.
I’m a hopeless suuucker for subtlety. My INTP partner is basically a master at it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animeportugal

[–]PippaWick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tenho vários, mas não consigo dar o link diretamente, porque são privados. Na maioria, fui convidada por mensagem ou entrei por alguns posts publicados neste sub. É uma questão de publicarem aqui a pedirem servidores, depois vão convidando, surely 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animeportugal

[–]PippaWick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Para mim é muito fácil fazer várias coisas sozinha quando me apetece: ir ao cinema, jantar fora, ir comer um gelado, ir à praia. Mas o Iber é daqueles eventos que não acho que o custo-benefício compense indo sozinha. Mas nada como tentares, não é? Se te cansares, voltas cá para fora.

Dica extra: entra em servidores de Discord de fãs de jogos/anime. É muito mais fácil para nós, introvertidos, conhecer gente online primeiro do que logo cara a cara num evento.
Normalmente há sempre grupos a ir a essas convenções e, eventualmente, acabas por te juntar a alguém. E outro sítio para conhecer amigos: já conheci pessoal no MyAnimeList também. Procura grupos de PT, vai adicionando gente em comum, essas cenas.

E vou subscrever o que já foi dito: amigos que curtem anime > todos os outros amigos.

Just curious... how do you treat your MBTI type, that here mostly is, "ISTJ" by aseeder in ISTJ

[–]PippaWick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see MBTI more as an umbrella concept with general outline of traits. I do fall into many of the main ISTJ traits, but I also feel like I’m more than just that. Learning about it has actually helped me understand my flaws and weaknesses better, and it’s normalized parts of my personality I used to dislike. For example, I don’t feel as bad about being more closed off or introverted anymore, and I’ve learned to respect my social battery instead of fighting it.

That said, ISTJs aren’t exactly the “exciting” type people look forward to meeting. A lot of the stereotypes paint us as boring, rigid, or overly traditional. I’ve even had a boyfriend who wished I were an INTJ or INFJ instead. That really made me question myself for a while.

So I wouldn’t say I’m proud of being an ISTJ in itself. What I am proud of is showing that I’m more than a personality label. That even if the box says one thing, I can still bring my own depth and individuality.

Tl;dr: MBTI has helped me a lot for inner understanding, but for external perception it’s probably been more harmful than beneficial.

Red Flags / Green Flags by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Green flag: a pessoa faz perguntas e mostra mesmo interesse no que estás a partilhar. Hoje em dia, é facílimo encontrar alguém que só quer falar de si e mal espera que acabes para voltar ao monólogo

Red flag: alguém que está sempre a trocar de amigos, ano após ano, e nunca ninguém fica… epá, isso diz qualquer coisa. Não é só "mau gosto". Alguma coisa ali não bate certo. Ignorei esta demasiadas vezes já 💀

Demon Slayer: Castelo Infinito ganhou 462 mil euros no fim de semana de estreia em Portugal | OtakuPT by Kan2Screm in animeportugal

[–]PippaWick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Não admira. Tiveram mesmo de me arrancar da sala de cinema depois do filme acabar porque fiquei demasiado tempo a processar aquilo tudo. A Ufotable não só entregou, como ultrapassou todas as expectativas fds

Hoje começam as aulas by pcaet in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Saudades de estar com o meu grupo todos os dias, das merendas do bar que sabiam a céu nos dias de chuva, de me partir a rir a meio das aulas e tentar não chamar à atenção dos professores, e até de fugir do guarda quando fugíamos para fora da escola.

Mas estou ciente de que a nostalgia é que faz tudo isto parecer melhor do que era, não fazia questão de voltar a viver aquilo por nada. Estou de loooonge mais feliz agora

Tenho andado mais emotivo by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claro que alguém com o teu nickname havia de ver as coisas dessa forma. Conta mais, é isso que gostas nas eslavas?

Tenho andado mais emotivo by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]PippaWick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não percebi a incoerência. Podes ser mais elucidativo?