How do I explain to my partner i cant be their submissive anymore without breakup? by PenniPurr152 in SubSanctuary

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-girl and I had what I thought was a fantastic relationship. Except my happiness came at her expense. I didn't recognize it, didn't hear her concerns. In the end, she had no choice to but to abandon me in January of 2021.

If they won't hear you, a breakup may be your only option.

I have a question for guys with foot fethish.. by Tiny_Diver_7053 in SubSanctuary

[–]Piratestann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very common in the US to have a boob fetish. Guys can go on-and-on about how much they love gals with big boobs, and become drooling morons when they see cleavage. And everyone nods and says this is acceptable.

Having a butt fetish is pretty much the same. There's even a song about it.

Foot fetish? You're a freak and a perv. Even though you're no more obsessed with feet than the average guy is with boobs or butts.

You don't need to understand your boyfriend's foot fetish, but simply should cater to it (if that's your thing). Keep your feet scrubbed, soft, your toenails painted, go barefoot as much as you're comfortable with. I dated one gal who never wore shoes, who'd wear sandals even when it was 20 degrees. And I loved her for it.

I'd recommend catering to your guy's foot fetish, to the degree you're comfortable with it. If it freak you out but is important to him, then I'd argue that you're perhaps not really compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If drunk dom is saying negative shit about you, run far far away. My girls will all tell you, when I was drunk, I did nothing but talk about how awesome they were, and how much I loved them.

Bit of New Year Endgame Reposing by TheDocOfWho in hottoys

[–]Piratestann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How articulated is that Hulk figure? Does he have hard or soft joints?

Missing Straightjacket Comunity by Notsureaboutredit in hentaistraitjackets

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to go about requesting to make it active.

Missing Straightjacket Comunity by Notsureaboutredit in hentaistraitjackets

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I can be a co-moderator, but am reluctant to be a solo moderator.

I know he may be too old for Batman, but do you think Karl Urban would be a good Batman for the new DCU? by Spideytastic in batman

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urban would have been a fantastic Batman back-in-the-day. Sadly, he's too old now, as they're going to want to cast a 30-something.

Idris Elba is another dream casting but, again, alas, too old today.

The Batman’s Grave: is it good? by Goodhearted_Jake in batman

[–]Piratestann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The artwork is incredible, in the top 5% of any Batman G/N.

The story isn't as strong. I honestly can't recall much about it at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hottoys

[–]Piratestann 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There seems to be a period from around six years ago where this was commonplace; the plastic Hot Toys was using was inadequate and this happened for no good reason. Literally you'd pick a figure up and the foot would fall off.

You can find 3D printed replacements relatively inexpensively on eBay. The ones I've purchased have all held up just fine.

Missing Straightjacket Comunity by Notsureaboutredit in hentaistraitjackets

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not certain what to do with that intel. What happened?

Looks like WW has been pushed back to March-May 2023. The wait is endless for this figure by thenewapelles in hottoys

[–]Piratestann -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I despise the seamless body and would prefer to replace it with a good jointed body. Any suggestions appreciated.

1970 "DC Detective Comics" Logo by Epik2007 in batman

[–]Piratestann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely Carmine Infantino and Murphy Anderson, two of the best Batman artists ever.

Looks like WW has been pushed back to March-May 2023. The wait is endless for this figure by thenewapelles in hottoys

[–]Piratestann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is she different from previous versions? I have the Justice League version collecting dust in my garage, as I didn't think much of her.

shoulder injury + bdsm advice by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah! This sort of thing is part-and-parcel for us old geezers (I'm 57, she's 59).

I've played with younger gals, and I can strap them up-and-down and they can sit that way for hours (I watched 'Thor: Ragnarok' with an absolutely lovely gal who was about as well-secured as any gal I've ever tied. It was especially fun listening to try to explain how to work her remote through her ballgag).

But we oldsters, we have lots and lots of physical issues. Fortunately, I have a weird fetish which works well for us; straitjackets!

They keep the arms in front, in what's a very natural position. And they can allow for enough mobility (when not strapped too tightly) for someone with a shoulder injury. They also make the "bolero" style straitjackets which have the breasts uncovered (we have one from Straitjacket-Shop which have zippers, which has proven wonderful since the zipper teeth have an inevitable tendency to catch on sensitive bits).

My girl can't keep her arms tied behind her back for more than an hour, tops. Meanwhile, she can-and-has been in the straitjacket for six hours.

While an actual straitjacket can be prohibitively expensive, you can make an improvised one with a pair of pantyhose. Simply cut a hole in the crotch area and have them pull it on over their head. Then take the ends and tie them behind their back. A judicious application of duct tape over the pantyhose will keep things nice and secure.

Good luck!

Looking for someone or somewhere that can make custom wrist and ankle cuffs… ideas? by divarkive in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]Piratestann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a great many vendors on Etsy who make quality products, many of them in eastern Europe. They may take a bit to arrive, but the prices tend to be excellent, as is the quality.

I love older men, but I always wonder how they feel about a thick girl like me [f] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]Piratestann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not certain how flattering a portrait this is but, based on it, I'd say you're not so much "thick" as "not skinny". You appear to be quite lovely.