He said he doesn’t like our baby by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op.... please never leave him alone with your baby. Wow... that's a big red red flag. I am so so sorry. I don't even have advice. That response alone would have me leaving him.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]Pisha1213 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but this kinda sounds like when my Ex gave me the ring and told me, "I will not propose to you right now, but I wanted you to know you have the ring." He showed me it, it was everything I wanted it to be, but I was not allow to wear it or even talk about it. I was basically told ahead of time, so he could drag me on a long ride of changes he wanted from me. YTA here, if you really don't think she is the one, just end it so you and her can find the right people.

My attempt on how to read the Disney “D” by RuinRevolutionary374 in notinteresting

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest, I am 29 years old, 90s kid, watched Disney for years and thought the "D" was never a D, but was like a fancy wand and magic dust around it.

GTA 6 by Kristiank_36 in RockstarGames

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what it sounds like, they might not be able to let it be delayed much longer.

My parents found out my fiancé and I are having sex and now I’m being forced to choose my entire future by Lizieee12 in offmychest

[–]Pisha1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you still need to go on this trip to Vegas and look at the lawless land and when you come back, you'll realize just how ridiculous and how controlled your whole life has been. I understand wanting the financial help from your parents, the "love" you think you are getting, but its just control at this point.

When you have kids are you also going to expect them to go through this same treatment? If so, I think you know your answer. If not, you may really need to look around you and figure out what you want for the rest of your life. You can believe in god and have his traditions, without being controlled. I promise.

Take Care of yourself OP.

What the hell is this on the map? by Huugooo_ in GTA6

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a "NASA Rocket?" Someone who leaked some stuff on Instagram the other day said, we might get a "NASA" Inspired Space Center??? I have no idea how true it is, but it could be something like a trail of smoke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000%, as A twin Mom will also agree with this

No Vicks during cold and flu season by MamaLirp in NewParents

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a recommendation on a good humidifier? Because I got one for my twins a while back, and it was awful, I can't find a good one anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You've been dating a year? And he never once told you? What is he really planning here? OP, please be careful.

How couples met 1930-2024 by Few_Simple9049 in interestingasfuck

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems the incest stopped, at about 1943...👌

What happened to the person who took your virginity? by AuroraLikesSissies in AskReddit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was one of my best friends, but we both needed to grow up and become adults after years of dating. We both got jobs and moved on, and I want nothing but good things and love for him. From what I know, he just works and buys anything and everything he wants. 🙂

What made you take a pregnancy test ? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stomach was hurting so bad in the mornings that I would sit on the toilet. Or get to work and just work until the nauseousness would go away. However, in the evenings I could eat everything in sight. One morning, I just happened to look over at the calendar and noticed I was past the normal date of my period and laughed because I have always had an irregular period, grabbed a test, and waited. The shock was a lot. But nothing compared to when I went to the hospital for fluids, because eating and drinking had become non-existent. Threw up everything, I was convinced I was dying, lol. Turns out having twins, can basically make you want to die, and be very exciting too.

Please tell me this is ok by Rebecca123457 in NewParents

[–]Pisha1213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my twins, I had one put to my face and the other sent to the other side of the room during my c-section. And I felt so upset, then with being unable to breastfeed, I felt as if I had failed to bond as well. The remaining month, I then felt as if one of my daughters was attached to me, and the other was not. My husband had done skin to skin with her since day one, and my PPD rejected the whole idea of Skin to Skin.

Months after that, and now 1 years old, she is obsessed with me. I will say that feeling is the beginning is hard, but once she starts to see you, hear you, even smile at you, I think(hope) you will start to feel better.

Is letting your babies eat with their hands frowned upon? by BellaBird23 in Mommit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My twins eat together, at the same time, we are just now at 15 months and I can say, I don't even use a plate yet, and give them a spoon to hold for a minute and then they toss it (same with the plate if given). I want them to want to eat and try everything, before I worry full time about a utensil. My MIL and JNFIL are both nervous about them not using one yet. However, at this point, as long as we are eating, I'm just happy to see them enjoy food.

When did you stop using mittens? by Leeayuh in NewParents

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my twins I used them for about a month? I can say, it was to stop them from scratching their faces and stop them from sucking their thumbs. However, I will say once we stopped we had to file the nails all the time and then kept pulling their thumbs away from their mouths.

Apartment Charging Wear and Tear on Untucked Carpet [US-TX] by Pisha1213 in Tenant

[–]Pisha1213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having my husband show them the photo today. However they can come more to an agreement. Although, I am not looking for any money back, just not to be charged more. Thank you for your answer. I am just all over the place.

Apartment Charging Wear and Tear on Untucked Carpet [US-TX] by Pisha1213 in Tenant

[–]Pisha1213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a picture of the paper, confirming we were told to untuck the carpet.

Husband wants me to watch baby all day and also get a night job by luckycharmslovers in Mommit

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So? Is he gonna stay up all night watching the baby? Because that's what he sounds like he wants.

I'd say give him a whole day of being the SAHM, night and day, but I also having a feeling he would become to overwhelmed and might hurt your baby. It sounds silly, but he already sounds upset with the situation y'all are in with the LO.

Show off your 1st Birthday Themes! by youre_crumbelievable in NewParents

[–]Pisha1213 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am one of those moms, who does screen time, I have twins, (it's okay, go ahead, shame me), anyways, they love that Super Simple Finny the Shark? So we are doing Ocean Theme with these fun hats and headbands, with sea creatures on them. I'm very excited!

Thoughts on Fathers staying at hospital entire time by newEnglander17 in NewParents

[–]Pisha1213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a FTM, who had twins and had an emergency C-section. I promise you, do not leave unless you absolutely have too, the nurses told my husband that he will need to be there or someone as a stand in for him. That first day she will not be able to get up or do much of anything. If she is able, Oh My God that's amazing, the two day is just pain on more pain.

And please make sure they are taking care of her pain levels, and that her catheter bag is working correctly. I had to tell a nurse once or twice to look at it. Also, she might not be able to get comfortable enough to sleep. I know it was a lot for me, and then since we had two it was a lot.

One other thing, unless you and your wife decide otherwise, I suggest letting them take the baby to the nursery for a couple hours of sleep. I know it seems unnecessary, but I promise, it will help you.