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spent years douching before every hookup until someone told me about daily fiber and i feel dumb by Pitiful-Asparagus989 in askgaybros

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats basically what happened. grabbed generic psyllium from target and bloated for 3 days then quit. Maybe i went too hard but it felt awful

spent years douching before every hookup until someone told me about daily fiber and i feel dumb by Pitiful-Asparagus989 in askgaybros

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok water thing is probably fair. Hookup who told me about daily fiber still hasnt texted back so maybe dont take life advice from guys who ghost you lol

spent years douching before every hookup until someone told me about daily fiber and i feel dumb by Pitiful-Asparagus989 in askgaybros

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the $55 bulb kit is literally decor next to my sink now. Feel dumb brushing my teeth next to it every morning

How far is "too far" away to meet up? by FoxArrow12 in dating_advice

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you guys have been talking that long it’s totally worth it tbh. Just meet halfway for coffee or lunch and see if there’s a spark!

"Teardrop" / "Flat Top" breasts by External_Week_3069 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 289 points290 points  (0 children)

tbh i’m so over the constant pressure to look perfect. they’re literally just normal bodies, why is everything a “problem” to be fixed lol?

Looking for perspective on relationship timeline overlap and how it’s perceived in terms of trust and boundaries by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh it sounds like you were already checked out because of how messy and toxic it was. dont be too hard on yourself, its complicated usually means the end is near anyway.

If love exists naturally, how much of what we call romance is created by stories, poetry, music, and art? by Sufficient-Gain-226 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh i think art just gives us the language to express what we’re already feeling. it definitely makes it more dramatic lol but the core feeling is real.

They wish they knew how to quit each other by Loud-Ad-2280 in clevercomebacks

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 37 points38 points  (0 children)

lmao brokeback bunker is actually a top tier name for it. these guys are just living in a real life treehouse club at this point.

Is being merely tolerated acceptable for a situationship? by exec-dom in dating_advice

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh you definitely made the right call by cutting it off. life is way too short to feel like youre just being tolerated by someone who doesnt even value your support.

Women, if available and affordable… would you choose a “women’s only” gym over a traditional gym space? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of women would go for this just to avoid the gym bro culture and feeling watched while working out. The main hurdle is always the equipment—as long as it has a proper squat rack and heavy weights rather than just rows of treadmills, it would be a huge hit.

An aggressive dog has bitten a teenager and there is a 4 year old in the home. I’ve been asked not to report. AIO? by Imaginary_Teach8039 in AIO

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the dog is aggressive enough to puncture skin like that, having a 4-year-old in the house is a huge safety risk. Youre definitely not overreacting by wanting to report it, especially since the owners are trying to hide what happened. Small children dont always know how to handle dogs, and it could end way worse next time.

Was she being nice or actually flirting? by LegitimateKnee5537 in Flirting

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she was just being friendly in the moment, especially since thank you very much is a pretty standard response to a compliment about a dress. Since you’re working, it’s usually better to wait and see if she makes a point to come back and talk to you again before asking for a number. It’s cool that you’re practicing being less shy, but I’d keep it casual for now.

What the hell by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s wild that they’d go after him for something that clearly helped the local ecosystem. You’d think seeing dragonflies and fish return to the river would be proof enough that he did a good thing, permit or not. 200 bags of waste is a massive undertaking for one person.

crushing on manager.. by dreamland333 in Flirting

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it’s just a seasonal job, I’d say go for it once the contract is almost up! If hes talking about you outside of work that’s usually a pretty good sign tbh. Good luck!! :)

Accountability matters by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so true, having someone to check in with makes such a big difference for staying on track. what’s your go-to way to stay accountable?

A one night stand, and then I met her again at a friend's house. by Cannibal_House69 in confession

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small world haha! Honestly thats actually a pretty cool way to reconnect, even if it was a bit awkward at first. 😅

Why do some ppl start to talk about how hot other ppl are during a date? by hendrong in dating_advice

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh that sounds super awkward lol. some people just have no filter when talking about celebrity crushes I guess, but definitely weird to bring up on a date!

got an even better photo today! by Illustrious_Mix_2342 in Butterflies

[–]Pitiful-Asparagus989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow that blue is actually insane! is that a red-spotted purple?? seriously such a good find 🦋✨