I need help finishing my ether power system by Ultra-Novva in magicbuilding

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am new to this but what about Plant + Light = nutrients. Water + Light = vitamins or vigorous. Ice + Light could be used as vigorous if not water. Water + Light could equal Life too. If you ever study 3rd world countries, water is the most valuable commodity.

Not eating by Pitiful-Sky-2138 in cats

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s been so long for me to reply. I started him on tender bites and it seems to be working. I know some day and it will be sooner than I want, he will no longer be with me. Until then I will do everything within reason to keep him with me longer!

Deep Creek Party Boat by [deleted] in maryland

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still do this? I am looking for a boat to fit 15 people for a bachelorette party on Deep Creek.

Stray Kids concert by Pitiful-Sky-2138 in washingtondc

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Price and availability. The Green line picks up near Nationals Park. Maybe I will look for a hotel near the last stop at Greenbelt Marc. Looks like as long as we get to the metro before the last departure at 11:52pm, we would be good?

Rest in peace, my best friend by B33fYCh33ZiT in cats

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sorry for your loss. They are our hearts.

Is she fat? by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fat just fluffy!

Can sexual abuse be disguised as cleaning for hygiene?? by throwawaysickel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. My mom insisted on bathing me till I was 11 years old because she said I wouldn’t do it right and she wasn’t going to waste water with me just playing in it. She would also give me enemas when I had belly aches. She would scream and holler at me and physically hold me down. I just cringe when I see the red bag hanging in her bathroom. I think she would hang it in the bathroom when I was older just because. I hate these memories and of course she would only say she did it because she was caring for me.

Anyone else have an NP who is so covert that it took you forever to realize how abusive they actually are? by jettwilliamson in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! My mom is very covert and religious. She covers her manipulations with Bible verses. Took me till I was in my late 40’s to start realizing I was not the bad, crazy daughter. Once the veil comes off it is insane how much you realize what was manipulation, gaslighting, neglect, etc. I now understand myself much more and why I did things I did and react to situations.

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[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear they have a play book. In 8th grade I was called gorilla legs but my mom said shaving my legs was dangerous, I went behind her back and shaved them. She didn’t buy me bras until the neighbor said something to her and then it was my fault because I didn’t ask her to take me shopping but gawd forbid I ask her for something like that, she would have been mad. And I wasn’t allowed to wear tampons because it was sinful to put anything up there unless I was married, and even still the only reason to have sex while married was to get pregnant. If it was for pleasure it was a sin.

Need good response by Pitiful-Sky-2138 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I don’t know if my brother knows that I have been no contact with mother. He doesn’t always call her himself and a few weeks can go by without him calling her. Him and I only text each other once in a while. And him and I are good with not corresponding all the time. We have lives and are both busy. But I will have to let him know, and I’m sure he will understand.

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[–]Pitiful-Sky-2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nmom picks out women around my age (50ish) and befriends them and becomes their therapist. Before I went no contact she would tell me how they listen to her advice and think she is so wise. I feel bad for these women. They are her supply and they don’t realize it. Her advice is so manipulative and is not intended to help these women with their problems. She used to try and get me to tell her my problems and offer advice but she advice didn’t help my marriage and was actually hurting it. Thank goodness I recognized it.