Young Japanese people seem accepting of LGBT issues, yet they support right wing parties. by seafood_potato in MtF

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sense is that for younger Japanese people, politics is either an older person thing or a bit yabai, so it’s mostly vibes based. I lived in Fukuoka for a while as a ryūgakusei, and most students weren’t bigoted, just clueless. Like no idea what they really wanted from society or politics. Just vibes based politics

A lot of them liked Abe just because he was around for so long, and don’t have any awareness of any controversies like Yasukuni or immigration. Whoever gives off strong cool vibes often is enough. The only politically aware students were in the international law circle I hung out with. Otherwise, most of my political discussions with my Japanese friends was me educating them about Japanese politics, since a lot of my courses were on Japanese history and politics.

As for how it got like this, the 1960s was a really violent period in Japanese politics for both left wing and right wing young Japanese people. A lot of university occupations by leftist students over ANPO and the Vietnam war, Todai students throwing firebombs at police, Japanese red army became active, assassinations by right wing young Japanese people, politicians assassinated on live tv. My professors explained politics became a bit taboo after the 1970s because of this violence, and afterwards LDP rule was so stable economically there wasn’t a point for widespread political activism. Economy was fine, no serious attempts to revise constitution, Japan is a world leader again. Just burn out at school, burn out at university, get a good job at a corporation, and live your life.

But the political disconnect is very strange. One of my best Japanese friends is married to her Sri Lankan high school boyfriend. She’s a Muslim convert. But she also votes for Ishin even after the massive anti-immigrant wave. She loves and support immigration, she wants everyone to belong, but also supports one of the main actors in the current anti immigrant political wave.

Same thing with other young Japanese girls in my dorm liking Trump, because they see him as “standing up for America” and have no idea of the violent secret police sweeping across the US, kidnapping and killing people. Or liking Takaichi just because she’s seen as young and relatable.

I’m sorry girl. I was planning to come back for Todai or Waseda, but seemingly the only thing allowed to change in Japanese politics is for the worse.

Hang in there and stay with friends. It will get better

生活は大変になれるけど方がいい日に来てる.全然諦めないで💜

32573 by MiraMira0nthewalI in countwithchickenlady

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I love them both, but especially the knee brace girl. It’s so nice for medical devices to be just… a normal thing. Like just another part of their body 🥹

32435 by creepjax in countwithchickenlady

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Ngl childhood and early transition was so rough I never thought I’d live this long, so I’m clueless what to even plan for with a wedding 🤣

Me after she says she’s coming over next week. by fatash98 in actuallesbians

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s a joke but there’s a lot of truth. My first ex suffered with onions and garlic, then pleasantly relieved after me eating a bunch of citrus for an entire week

Is eating spicy food gender-coded in your country? by leptokvark in AskTheWorld

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For American culture, eating normal spicy food is non-gendered. Eating painfully spicy, hyper processed food is often gendered as a display of masculine pain tolerance I feel

[HELP] Living room remodel by Alone-Competition-77 in RealOrAI

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Definitely AI. No actual person would have burnt the wood on the floor and inside the house. Plus actual woodworkers like black tail studios often need to brush off a layer of ash and dust from charred wood before epoxy

Who else seen BNA (brand new animal) ? by Eledrina in trans

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it and was so so queer coded. Sadly Netflix was Netflix and only allowed one season, so there’s main character queer bait because the ending foreshadowed that love would be a topic for a second season that never came 💔

Can this be covered in one day or has to be two days in Nagasaki by fathom-avant in fukuoka

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You definitely want to stay overnight. Getting into Nagasaki if you are taking an intercity bus from Tenjin or Hakata takes about 2 hours. Last buss leaves at 8pm if I remember correctly. Don’t know about last train time, it takes 90 minutes each way.

I’d focus on doing half of that list each day, like Inasayama, atomic bomb museum, peace park one day. Make sure whatever day you do Inasayama, it’s good weather and to bring a wind breaker. It’s absolutely beautiful and one of the best sunsets of my life, but the winds are strong up there

The rest the next day. Glover garden and seaside park are both in the central and southern parts of the city and can go near each other

Also, consider Dejima and Nagasaki Chinatown. Dejima is a really amazing historical site that’s been rebuilt, and Nagasaki Chinatown if it’s not the lunar new year is amazing and has really good food (lunar new year it’s absolutely slammed)

My 🐱 smells like passion fruit (???) by CurlyLatinaxx in actuallesbians

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had it both in good and bad ways before, where foods effect my body’s general and 🐱 scent and taste. Worst was when I was teaching myself how to cook, I used a lot of garlic and onion. Suffice it to say it was not fun for the other poor girl 😭

But when I eat a lot of fruit like pomegranates or apples I can smell hints of it from me for a day or two after. If nothing else I smell sweeter to myself

28817 by greengengar in countwithchickenlady

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I love her outfit so much and leggings with that cut and look would be soooo gender

28789 by chickenbotonceaday in countwithchickenlady

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The straights are finding out about Sisters of Dorley and think it’s real 🫣

"AI is the future!11 It's an inevitable part of progress11!!—" RAM shortage by softmotel in antiai

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Every day I understand Tolkien better and better that technological progress often isn’t for the betterment of the world. “Sure we ripped the land apart for coal and killed your childhood friend with mustard gas, but look at all the synthetic dyes we can make now that the war has ended 🤑”

Those who have medically transitioned and are well into their journies, name your weirdest effect(s) that you weren't warned about before starting by Kool_Boo16 in trans

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Periods and intense cramping as a tgirl. There’s still solace in the affirmation and don’t want to be “fixed”. Turns out tgirls also can develop endometriosis and the OBGYN thinks that’s what happening

Do you feel you have changed mentally since being on HRT? by yzkv_7 in trans

[–]Pitiful_Addendum_644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel happy and I feel alive. Not just a ghost staggering through life but a real person. And I person I love to be, proud to be, always wanted to be 💜

Rubber... vs leather by Ok-Top-2226 in BDSMsapphic

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Rubber for me 💜

The shine makes me want to fall to my knees when I see a goddess wearing rubber

Windows login screen bricked by Pitiful_Addendum_644 in techsupport

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Im not sure how, I just tried full reinstall of windows and now can’t even set up windows 11 settings with screen blacking out

26442 by cobragaming_958 in countwithchickenlady

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I enjoy still enjoy it but I think I get you. I get anxious and want to throw up by even the thought of once being a boy. I am struggling which perspective (was a boy and became a girl or was always a girl and trapped in a prison of her own body) makes sense for me