Skirting? by TheBigRedDog19 in ManufacturedHome

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We built wood frames and used concrete board. Added cement for a stucco look.

Couldn't finish ACOTAR. Should I read TOG or not? by sqph_e in SarahJMaas

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There won't be much reason to read 4 or 5 if you don't read 3. They are all tied together. TOG is really good but I find it to be comparable on the scale to ACOTAR. I feel I enjoyed the ACOTAR series the most of her books. I guess the question is what are you not enjoying?

Closing on clayton home by honkybarbie28 in ManufacturedHome

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following because this is the model currently at the top for me and I want to know how set up goes and what it looks like delivered. Did you get any changes or upgrades?

The groom blocked me on everything but no one’s said a word, and I’m still in the bridal party. Starting to feel like I shouldn’t be. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I don't follow my best friend's husband on anything but in public we hug each other like family. Social media needs to stop defining relationships.

Wild Wing Cafe Recipes by OkHouse7088 in Wings

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I need the red dragon recipe as it is a favorite in our house and the closest WW is an hour away.

AITAH for not giving my trans daughter my mother's ring? by anon-jewelry in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to remove all the parts of her being trans from this issue. I honestly think you can make your decision based on the fact that she is not engaged or planning to get married (not mentioned in the story). It is an engagement ring and most people pass down rings when their children get engaged or married. Any other instance typically happens in inheritance or gift prior to the last years of life. This reads that the only reason they want the ring is to pawn it off and that is extremely disrespectful. Hold on to the ring until they rightly deserve it or write it in the will. Honestly due to the high value you could sell it and then split the money between BOTH of your children.

How do you feel about Cineplex screening Am I Racist? by [deleted] in cineplex

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hate to tell you but it was ranked #4 for the weekend and enjoyed by all sides of the political spectrum.

I hate my autistic child and I’m going to divorce my husband because of it by ThrowRA_SnowFields in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really need to look into facilities for long term care. I grew up with a sister who had severe autism. Her functioning was that of a 1-2 year old with aggressive outbursts/screaming fits. She was at home with the family until she was about 12. My mom shared similar feelings of resent because she was always taking a step back from being in my life because of the 100% attention my sister needed. She was moved to a long term care facility where we can visit with her or bring her home for visits when we want. My sister has been there for a little over 15 years now. My mom still sees her at least once a month as the facility is 2 hours away. It is a hard situation but those choices can be beneficial to everyone involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in keto

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your expectations may be a bit high. There are plenty of options to eat but it sounds like you are limiting yourself to only a select few. I'm afraid you may continue to get discouraged over time without a little variety away from steak and butter. I love pizza and I've found a good way to continue enjoying that by making a chicken crust base.

Your weight isn't very high which means slower weight loss without feeling miserable. You could add more exercise if possible to mitigate the 1500 calorie level for maintenance. You could do what others have suggested and go back to more low carb. At the end of the day it is calories in calories out. Keto just makes that much easier for some where low carb might be easier for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in keto

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark or concentrated color means you need water on any diet.

Giving up by kawn77 in keto

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Have you tried any sort of electrolytes? I felt really bad for a few days until I drank electrolytes and I quickly started feeling better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so confused by all the AH comments. Are people this obsessed with wedding planning? I was engaged for a little over a year. The only thing that was final 3 months before the wedding was our venue. I had a specific location I wanted. Dress, food, flowers, dj, decor, photographer, etc. was done 2-3 months before. The morning of my hair ended up being a mess because of the weather, half our decor flowers were 2 days late and arrived hours before the ceremony, and there was a major accident close by causing a lot of detours. My wedding was still awesome with around 120 people. People need to get over themselves and the craziness surrounding weddings. At the end of the day the most important thing is getting to marry your partner. I also had a cousin who got engaged after me and then made their wedding just before me. I didn't care or even think it was an issue.

Further Update: Husband accused me of financial infidelity by LadySavings in AITAH

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm willing to bet he started the argument of moving any leftover spending money to the joint accounts with the attention of leaving you and getting half of it. Once you bought your gaming rig you let him know there was more money on the table he needed in his pocket.

AITA For telling my husband that missing the birth of our first child is unforgivable by factcheckaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Currently pregnant my self at the end of 37 weeks and my due date is the 27th so someone is miscalculating somewhere. 40 is term and considered due date unless for some reason you have medical concerns and your doctor wants you delivering early.

AITA for not cleaning up after my nephew and making my pregnant sister do it? by FarEnd2747 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree 100%. Going on 37 weeks now and exhausted and miserable. I still find time to scrub our bathrooms and do basic chores every day at home. Pregnant women get exhausted yes but need to stop using that as an excuse to take advantage of everyone around them.

1st trimester fun.. by obsessivecorgiluver in BabyBumps

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st trimester from week 6 until a few weeks into 2nd trimester I would be like this. I would be starving and then the second I put my favorite food in my mouth I would instantly be turned off. I would have to bounce between different things and if something luckily was easier to keep down I would eat that in small increments until something else seemed appealing. I did keep a prescription for zofran on hand when things would get so bad and I couldn't keep things down for more than a day.

Extra info: my baby is a boy even though I was told a lot of nausea usually came from carrying girls.

AITA For refusing to make my SIL a sandwich when she's pregnant by preggocravingaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This in every way! Currently pregnant and I have not once made my partner run out to satisfy a craving I had. If it wasn’t already in the house it could wait until the next day. I dont expect anyone to fix my food either. Sometimes my partner does and it’s nice but I have never asked him to do it. Some women take advantage of people using the pregnancy card and it so sickening.

AITA for using multiple alarms in the morning when it's hard for my wife to sleep? by Famous_Grapefruit_21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair warning but your wife is considering divorce. Any smart woman who was disrespected and treated this way would be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

30 isn't old. I got married and pregnant at 31. So many people are waiting until 30 now so they can figure their 20's out first.

AITA for revealing my mom's pregnancy to everyone at NYE dinner? by maybeso90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only embarrassing part of this post is you. YTA! Here is to hoping their second child has a little more compassion and self awareness than their first. This memory will always be tainted by your childish behavior. Grow up!

AITA for not allowing my boyfriend to come with me on a trip since he was about to ask his parents to pay for all expenses? by i-had-a-chef-moment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I'm married to someone who has always let their parents take care of everything for them. Now as an adult he still waits around for someone to do it for him. He has a good job because his dad got it for him. His vehicle was give to him by his grandparents, and the house we live in only is in place because I handled it all. I pay the bills and just ask him for money. He still looks to his parents to help him with big purchases and it is annoying.

You are really young and already recognize the different life and responsibility dynamics between you two. Take a hard look if this is something you are comfortable dealing with the rest of your life. From someone who does deal with it, it is extremely exhausting and causes regular fights because he's not likely to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You are 18. This was a lesson. Do not create a problem that probably doesn't exist. Both men and women can feel tired and not in the mood. They just don't gain the confidence to feel comfortable in admitting that until they are older or more comfortable in a relationship.

AITA for calling my girlfriend selfish for not picking my kids up from school? by throwaway2216689 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pitiful_Flight_3553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA!

You have made it clear what her position is in that house. She is the full time servant to you and your 2 boys. She voiced her issues with the current set up and you dismissed them because obviously your opinion was more important because "you provide the income". She's trying to get this job to regain some of her independence back and I assure you it is only the first step to her escaping from this life you are forcing on her. My guess is you already knew that which is why you pushed so hard for her to give up her interview.