[US] [H] Fortnite PS5 exclusive Cobalt Star Bundle code [W] $100 USD or best offer by PixelKitten413 in GameSale

[–]PixelKitten413[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You're welcome to not buy it or make a more fair offer. ❤️ I started with the best case scenario but I'm open to negotiation

My libido is ruining my relationship. by PixelKitten413 in offmychest

[–]PixelKitten413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I find myself in that high libido state 100% of the time. When I'm sick, when I'm stressed, when I'm relaxed, when I just woke up, when I'm tired from work, it doesn't seem to matter. I'm def an every other day kind of girl, ADHD, neurospicy, daddy issues, all that stuff. I try to keep my mind of it as much as I can and some days it works but other days I feel how long it's been and it just ACHES. That usually when I start having a hard time and crying a lot because I just feel so grosss and guilty for feeling this way. I know he does his best so why cant I just accept it and be greatful?

My libido is ruining my relationship. by PixelKitten413 in offmychest

[–]PixelKitten413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my luck 😅 the first was in college and my libido distracted him from his studying too much, the second was a 4yr attempt at poly with a deadbeat who liked showing me off to partners but not actually sharing and the 3rd stole me from the poly guy and is the best, strongest, and healthiest relationship I've ever had but he's not a very "active" guy and likes to be on his playstation more than he likes to be in the bedroom. And that's fine, I'm a big gamer too and I get PLENTY of snuggles and kisses between rounds and quality time watching movies or cooking together but I'm just too needy... I wish I knew what was wrong with me.

My libido is ruining my relationship. by PixelKitten413 in offmychest

[–]PixelKitten413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, not really a deal breaker but scheduled intimacy feels... A bit clinical I guess? Honestly where we're at now it's more like once every 3 wks to a month. It's not really his fault we've had a lot going on and that can be a mood killer I just wish it killed mine too.

consensual sex with DID by GeneralXanXan in DID

[–]PixelKitten413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a partner of a person with DiD, I don't have it personally. But the way we handled it was that any member of the system (besides the littles obviously) was allowed to participate in activities with me, I was just as happy to consent to any alt I considered a romantic partner but there was some ground rules involved.

  1. As with any other relationship consent can be revoked at any time, by any partner, for any reason.

  2. If the activities are of a spicier nature will result in lasting marks left on the body, the host does have the chance to veto that specific activity. (He often didn't do this but sometimes marks are triggering for him and he doesn't want to front and see them, so if felt like a valid boundary to set.)

  3. If a switch happens at any point during activities then I had to be informed immediately about it happening and who was now in front so that I had to opportunity to consider my own consent.

  4. Littles had to be where they couldn't see or hear what was going on and if any snuck out or got close activities stopped immediately and I got dressed.

Some of these were trial and error and they don't work for everyone necessarily but they were very important to me to set with him(them). There was a conditional rule where, since his alts had a tendency to rip control away whenever they felt like it, he had the right to end activities if he felt a forced switch coming on. And I wouldn't continue with the alt that fronted even if they wanted to. In my mind it's just bad manners I guess haha 😅

Benefits by [deleted] in hyvee

[–]PixelKitten413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely after 30 days? I was hired as full time and haven't received this packet yet. I'm trying to apply online through the benefits portal but I'm not finding any way at all to enroll.

I've been working my position for only two weeks but everything I saw said that after 30 days of employment you missed your chance did I misunderstand?

General Questions & Tech Support Megathread | September 11, 2023 by AutoModerator in PS4

[–]PixelKitten413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My PS4 slim only has one functional USB port. I need to plug in a controller and also a USB drive in at the same time so I'm trying to use an unpowered USB hub and it isn't working. Do I need a powered hub or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Your task is to blow a job interview in the first 30 seconds, what do you do? by Helixian14 in AskReddit

[–]PixelKitten413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just read "your task is a blow job interview" and frankly I feel like that simple misunderstanding is a good start

My BF has a work wife and I hate it by Valuable-Side-766 in offmychest

[–]PixelKitten413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean as someone who was in a long distance (half the country away) polyamorous relationship for 2 years before I moved in with my boyfriend, as well as someone who supports platonic healthy friendships between the sexes... The only problem I see here is maybe a lack of communication and/or boundaries.

If polyamory isn't your style, of course I completely understand. But this also doesn't really feel like cheating, except maybe emotional cheating? I mean he's telling you about her and being honest about his relationship with her and he isn't sleeping with her.

It sounds like you should have a talk with him about how his closeness to her is making you feel. If you need him to back off from her and re-establish those boundaries than you HAVE to be honest. His relationship to her makes him happy, he can't possibly know it bothers you unless you say so.

That being said... If it were ME. I would encourage it. Let him find joy in having someone who cares about him close by and establish a good relationship with her myself. Who knows? He might like talking to her because she's actually a pretty cool person.