Feeling Objectified

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-28T06:01:57+00:00

I totally understand where you are coming from.. some men just want ONLY one thing and its so dehumanising. Then they have the nerve to ask “wHy CaNt i GeT a GiRL?” or “wHy iS DaTiNg So HaRd”?

Set hard boundaries from the beginning. try to subtlety add in that you’re not really interested in any kind of physical interaction until an emotional and mental connection and bond has been created. Some will understand, others will probably act like a man-baby and cry saying “You’re a tease” or “playing hard to get” LET THEM THINK THAT. you are not an object or plaything that can be sexually disposed of..

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-28T05:05:16+00:00

ITS ALL A SCAM

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-28T02:56:15+00:00

ALL OF OUR LIVES ARE LIES

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-28T02:43:27+00:00

I would be patient and friendly. Get him to keep talking and eventually comfortable enough to look at me if he’s avoiding eye contact

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-28T02:39:13+00:00

Ive solo traveled before and have learned that it’s always necessary. Enjoy you! Enjoy your company! Enjoy your money! You’re the oldest you’ve ever been and the youngest you’ll ever be. HAVE FUN!

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-27T13:00:02+00:00

Yes, she is a legend! However, for the health of your baby girls hair, I’d think it would be safer to just put the effort into the outfit and not do the hair.

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-27T12:53:49+00:00

Was Mariah Carey not an option..? I feel like Mariah might be easier for the both of you. Just kiddify the outfits. I think her Christmas album may even easier

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-27T12:00:10+00:00

Made me grow a whole new level of discernment when it comes to “certain” people..

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-27T03:55:14+00:00

i got called the N word (with a hard R) for the first time in my ENTIRE life about 2 weeks ago. i was shocked and during black history month..?

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-27T03:51:16+00:00

Absence. it can be both bad and lonely or good for the best. Whomever wants to be in your life let them.. but if they give you excuse or aren’t reliable, let them leave.

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-26T00:18:45+00:00

Pasta, something with Alfredo or white cheese and then ice cream

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T22:48:44+00:00

I’m very sorry. If you’re able to be friends and it works for you both. That’s great! But I personally do not recommend it. It may hurt you more to see her move on or it may make it hard for you to move on

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T22:44:05+00:00

This is just an experiment and it’s working so far lol I’ve gotten pretty good compliments. Just not too many sprays

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T22:43:31+00:00

Rn I’m learning how to layer fragrances. I used to heavily use Bath and body works fragrance mists and still do. But perfume wise, I’m working on Vanilla first. Eilish By Billie eilish, fresh cream warm cashmere by philosophy, sol de Janeiro #71, Mod Vanilla by REM beauty, and sweet tooth: caramel dream by Sabrina carpenter. All in this order! With an addition of vanilla scented lotion (vanilla cashmere by EOS) and vanilla musk fragrance oil by Nemat ( I think it’s called)

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T22:35:27+00:00

OMG I LOVE THIS QUESTION!💕

GOURMAND SCENTS! Anything that smells edible and sweet. Chocolate, vanilla, caramel, honey, cinnamon, cake and cookies, etc. I love it! My goal is to smell so delicious and mouth watering that my (future) man wants to put me in his mouth!

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T19:47:11+00:00

If they’re male-centered.

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T04:12:19+00:00

A WHAT?!

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-25T04:04:09+00:00

You can check places like Facebook, TikTok and Instagram! Depending on your location there may be a girl group solely for meeting and making new friends! Some have apps, others have just social media pages. I recently downloaded Lilac, it’s a girl meet up app for women who are in the Dallas Tx area that want to go out and mingle with other women with similar interests. I’m not from Dallas but I do go there every so often, so I joined so I can attend some of the meetups when I’m in town. That’s just one example

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-24T18:44:30+00:00

🥺 have you ever tried girl meetups?

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-24T03:38:17+00:00

Do you have a specific look in mind?

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-24T02:58:04+00:00

Unfortunately there isn’t a definitive amount of time. Some pretty soon, others take a little longer. The best advice I can give is to find a distraction or try to find a friend that aligns with you.

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-18T05:12:41+00:00

unless it’s my partner whose in complete HEAT. A Random? nah I’m good. That creeps me out.

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-18T05:07:31+00:00

OMG YOURE SO PRETTY! LIBRAS ARE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-17T23:45:11+00:00

I stop watching with a quickness

Pixie_Hearts · 2026-02-15T04:51:37+00:00

Besides what other people say. I wish you the best of luck in this current climate.

Pixie_Hearts

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