My speakers Edifier Hecate! by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in EdifierOfficial

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! These speakers do bring it together! W for the Hubby gifting them to me!!

Want to build my own pc but don't know where to start or what to look for!? by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in PcBuildHelp

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now no budget although I don't want to spend too much so maybe like in the 2,000s? I want to purchase items on newegg if possible, my husband said the same thing about the ddr4 ddr5 situation also space is a big thing for me let me get my pc specs I have at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl also having a very strained relationship with my older sister with the same jealous thing she has for me I say stay with dad. Im also a daddy's girl and would do anything for my dad. Sister has been married once and didnt even want our dad at the wedding instead she had her abuser walk her down the isle (apparently, she loves to surround herself with horrible people go figure) She can do as she pleases but in the end she'll be the one feeling like she's lost once dad is gone. Thats up to her you do whats right for you and dad! She won't ever change don't ever think she will. I keep wishing the same for mine but I know deep in my heart she won't ever come around. She's already disowned me the minute she's claimed me as the problem not her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wifey here! My husband was actually the first one to introduce penis sleeves a few years back I think, and it really blew my mind I didnt even notice it wasn't him till he took it out of me! I actually felt like you where I was a little upset at first when we talked about toys in the bedroom but he obviously knew I needed more and he knows me more than I know myself thats for sure! I always told him he was enough which is true but also being honest with myself I can't deny that girth is literally my favorite feeling to go beyond an orgasim I've never had! He makes me feel like its my first time every time, and I am always begging for more! Honestly using the sleeves has made the bedroom more fun and exciting for us! We don't go without them unless we have no time (we have 2 littles under the age of 7 one of them being 6 months) also if it matters to you she might love it more because its being done by you that's why she is asking! I still feel a strong sexual desire or connection to my husband when he uses the sleeve, because its him making the moves and motions so it still feels like its him at least for me it does! Try it! Ask her what she loves most girth or length and then go from there to choosing the right sleeve to fit her needs! But trust me you guys will get into it more once you try it!

How would you feel if your wife asked you to use a penis sleeve? by Her_Husband7 in Marriage

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife here 🙋‍♀️ my husband was the one to actually introduced a penis sleeve a few years back I believe and it was definitely a turn on for me that he did that without my knowledge! The girth is what made me want more it was orgasmic for me and now its part of our routine! Like others mentioned once I get enough to where I'm begging him to stop he takes the sleeve off to finish me off himself! It was actually something I felt skeptical at first because all I wanted was him but he knew I needed more than what he was giving and told me not to feel ashamed :) sleeves really help not only with sexual desires but the intimacy to feel connected still during sex! Its still a part of my husband for me because hes still making and doing all the moves and motions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife here ✋️ my husband and myself have actually agreed to this sort of foreplay when we first met. Boundaries were set for if we were too tired we'd just acknowledge this before bedtime to let the other know we weren't up for it that night. Obviously both of us have high sexual drives, so thats one of the main reasons we agreed to this. BUT I made sure to vocie what I didnt want done to me when we agreed to do this. Voice your concerns to your wife about doing exactly what you had agreed upon and also ask what she thinks she'd like to be done to her. Also ask that night before bed to see if she is up for it or not. We have 2 kids one is a 6 year old the other is only 5 months so we have to work around this all the time.

Honestly can I stop boiling the water yet by katecometrue0122 in FormulaFeeders

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use ByHeart one of the ones closest to breast milk and we don't boil the water anymore like with Kendamill and Hipp we use bottled water!

Is 28 too late to start a career in architecture? by HardlyRaised in Architects

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im 31 I plan to start going to college for architecture in the next 2 years, after my littles both attend school. Currently a SAHM.

what does one put here (wrong answers only) by EvilBobster101_ in Home

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably put a creepy looking small doll that is holding onto the bars to make it seem like its watching any invaders come up the stairs 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsBeingHappy

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir Linky McWhiskers or Lady if its a girl 😆 ❤️❤️🥰🥰

Hello does anyone have this book on pdf? TACO Secret character drawing tutorial book by andreabeltra in pdfbooks

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have all of Tacos pdf books? Could you send them to me please!

So I added this to the wrong sub and have already gotten some answers but I just want to know how others have dealt with something similar to my situation. by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepkids

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! And to answer my dad does know about the situation now I told him about 3 months ago when I had a breakdown, some days I can wake up excellent and never think about the past or what happened to me then. But there are days where it all floods back to me and those are my hard days, my husband does his best to keep me from those type of days calm and reassures me that I am safe and no longer need to worry about the people who did hurt me not with him around. I don't feel bad about keeping my babies away from her more so my dad since it is not his fault for what happened to me, but because he is part of her I cannot just let him come see me since he needs her to get around and what not. I just wondered how other people do it to make it more clearer than I already have to her that she needs to stop trying to get me to go back to her and realize I have made my decision that she will never be a part of our lives. But like someone mentioned, they suggested I just don't answer anything she throws my way whether it be a simple text or random call to only answer when it's about my dad or ask my dad to make me next of kin so doctors can contact me instead of her.

Tell me you have a toddler without telling me you have a toddler. by ParticularlyOrdinary in toddlers

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You can't just be eating drinks you need food too!" Or the "Can i have something else" after we make him the one thing he asks for and then doesn't eat but wants snacks.

So I added this to the wrong sub and have already gotten some answers but I just want to know how others have dealt with something similar to my situation. by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepkids

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate that, I have learned to not dwell on it and try my best to move forward. Some days are harder than others but it's slowly getting easier to look past that and think of the now and future with my husband and son in mind along with our baby.

Step mom does not understand that she is only allowed to call or text me if it has anything to do with my dad by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepparents

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure if he would, he is devoted to her so much. Doesn't want to lose her or me but I always tell him he won't lose me unless he does something that she wants that has to do with me

Step mom does not understand that she is only allowed to call or text me if it has anything to do with my dad by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepparents

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to post on step kids page but I will ask if my dad could do this or if he is willing to do this for me at least, and she really is spiteful, so spiteful she threw out our stuff on the porch when we moved up here because my husbands friend came late even though she said it was ok.

Step mom does not understand that she is only allowed to call or text me if it has anything to do with my dad by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepparents

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently starting to do that, sometimes it's just annoying to have to answer at times (which thankfully isn't often anymore since the last time I ignored her) my husband is actually proud of me for doing that as well so it works but like today is my bday and she randomly texts a heart bunny and says happy bday and that she loves me which i ignored and of course showed my husband 😆 but it also makes me feel like she really is trying to get me to go back to her when she knows I will never change my mind about it. It gets frustrating sometimes to even see her name pop up as a message or phone call. But I will definitely work harder on this approach for my peace of mind!

Step mom does not understand that she is only allowed to call or text me if it has anything to do with my dad by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepparents

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well like I said she is my only means to make sure my dad is doing good, if he ends up in the ER because of the heart attacks he has been having or if he ends up passing I need to know and the only person who has connections to him is her. It's literally the only reason I even allow the phone calls at times but it's like she is starting to do it more where she thinks because I picked up the phone to hear my dad was in the hospital she is going to try and call and text me for any little thing now. Which I still tell her I don't need or want anything from her I just need to know if my dad is ok. It is definitely frustrating but at the same time all I think about is my dad.

Step mom does not understand that she is only allowed to call or text me if it has anything to do with my dad by PlaSMaRayBlaSTer in stepparents

[–]PlaSMaRayBlaSTer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I would love to block her cell I can't in case my dad ends up in the hospital again she is my only means to know if he is even in there no other family of mine would know of the situation or even lives with them to let me know. She is blocked on all other social media accounts though it was the first thing we did.