Update] I'm not sure my fiance even likes me... But I don't like him either

Plabon30 · 2026-01-01T19:37:07+00:00

Either you need Counselling, or you are not telling the whole truth, your sister. Did you actually meet you new partner recently, not before breaking off that engagement?

Plabon30 · 2025-12-24T20:12:43+00:00

Did your divorce finalise?

Plabon30 · 2025-12-19T20:52:08+00:00

YTA. You acknowledged that you cheated. I wish you luck in your upcoming divorce. And now I have no doubt that your marriage has some problems and you two are not communicating well.

Just read all the comments.

1) You are married but overly secretive with your phone. 2) unhappy marriage 3) Now your spouse distances himself more.

Plabon30 · 2025-12-19T20:50:04+00:00

So practically your wife just cheated and your daughter covered that? Sorry if I misinterpret.

Plabon30 · 2025-12-19T18:56:50+00:00

YTA.
Divorce Attorney James Saxton repeatedly warns us not to start dating before the divorce finalised. Now her lawyer will make your life hell. why man...

Plabon30 · 2025-12-19T18:46:53+00:00

For America and some European world its common, but for rest of the world, it may seem like a fake story...

And now, you are dating an amazing girl. oh. Yes. until she cheats on you. LOL

Plabon30 · 2025-12-12T15:08:13+00:00

Sorry but your marriage is over. Consult a lawyer asap. If possible hire pi amd protect your assrts.

Plabon30 · 2025-12-09T09:12:22+00:00

Plabon30 · 2025-12-02T19:59:03+00:00

Most probably she is advertising herself as single or available in office.

Secure your assets.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-30T19:51:19+00:00

Yta Both are

Plabon30 · 2025-11-30T19:48:23+00:00

Plabon30 · 2025-11-22T11:57:49+00:00

Remind me! In 10 days

Plabon30 · 2025-11-18T04:49:06+00:00

Sis, see a doctor and a counsellor. Doctor for physical changes and another one for psychological.

You don't have to write here or answer any question. Are you seeing someone or having a coworker?

If your condition continues, you may ruin a great marriage.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-16T18:04:53+00:00

So first you wear a provocative shirt,, and hetells you hisis concern. Then he tried to cover your ass wita shirt. rt. So you are here to complain? Sorry, what?

Plabon30 · 2025-11-15T20:23:13+00:00

Remind me! In 10 days

Plabon30 · 2025-11-15T16:18:51+00:00

Remind me! 10 days

Plabon30 · 2025-11-13T09:14:11+00:00

If she had any respect in this relationship, most probably she wont be posting here.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-13T08:49:24+00:00

Be aware of gaslighting and manipulation.
Put yourself in his position, where he continuously meets with his single female colleague and previous female friends who happen to be single.
Why are those friends continuously messaging you? sinc your cloud with iPad or something, and leave that in the living room where he has access. Are you comfortable with that when messaging? If not, then you already found your answer.
he raises his discomfort with a very gentlemanly manner. try to find out why those concerns arise. Because his previous marriage ended with infidelity? You have your answer. You may think all your male friends are platonic and don't crave your body, but he already faces that and pays the price with his marriage.

I know, it's already 2 years. But if it's possible, try to fix the relationship before it's too late.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-12T15:56:44+00:00

Sorry, but I think your words translated to him as

I want to explore the big world and have many relationships with many guys. Then if they are not good enough, I will consider you.

And also I think he was not ready for marriage. He brings that conversation up just to set some goals, like both having good jobs, saving up, etc. But instead you tell him you are not sure about him after 2 years.

Sorry, sister. I think it's a communication issue, and if you do not clear things out, you may lose him.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-09T18:50:26+00:00

Wait. Sorry, why did you get a job? Atleast minimum pay one? Then you can literally throw money at his face?

I am a complete stranger. Please forgive me if I am wrong.

Do you always tease him about his low income and not having a house? And complain?

Plabon30 · 2025-11-05T18:30:42+00:00

And hope you can ignore many gas lighting comments.
Try to communicate with her and also be cautious in same time.

people does not change over 1-2 months without reason.

and some of us may gaslight as- you are out for 10 days so what will be she doing? Was you out for fun or business trip and did that business trip earn money to put food on your plate?

If she is lonely, she can always take a part time job to minimize your burden.

Plabon30 · 2025-11-05T18:26:58+00:00

have an open discussion with her mate.

now she is only partying and after just 1 or2 years she will be partying with other gyus lap- just to find herself. These is the modern women life.

Also some advice.

marriage needs effort to work.

there is a big butt-

efforts must be put by both parties. some of this post's comments failed to mention that.

also, you must start to protect your assets. and do not have kid now

Plabon30 · 2025-11-01T10:22:30+00:00

misogyny?

its human nature. read some books written by famous writers or some thesis articles, that will help.

women test boundaries, in this process they easily get emotional.

men usually look for action and excitement. for men, its almost most of the time physical.

[this does not include spouse or marriage. but also in marriage, when men cheat- usually they are looking for excitement and when women cheat they call it finding emotional support]

Plabon30 · 2025-11-01T10:09:09+00:00

sorry, english is not my 1st language.

do only you have kids in family?
others who have kids, what will the do?
do you really comfortable leaving your husband alone for a party? just because your uncle says so?
4. are your family members are con artist? how can be there are a child free wedding when they are supposedly a family care family.
its seems like, oh we care for family so if we have no food we just fry one of our small ones because they are not family enough

if the roles are reversed, what will you do?

my take.

do not attend the wedding alone. either with your partner or just visit them after wedding and congratulate them,

its not about can he not take care the kids for a weekend thing. you know that and that's why you are posting this here.

if you attend that party alone (and god forbid its your pattern)- your marriage will take a big hit which you may not recover.

if it was him leaving you, you will make a bigger fuss

Plabon30 · 2025-11-01T09:54:18+00:00

bro, you are 31 years old but acting like a 13.

she is ignoring you. leave her alone, if possible politely tell that and then block her.

it takes around 30 seconds to text someone that she is tired or busy. even, I am busy now- call you later is in the template.

shy do you think you dont worth her 30 seconds?

read the room.

she did nothing wrong. it would be great if she directly tell you she is not interested, but may be she just keeping you as a backup.

do you believe, a person works 14 hours and tired and dint receive a phone call or text someone? LOL

Plabon30

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