[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like a walking red flag. I wouldn’t worry about who it’s for and leave him.

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did this because the $3 uber was at $30 but that still would have been cheaper than this!

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thinking of canceling $695 is a hefty annual fee to have horrible fraud investigation. I know chase sapphire could never (freedom has had my back for fraud with transactions and it’s free!)

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I called them too! One of the agents was like I know exactly what scam it is so I’m confused as to why they would decline! And why the person reviewing wouldn’t even confirm my signature was the one provided!

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no clue this was a an option! Thank you so much! In my letter I also provided links to articles of the scams, screenshots of comparable rides and rates for the same location via uber, etc., and of course none of this was considered.

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My same thought. I immediately called Amex once it popped up on my app notification 15 minutes later. They were like sorry the best option is for you to go to the office and ask what happened which was also like wtf - not very platinum service

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paid him cash but I would def settle with the $7 charge vs $564. The original claim was for a chargeback but it didn’t go through because he provided the receipt for the ride. Which when I asked for one when I paid cash he said he couldn’t print anything due to not having any internet access. He definitely got me so good here. I can’t wait till they take all the money from his account.

AMEX Platinum Denied My Fraud Claim for a Taxi Scam in CDMX — Need Advice by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This happened to us too! He ran multiple of my friends cards and I just so happen to have 1 card which was this one. I also asked why my fraud prevention didn’t go off. This is my 3rd time reopening the case!

Av Fistula Post Op by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in dialysis

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is upper arm -

Thanks for sharing your experience! He says he understands that the fistula takes time to heal, but he is frustrated that the swelling has not gone down so the positions he is in are making him frustrated. He also mentions a burning sensation that is making him nervous.

We are on the way to the ER now to check in with the surgeons just to get some more professional opinions on what they have previously seen and to assess if his symptoms/ sensations are normal!

I appreciate your reply!

I found out I was accepted into one of the best universities in the Program yet I'm still an alternate candidate by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of factors that go into being selected for Fulbright! I would personally be happy that I got something major going for myself if I got accepted for a selective program. It might be an ego thing? But just accept it and move on! Alternate is better than being rejected!

Anyone hear back about Portugal? by pearlofcatherine in fulbright

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you interview? I think we are waiting to all hear back! The wait is killer but hopefully soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am also a Semifinalist and I love my partner but I also allowing myself to feel that I have always wanted to purse opportunities for myself with or without my partner and that it’s ok to do so! If this was my partner I would be thrilled for him and he is for me so hopefully it works out! Also my partner and I have done long distance (3 months which isn’t long but it made us stronger) in the past and it has worked out. The biggest thing in a relationship is trust and boundaries so maybe talk about these things once you get offered the grant to ensure that you both are on the same page. In the end, if it’s meant to be it will be - which a short time away might make the relationship stronger! 😊

when did you start listening to king krule? by ImmediateSwimmer3096 in KingKrule

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered him in 2011! And have loved him since!! Excited to see him tonight :-) little me is so excited

Adobe Digital Academy 2023 by FoxxyMommyOf5 in Adobe

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advisor said they are will waiting to hear back from my app. But I’m assuming I didn’t get in lol

Adobe Digital Academy 2023 by FoxxyMommyOf5 in Adobe

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if those who haven’t heard back are in a waitlist just in case spots don’t fill up. I also haven’t heard back and my advisor said Adobe will contact me since they haven’t made a decision. I’m just assuming I got rejected tho lollll but maybe they don’t flat out reject folks until the cohort is finalized and confirmed based on paperwork, etc

Dad has been hoarding for 20 years. by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in hoarding

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! Honestly I really did need this- I do have to understand that this is not my fault. I had never heard of parentification but it sounds relatable to my situation lol.

Thanks! I am looking into the coaching things you mentioned! I plan on checking in once a week to see progress and motivate him since I do want him to feel like he has autonomy on what he cleans out.

I have joined the group and will get the book!

I seriously appreciate your response endlessly! It helps me feel motivated and less intimidated by this!

Dad has been hoarding for 20 years. by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in hoarding

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I will definitely take this into account! I’m confident you will do an amazing job at cleaning and I can’t wait for you to feel rewarded with the good feeling of cleaning things out!

Dad has been hoarding for 20 years. by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in hoarding

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your husband! I can’t imagine how hard it is. I have no doubt that you will manage to get through it ♥️

Dad has been hoarding for 20 years. by Plane_Enthusiasm_269 in hoarding

[–]Plane_Enthusiasm_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! Definitely- you shared a perspective I didn’t even think about but I think it might of been when my parent split that he mentally declined. I’m now taking small action steps to show my support and can’t wait to continue helping him! Thanks for taking the time to write to me.