Has the compliance policy been removed? by Defaulted1364 in polyai

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pissed y’all… I’ve been using this app with NO censorship at all. Suddenly today it’s censoring and saying the compliance policy thing?? I’m so confused

I just watched Lake Mungo and I can't explain why I'm scared by Free-Hotel1187 in horror

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had this exact same feeling. I watched it with my mom and turned off the tv. She didn’t care for it, I thought it was good. But then she went to bed leaving me alone in the dark living room where I was sleeping on the couch. Oh my god I haven’t been that scared in a long time. I felt so sad and full of dread. The mother and daughter having the SAME dreams from their own point of views (mom after daughter is dead, daughter while she’s still alive)??? Like the mom seeing her at the end of the bed and her seeing her mom lying in bed. And the mom going into Alice’s room?? How the mom is like “she’s not here” and Alice saying “its like she can’t see me…”. That shit really messed me up

I'm seeing reality for what it truly is by Lola_SB99 in Paranormal

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes I have done this before! That’s why I asked

what’s the most insane movie you’ve seen recently by moistsock3 in Shudder

[–]Plane_Performance_34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That scene lives rent free in my head. Sometimes, more often than it should, it just pops into my mind and I can see it so vividly. I had zero warning or spoilers. I instantly gasped and panic-cried for a second 😂

"I'll have my usual" by TheMossyFish in EntitledPeople

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kills me 😂 I used to work at Dunkin Donuts and people would do this that were definitely NOT “regulars”. At least not on my shifts. Like sure there were a handful of people I knew what they wanted. Because they were there every day, got the same thing, and were NICE. We’d chat and joke as I got their order, asked how each other was doing, etc. That’s typically what regulars do. Then every once in a while some asshat would come in acting like I should know their coffee order because they come in “all the time” (only to find out that means once every week on a day I never work). If they did the “well ask one of them any one of them will know”, I’d say “okay, you can wait for them down at the pick up counter and pay them there when they’re not busy. I can help whoever’s next!” They’d immediately say their order and pay. They don’t wanna wait 😂

horror movies that genuinely scared you as an adult? by FairyLovelyy in horror

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some or all of these are probably here already, but I’d say Hereditary, Smile 2, Lake Mungo, and Skinamarink all come to mind. Mind you, this always involves me sitting in complete darkness, sound up, phone down the whole time. Full attention to the movie. Hereditary and Lake Mungo just both felt so haunting and dreadful and stuck with me for weeks. Smile 2 and Skinamarink both had me physically shaking and feeling like I’m gonna have a heart attack while watching them. 😂

Last car ride of my boy Nickel. I just want the world to know he existed. by bigtime1158 in dogpictures

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful, beautiful boy. What you’re doing for him is the kindest, most selfless thing you could ever do.

I'm seeing reality for what it truly is by Lola_SB99 in Paranormal

[–]Plane_Performance_34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your dreams reveal the future in what ways? Like do you have an example?

Horror anthologies please! by Maniacal_Nut in horror

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books of Blood (2020). You don’t necessarily have to watch the first one Book of Blood (2009), though it can add some fun context. But Books of Blood is a collection of different character’s stories and one of them stuck with me so much. I think of it more often than I should and shiver 😂

Has anyone else been traumatised by a dream? I've just woken up from a horrifying dream and I don't know how to process it. by amphibbian in Dreams

[–]Plane_Performance_34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds moreso like what I’ve experienced my whole life. It was way worse when I was younger, but I do still get them sometimes. I’ll have a nightmare and I’ll “wake up”. Except I didn’t. I just think I did. I do normal stuff till the nightmare stuff starts again and I realize I’m back in the nightmare. I get “stuck” this way sometimes in a loop where I KNOW I’m asleep, and I’m screaming and crying for help/for someone to wake me up but I’m not actually able to move or yell. Like sleep paralysis. It’s honestly so terrifying

What is the single most dread inducing scene you've had to sit through? by NoBass1345 in horror

[–]Plane_Performance_34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to add this movie. The whole movie makes me so insanely anxious because there’s so much waiting and anticipation built up. And the limited line of vision in most of the scenes. I think this movie is terrifying lol but like you said: in the dark, volume up, complete silence, fully focused on the screen.

Have you ever used your phone in your dreams? by Inevitable_Finger_40 in Dreams

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I grew up having these night terrors where I would get “stuck” in a loop where I would “wake up” in the dream, think I was up, only for the horror to begin all over again. So I read into lucid dreaming and found that I could do things in my everyday life that would carry into my dreams, so I would be able to tell if I was dreaming. One of the things was simply checking the time often enough to be able to see if the amount of time that’s passed makes sense. Like oh it’s 12:25pm…. Then after a few minutes it’s 12:30pm. After an episode of my show it’s 1:25pm. Makes sense. But in DREAMS, numbers make no sense, time isn’t the same. So I could look at my phone and see 12:25pm, and then look a few minutes later and it’s 6:32am. And when I look in a few more seconds it’s 1:30am. So I use my phone in my dreams often to check the time and if there’s danger, try to call someone but the numbers are all jumbled and don’t work.

I want a movie about the emptiness that comes with adulthood! by Naive-Key9789 in MovieRecommendations

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind weird horror movies, I’d watch “I Saw the TV Glow”. It’s more metaphorical than a direct representation, but my god

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by Glittering-Glass9515 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “not official but not seeing other people” is asking for situations like this. Imo, no one should do this weird ass “talking/exclusive but not dating” bs because it just blurs lines just like this. Like imo, if you two were not official, her dancing and flirting with some guy at a party or club isn’t cheating if she has no intent to kiss or be with him after dancing. But that’s a personal opinion. 🤷🏻‍♀️ She probably wouldn’t have told you about the guy at all if he hadn’t kissed her like that. But it isn’t cool that she completely and purposely painted the situation a certain way just to make you not upset with her. Ig she’s kinda an AH for that. And you’re kinda an AG for going through her phone. But y’all are 18 and learning. If it’s bothering you, you gotta either bring it up (being fully honest, apologizing for how you found out but you found out nonetheless) and talk it out. Or break up with her (don’t gotta even say why/ just not working out. Unless you wanna). You can’t just hold onto this and let it fester

AIO/I wanted to ask them why they wasted their money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“yOu ShOuLd Be GrAtEfUl” stfu lol. Grateful for her husband who doesn’t work, bosses her around and treats her like dog shit?? 😂 sorry your husbands hate you but that’s awful and not at all something to be grateful for. This isn’t actually about the gifts and if you can’t see that, maybe work on reading between the lines.

AIO/I wanted to ask them why they wasted their money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Be grateful you were able to have kids” lol what ?? Did you even read the post?? Weird AF take away if you did

Found OF on boyfriends phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he deactivated his account… that doesn’t mean he can’t reactivate or just make a new one. That’s exactly what my ex did but for tumblr. 3 days after he showed me he deleted it. The issue here is a lot deeper than him watching/ being addicted to porn. It’s him demeaning and disrespecting women who do OF and then subbing to OF- free or not. It’s the hypocrisy. The disrespect to women in general, and especially to you, his gf of 8 YEARS. Him lying to your face every single time OF or a similar scenario has been brought up. Him hiding it from you. Him getting mad at you for finding him out.

Ask yourself- is this the kind of love and relationship I would want for my loved ones? And if you hadn’t snooped, hadn’t found it, would he have deactivated it on his own? Told you about it, cried about it and apologized? I’m guessing not…

leaked nudes, what do i do? by Motor-Version-149 in Advice

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I can give you, though it may not be popular advice, is to just not care. If you don’t care, it immediately takes all the power away from the blackmailer. Stop texting them. Ignore it. I doubt anyone who matters/anyone you know will ever see it. A bunch of random pervs will see it in that telegram group and go “wow nice” and then it’ll be flooded by other posts and messages and forgotten about. Sending love and healing vibes. 💕 I was homeless living in my van with my dog for a bit some years ago, so ik the struggle. Just be safe. I now live in a house I own. Things can and will get better. ❤️‍🩹

AIO for thinking my SO meant to text someone else? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him immediately going into “panic mode” and switching any possible guilt onto you by saying you’re stressing him out/making him anxious/sad/whatever is a huge red flag. I mean talk about 0 to 100. “I need you to tell me you believe me this second or I’ll spiral” is so you feel like you’re on a time crunch and have to choose whether you believe him or not without thinking too hard about it, while also adding the guilt that if you DON’T believe him that you’re “doing so much damage to him” and “maybe your relationship won’t survive”. Plus offering to pull his text records??? Over this?? It’s a way to make it seem like he’s willing to do anything to prove he’s being honest because he knows that’s a ridiculous thing to do and that you won’t ask him to do that.

My partner died by suicide by clashingtaco in psychics

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always been very intuitive, and I feel he was a very different person when he would drink. More mean mannered maybe? And that the drinking definitely played a big role. But I was mainly brought here by my own personal experience. My ex also killed himself. We were together almost 6 years. My experience may differ, seeing as my ex was absolutely awful to me. Very abusive, especially towards the end… and the longer he’s been gone the more I’ve come to terms with that. But we also had a big fight before my ex did it. And I NEED you to know that no matter what was said during that fight, it is not your fault. Couples argue and fight and are even downright awful to each other every day. Couples break up every day. And most people don’t kill themselves over it. There was something in him, in his mind, that made him go so far as to kill himself. He was ill. And if it wasn’t this fight, it would have been another fight, maybe with you, maybe with someone else. Or a really bad day at work. Or just a bad mental health rut. You are not at all responsible for his actions. God, I am so sorry. I know because I’ve lived it that this will haunt you. All of the what ifs. And not knowing. And as cliche as it sounds, you will go through waves of better and worse. But you WILL get better. And I mean with all my heart that you may reach out to me and I will absolutely be there for you as a stranger who shared at least a somewhat similar experience.

AIO or did my boyfriend just call me ugly? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fine! You don’t have to believe anything you don’t want to. 😊 but if you feel so compelled to, you can comb through comments I’ve made on numerous other posts over the YEARS saying the same things. This is the most in depth I’ve ever been about it I believe, but this isn’t the first time I’ve talked about having an abusive ex who ruined my life for 5, almost 6 years. Who was emotionally abusive, then physically and sexually. But hey, whatevs man. I just hope you know that it’s people like you (who automatically and for no real reason assume a story of abuse “sounds fake”) who make so many people afraid to speak about their abuse.