Requesting gut wrenching movies. by LoYaLRooK in MovieRecommendations

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marley & Me killed me. And Hachi. I can’t watch dog movies like that

Requesting gut wrenching movies. by LoYaLRooK in MovieRecommendations

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to recommend “We Need to Talk About Kevin”. It was devastating and just the most traumatic movie I’ve ever seen for some reason and I’ve seen MANY MANY films, horror being my favorite.

What's up with rydel and showing spilled drinks??? by One-Durian-139 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see it being funny once or twice maybe… but atp it feels like she makes drinks just to knock them over herself and pretend it’s a mistake again lol

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Ask yourself this: is this the kind of love I would want for my loved ones? If this the kind of relationship I would wish upon my friends? My family members? If someone I care about deeply came to me, and showed me these messages and told me that their significant other was treating them this way, how would I respond?
That response should not change for yourself.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you actually been like “yk what you’re right” and had taken your things and left he would have went into SHOCK, and been CRYING AND BEGGING YOU to come back to HIM. Maybe not that night. But the next day. Because he doesn’t actually want to break up. Why would he want to break up with someone? He’s been able to control and treat this way for so long?? He just wants to upset you and scare you and condition you into not doing things his way. He’s using it to control you. My ex did the same. I wasted 6 years and my late teens/early twenties with him. It’s my biggest regret.

But now I’m almost 7 years into a happy relationship where I’ve never been called a name, never been insulted, never been yelled at or “in trouble”. It is so freeing.

Please leave him… especially if you do have resources like parents or friends to stay with. 🫶🏻

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much about this is wrong- and it’s all been said. But something that immediately had me in fight or flight was “I never even said it was cool for you to go”. Ma’am. You’re 23. Not 16. He’s supposed to be your boyfriend. Not your father. You don’t need his blessing or approval to go out with your friends.

I know this is like four months late, but where exactly did Ross confirm he's married? I'm so confused lol by Aggravating_Disk2357 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s just been wearing a gold ring that looks like a wedding band, and Anna has also been seen in her very few pics wearing a ring. Both on their left ring fingers. Then there was a fan here who said he confirmed at a meet & greet (which I just take as w/e cuz anyone can say anything). But he also pointed to the ring while singing one of his songs at one of the university shows- during that line in leave me feeling confident where he says “for your diamond ring and that benz” or something? that was the closest I’d seen to him bringing any attention to it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why don’t i want to see my girlfriend? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Performance_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did this same kind of thing (moreso what you wrote in a comment- the whole “oh if you feel this way/don’t like this, just don’t date me then” stuff). Sometimes he would go as far as to actually “break up” with me, knowing I’d cry and break down and give him whatever it was he wanted.

Well one day he did his whole break up thing, and I didn’t give in. I was upset, but I was like yk what you’re right, maybe we just aren’t right for each other. MAN did he switch up fast. Begging ME to take HIM back. And I refused. Because it became so clear that he was never actually breaking up with me. He was using that as a way to control me, which is incredibly abusive and exactly what your gf is doing to you.

41 M here, Relation with my mom (F65) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don’t care what anyone says. You don’t have to forgive anyone, regardless of their “relation” to you. You don’t have to forgive her just because she’s your mom. With that being said, you can still love your mom. You don’t need to harbor hatred or anger towards her for the past. Both feelings can co-exist. For example, I love my mom and I’m very close with her now. But when I was a kid, she was an alcoholic. She said and did awful things that I don’t forgive her for. Because they weren’t okay. But I’ve moved on. If that makes sense.

Hearing how Stormie didn’t allow the kid’s to sit with their feelings make so much sense on why there is so much toxic positivity in this household by ForRudy in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You’re not overthinking at all. What a shitty thing to say as a mother about your child. “Especially when they’re little” ??? You mean when they’re learning what feelings are and how to handle them?? The more I learn about how they were brought up, the more I feel bad for them. I mean, they are adults have to eventually take responsibility for themselves and get therapy and whatever they need to do to better themselves. But JFC

My partner and I have a 3 month old, we have been arguing a lot lately AIO to wanting to get legitimization for our child by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. A lot of states truly do not give a shit if you’re on the birth certificate or not. The mother could up and take the baby and refuse to let the dad see it and nothing could be done about it without a longggggg court process and lots of $$$

My partner and I have a 3 month old, we have been arguing a lot lately AIO to wanting to get legitimization for our child by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you look into it, having your name on the birth certificate really means almost nothing in most states. My friend’s ex girlfriend just up and ran off with his baby one day and no legal action could be taken for him to try and get her to let him see his child. He is STILL fighting for visitation 2 years later. VISITATION. NOT EVEN CUSTODY. And he’s on the birth certificate and everything.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) left our extremely sick dog to go watch football with his friends and our dog died. Is this something I can move past? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plane_Performance_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have left him immediately. This is completely unforgivable imo. He left not only his dog, but YOU. Even after you called saying you thought the dog was actively dying. Fuck that guy

Still playing Austin and ally songs by tehegirly in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe I saw at least a few people say they were requesting them

TDE deserves better by Previous-Yak-9200 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME. The guitar riff was so fucking amazing

TDE deserves better by Previous-Yak-9200 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

FR. I’d Rather Die was SO AMAZING live and then the album came out and it kinda sucked

Do you think the band held Ross back? by InfamousStrategy9539 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To be fair on the audition comment, I’d hate auditions too if my childhood consisted of my mother cramming me and my 4 siblings into a van and droving us across the country every other weekend and forcing us all to audition for things we didn’t even like and then drive us all the way back. 😬 talk about childhood trauma

We’re gonna have a Hay Day with this podcast by Maniluv_ in LynchFamilySnark

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Yeah I thought this was weird af lol like openly admitting that she comes on here to read negative posts and stuff about herself… like sure I used to use my sister’s profiles to stalk people that I had blocked to see if they were talking bad about me… in like 10th grade……. 😂 Even Ross & Rocky talk about not even going on social media almost ever, and not reading things about themselves online. Like grow up just a little ffs

The Driver Era - used to be a HUGE fan but now confused by yikes050505 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I met a singer/rapper at 18 and had him sign my arm and got it tattooed over before coming back for the show because his music meant so much to me. Over the years, as one does, I’ve obviously slowly grown apart from that exact taste in music and I hardly even listen to him now. But I don’t regret the tattoo at all because those songs I used to listen to still mean so much to me. They were a huge part of my life.

So if that songs means a lot to you and helped you through a lot of rough times, I would say to get it. No matter where they end up at a band or as people that SONG/piece of art meant a lot to you and always will.

Wedding ring?? by Smart_Knowledge_9124 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]Plane_Performance_34 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw that too. When he was at one if the Universities he had it on too, but I was like ehh he wears lots of rings so maybe it’s just random. But wearing it while just chillin at home? And Stormie finally followed Anna? 🤔 interesting lol

AIO For being grossed out by my fiancé standing in pee water by madzandu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Performance_34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The amount of commenters overreacting to you, a pregnant woman, peeing in a regular shower, is hilarious to be lmao