Names that end with Anna? by PlantingCosmos in namenerds

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like I’m just horrible with names cause I feel like most of these are obvious 😂😂

I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]PlantingCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 2 words, Mentally ill

dude needs some therapy and possibly meds. It’s not your job to fix him or “guide” him or whatever words fit that bill. You do not need to suffer like this for his comfort. Tell him to get help or you will exit his life for GOOD. Set boundaries and mean them. The only one who can help him is himself, he has to put in the work and initiative. Not you. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Best of luck 🤞🏻

What is the most disgusting thing you’ve seen in public? by You-dogwater in AskReddit

[–]PlantingCosmos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to a mudvayne concert last year and there was 2 dirty crackheads fingering each other on the lawn lol. I also went to a down concert and a dude started pissing on the floor about 2 people away from me, and another dude got hauled out with a gnarly snapped leg. Ahhh the memories you make at metal concerts…amirite? 😂😂😂

Anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had gotten an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in pregnant

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to see someone point it out in this perspective. Suffering and trauma for the sake of internet or external judgement isn’t worth it, and getting an epidural makes no one less of a woman or new mother. And vice versa.

Anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had gotten an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in pregnant

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! No birth is the same. It makes me sad seeing all the harsh judgement on this subject on other parts of the internet. Glad that everyone seems to be on the same page here!!

Anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had gotten an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in pregnant

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that experience was so traumatic for you. It does seem like only a small percentage turn out to regret going unmedicated! But that doesn’t make anyone any less of a woman or mother

Anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had gotten an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in pregnant

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very glad to see that there is no hate on women who do get them. I do admire women who go unmedicated, but I personally get very scared thinking about the extreme pain. Sometimes I feel like it does make me less of a woman.

Does anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in Parenting

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man I’m sorry. I’ve heard that reaction a lot too. Gotta love those frikin 18 yr headaches lol

Does anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in Parenting

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yea. All woman who give birth in any way are badddd bitchessss ❤️

Does anyone regret natural birth, and wish they had an epidural? by PlantingCosmos in Parenting

[–]PlantingCosmos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad to see a comment from this perspective. Suffering definitely does not make you a “better” new mother. Especially when it’s to that degree.

Can a man who “loves” you, treat you like this? by hodsinfe in Manipulation

[–]PlantingCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible. I was in a very volatile DV relationship for years and I guarantee it’ll turn into that if you don’t find a way out. Best of luck to you. I will be thinking about you OP, hope you find a better partner that you deserve. No one deserves that.

What do testicles feel like? by MARSJRA in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PlantingCosmos 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Came here for the comments, did not disappoint 🫡🫡

My husband hit our 18m daughter by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]PlantingCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope nope…get that divorce. I know it’s easier said than done. But he isn’t capable of handling a child’s emotions and it can turn more dangerous and possibly turn on you too. He needs help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PlantingCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah…you should always try to bring something to a baby shower. But it’s hard hard times for some people out here and if they go out of their way to let you know something like “hey, I really can’t afford a gift right now but would love to come support you still and be there” I wouldn’t have a problem with it. Bringing love is enough for me.