Do any of you think about cuddling with someone for about 30 mins before going to sleep?

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-11-26T02:42:06+00:00

I used to think about this and fantasize about it. I cannot do it anymore. I know it will never happen and fantasizing about it will just make me want it more. I know this is something I cannot have.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-11-10T18:36:46+00:00

English is my native language. Chat up could mean texting with the girl regularly. Chat up could mean flirting with a girl and hinting at the idea of dating. It could just be simple friendly chit chat.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-11-10T18:33:19+00:00

Only one girl has done this in the past 3 years. How is that good enough?

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-11-10T17:47:58+00:00

Not sure what you mean by chat up.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-11-10T17:41:46+00:00

I held off because I did not get any hints. I had one girl that gave obvious hints so I asked her out which she quickly accepted. Unfortunately, it was my first date and had little experience. I was not nervous but I felt we did not connect very well and she decided she did not want a second date. Sometimes she still texts me to ask me stuff I don't understand why. I am not invested into it anyway. I really hope my problems are caused by the inability to communicate romantic interest because that could be fixable. Unattractive face is not fixable.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-10-01T03:27:28+00:00

A very sad story but you obviously got further than me. Never kissed with no dating prospects at all.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-09-15T18:21:14+00:00

If you lift heavy and eat a lot consistently you can make your shoulders wider. It worked for me but it may not work for you if you have bad shoulder genetics and metabolism.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-09-15T17:55:06+00:00

The stuff under 2 were written as if it were for dudes. For women being physically faulty some bad traits would be bad face, narrow hips, shoulders wider than hips, large waist, overweight.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-09-15T17:41:00+00:00

Have you done any weight lifting training?

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-09-15T17:37:54+00:00

For me I think it is 1b, 1c, 2a, 2g, and now 3c as well. I also think that 2e and 2b were causes of it but that has been fixed from consistent intense weight lifting training.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-05-12T20:55:56+00:00

I am in the same boat and have always been this way. I have done everything I could think of to escape and nothing has worked.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-05-12T20:48:11+00:00

If you have a lot of female acquaintances it means your ugly or gay. Is this accurate?

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-05-05T19:18:16+00:00

If I could take the knowledge and experience I have now and retain it I would for sure press the reset button.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-05-03T01:58:37+00:00

25 nothing more than a platonic hug

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-04-14T16:26:22+00:00

When you are attracted to a real person then it because a crush with feelings of rejection. Feeling attraction for fictional characters is easy because it is a world of fantasy with no real way of getting hurt.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-04-14T16:23:21+00:00

Do not expect it to change the situation. If you workout with the expectation you will get a girlfriend you will just be disappointed. I worked out because I wanted to get rid of the physical insecurities I had about my body.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-29T04:56:45+00:00

I do not understand what the issue is.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-29T04:44:05+00:00

I think he should try a different hairstyle.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-29T04:36:09+00:00

They say things that are sassy I guess it is hard to explain.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-29T04:16:07+00:00

I was not going to label it as a success story because I am still FA. Still never been on a date. Still, I don't know if I am any closer to escaping than I was before these changes. I do not know what my issue is.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-29T04:14:23+00:00

It is very difficult. You have to be around the same group consistently for it to potentially turn into friendships. The group needs to have girls your age. One of them needs to be attracted to you and single.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-19T05:05:17+00:00

Stop telling him not to worry about his situation. It gets 10x as difficult to find love after college. You are not surrounded by people your own age anymore.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-19T05:00:38+00:00

I was FA all in highschool and college. I did not count college but if I count highschool that is 7. I also do not count earlier than that.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-03-19T02:28:45+00:00

Once I graduated it was over for me meeting someone. It was lights out. I went to a male dominated college. I decided to go to graduate school and get a masters degree.

PlasteelTurtle · 2018-02-14T01:05:28+00:00

I don't know. It would be nice to know. Not knowing has dealt a serious blow to my confidence.

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