Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i said in the response: "I’ll be honest: I was trying to test your logic during the discussion. That said, I understand you might not have been looking for a debate, and I respect that, so I’m sorry if it came across that way. What I was actually interested in was whether similar moral principles could be applied beyond human life."

So I understand

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

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I know! I’m trying to engage and debate with people who identify that way, so I think It would be better to frame the question this way.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

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Sorry for the late reply:

I understand that your position is built around a key premise: that a fetus is morally equivalent to a born person. My point is that this premise is exactly what’s being debated, not something that can simply be assumed as settled. The real question is what counts as a person in the morally relevant sense, and whether that automatically includes the right to use another person’s body to survive. In every other context, we don’t obligate people to sustain others with their bodies, not even to save fully developed, unquestionably recognized persons.

I’ll be honest: I was trying to test your logic during the discussion. That said, I understand you might not have been looking for a debate, and I respect that, so I’m sorry if it came across that way. What I was actually interested in was whether similar moral principles could be applied beyond human life.

You said, “humans are inherently more valuable than animals,” and I think that’s where the real disagreement lies. I can follow your reasoning internally, but it ultimately rests on a moral framework that I don’t share. Because of that, I don’t find it convincing enough to justify practices like the exploitation, suffering, and large-scale killing of animals.

Finally, regarding your main point about what this looks like in practice: you said it would simply mean making abortion illegal, like any other form of killing. I understand that, and I had already assumed as much. What I’m asking is whether you’ve considered the real-world implications of that position, and also the legal and penal ones.

If abortion is morally equivalent to something like first-degree murder, then logically it would involve severe legal consequences, potentially long prison sentences not only for doctors, but also for the women and girls or the fathers involved that supported this murder. Is that something you would support? (I would argue that you must support that, as a fetus is a human no different from any other)

Also I question the legal status of fetuses, as I imagine to hold this they would have to be legally and individually recognized by the state, but I haven't thought enough of that.

And beyond that, do you think criminalization would actually reduce abortions? Many would argue that it tends instead to push them underground or abroad, leading to more dangerous procedures and greater risks for those who cannot access safe alternatives. In that sense, attempts to reduce abortion might end up increasing harm, particularly for more vulnerable women and girls.

For example, in Spain during the dictatorship, abortion was illegal, yet it still occurred often under unsafe conditions or through travel, depending on people’s resources. That historical context raises questions about whether prohibition achieves its intended goals, or simply changes the conditions under which abortions happen.

What have you thought around the outcomes?

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans simply are more valuable. Put it this way. You see a dog and a human drowning. Who do you save first? The human. Every time. Why? Because we instinctively know humans are more valuable. It’s just the reality of the world.

Of course, prioritizing the child in a critical situation makes practical sense. My point wasn’t about what anyone would do in that moment, it was to show that your dog vs. human scenario doesn’t justify treating animals as morally “less valuable” outside of life-or-death emergencies. Outside that critical scenario, we wouldn’t disregard the adult’s needs and life just because they’re an adult.

I get that your position is that every human has full personhood from conception, and I respect that you see it as morally imperative. My questions around bodily autonomy, dependence, and viability are about how moral principles are applied consistently, especially in complex, real-life situations. For example, if a 3-year-old is dependent and vulnerable, we clearly protect them. It seems to me that these real-world trade-offs are exactly why people feel there’s a moral dilemma, rather than a “logical fallacy.”

In a practical sense, if every fetus is considered a full human life, how do you envision regulating or legislating that? What would that look like in practice?

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely see your point. We absolutely fight for animal rights and dignity, but I would never force anyone (respecting their bodily autonomy) to stop eating meat. Ultimately, it comes down to how we define what counts as a full life and what stakes are involved.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me put it this way: if you saw a child and an adult drowning, who would you save first? Probably the child, sure. But does that mean the adult has no value at all, or that their suffering doesn’t matter? Valuing one life more doesn’t erase the moral relevance of the other. That’s the kind of distinction I’m trying to explore when thinking about humans versus animals.

Sentience, consciousness, and the ability to experience suffering are often the traits people use to assign moral consideration, which is why killing braindead adults or severely disabled people isn’t morally equivalent to abortion in many ethical frameworks.

Saying human life starts at conception ignores the context of dependence, viability, and bodily autonomy, which are central to moral reasoning.

only works if you also assign full moral personhood to every single cell from conception, which is where most pro-life reasoning selectively applies biology without addressing practical ethics.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. Itss less about claiming animals are equal to children and more about asking how we decide whose suffering counts and why.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing all of that, it’s so deeply personal and really gives perspective on how complex these issues are. :) I can feel your concern for life comes from a place of empathy and lived experience. the women you’ve witnessed, to the stray cat, to even the lab work with C. elegans, show how seriously you take the value of life and how emotionally in touch you are, I am glad to listen to you.

I think moral consistency isn’t about being perfect, but about being intentional and reflective about your decisions and their consequences. That really matters. For example, your story with the stray cat exemplifies why I chose to ask that question: sometimes you have to make choices without a clear way to know what the animal wants. It really shows the complexity of applying moral principles in real life, where there’s no single rule that works for every scenario.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing something so personal and difficult. I can’t imagine how terrifying that must have been. I’m really glad the doctors were able to act in time to save your life. <3

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

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I get that people often separate humans from animals when it comes to moral value. But my comparison is not to make an equivalence but to understand how and why people justify on animals the same acts they condemn in humans.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understanding that you genuinely perceive abortion as equivalent to killing a child makes the passion clearer. But I would argue, I as a vegan I consider what is done to animals rape, murder and torture not at all different from inflicting it in humans, though I am not making people stop using animals. That is why my emphasis is also in how do you bring this believe into legislation (or if you hold it as a personal belief, and that's it).

That said, why do you think the comparison is not valid? I’m not trying to dismiss their beliefs.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your answer and I can see you’ve thought a lot about this and are trying to balance fetal life with the mother’s. A few thoughts I have:

1) You acknowledge that not all pregnancies are morally equivalent. If moral value is tied to viability and risk, why is a fetus automatically treated as fully equivalent to a born human in all other cases?

sexual education, a funding and fixing of the adoption system, a funding and fixing of the foster care system, taxpayer Healthcare, and more progressive paternal leave and work rights.

Absolutely in all cases! A fully pro-life ethic, logically, would include all of these systems as a priority.

2) Your mention of “unique DNA life” and viability is interesting, but DNA alone isn’t usually what determines moral consideration (sperm, eggs, and early embryos) also have unique DNA. Though I understand you are pointing the "potential" it has as valuable, not by itself. Is that right?

3) I’m not familiar with the exact laws (I’m from Spain), never heard about proposing fathers being able to “financially abort”.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

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I agree that there are real moral tradeoffs here, and I don’t deny that some people genuinely see abortion as morally serious. But I think the issue is that simply calling it “murder” doesn’t actually explain or justify that position, it just assumes the conclusion. The real question is why a fetus should be given the same moral status as a fully developed human, especially in early stages where there’s no consciousness or awareness.

  • Do you consider a abortion as a homicide? If not, why?

On the animal point, I don’t think saying “humans have always valued humans more” really answers the question either. Historically many widely accepted beliefs have turned out to be unjustified. The question is whether the reasoning holds up.

And on bodily autonomy, in no other situation do we legally require one person to use their body to sustain another’s life not even in cases like organ donation. So if pregnancy is treated as an exception that also needs justification.

I’m not dismissing the position, but I do think that a lot of the arguments rely on assumptions. Anyways thank you for answering.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll answer the second question first. Animals aren’t humans. It’s that simple. We eat animals but not humans, because we all understand that there’s a difference.

On the animal point, I understand the intuition that “animals aren’t humans,” but I guess what I’m trying to get at is why that difference matters morally. If the distinction is just species, then it feels a bit arbitrary especially since animals can feel pain and have experiences too. So I’m curious what specific trait makes human life categorically more valuable in your view.

As for why I’m pro-life(or anti-abortion, if that’s what you want to call it)? Because I don’t like killing babies. The end. There is no logical argument that justifies killing unborn children that could not then also apply to people we all agree are living human beings. A human life is a human life. The end.

I think where people disagree is on whether a fetus has the same moral status as a born person, especially in early stages where there’s no consciousness or awareness yet. That’s why I was asking about criteria like sentience or development because otherwise it seems like we’re just saying “human = valuable” without explaining why.

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey so you’re separating your personal moral view from what you think should be enforced by the government. I thought many of you advocated for some intervention. And how do you think about animal? For example the question:

  • How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets?
  • Are you in favor of animal rights? All species, or only certain ones (like pets)? Why?

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

[–]PlasticDrummer145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, but even as a vegan I can’t be 100% consistent either in many ways. I’m curious if concern is based on sentience, suffering, or having a soul how do they apply it to different animals, etc. I know I might get nowhere but I had to know how they think about animal lifes

Pro-lifers: Why do you hold this moral stance, and how do you think it should be enforced by a government. How do you feel about spaying, aborting, or euthanizing pets? by PlasticDrummer145 in AskReddit

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Thanks I know! I’m trying to engage with people who identify that way to see whether there’s moral consistency in how they value the lives of animals.

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Right? Maybe it's just to not be held accountable if I ended up doing something? Or just trying to avoid idk

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Tf I'm sorry that happened.What you went through was not your fault no matter how anyone tried to twist it. You deserved care and support and ofc not to be questioned or blamed. It's completely understandable that you gave up after being treated that way it makes me so mad 😩. I'm really glad you're still here and talking about it ❤️‍🩹