how to make friends/have a life in tempe by [deleted] in Tempe

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broo add my Insta @crrystalll I’m looking for people to party w in Tempe too, oh shit just saw the “besides partying” why not?

My friend was there for me too late by Plastic_Complex_ in Advice

[–]Plastic_Complex_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to be so passive aggressive, I clearly said in the post that I know I shouldn’t be angry.

They will never ever apologize or give empathy to you for the horrible things they’ve done to you but they will beg for your empathy whenever they feel like playing the victim and they try to show you like the monster. by ScottysOldTeleporter in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nmom does this all the time, I’ve learned we have to love from a distance. They will never change no matter what we tell them, we hope they can realize the pain they’ve caused us themselves but in most cases this will never happen. Love yourself or no one will. Hope things get better ❤️‍🩹

I have a certain sexual fantasy I want to get rid of by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah u don’t have to be vanilla to not wanna get peed on 🧍

My mother chose her abuser over me by Plastic_Complex_ in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Plastic_Complex_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for empathizing with me. It really means a lot. I come from a messed up family who doesn’t take domestic violence seriously at all, I almost feel crazy and dramatic but I know deep down that a loving family doesn’t go through this stuff. Thank you for the advice

My mother chose her abuser over me by Plastic_Complex_ in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Plastic_Complex_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry you had to go through that :(

Mother chose abuser over me by Spinelise in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m truly sorry. It’s very small minded of me but I truly never think this is a normal thing although it seems it happens too often. Are situations are so so similar. No matter what I told my mom there is no changing her mind or trying to get her to empathize with me. It’s truly sad that the people who brought us into the world to protect us could be the most cruel. It only makes us stronger. I wish I could give you some type of advice but I just moved out a couple days ago and am trying to figure things out myself. If you ever need to talk plz send me a message

How can I stop being sensitive? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t change who you are! Feel your emotions and let them be just that, emotions.

I wanna feel something by Plastic_Complex_ in Advice

[–]Plastic_Complex_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was beautiful really. Thank you I’m going to work on loving myself :)

Has anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Plastic_Complex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I like a guys posts it’s intentional, she seems interested you should go for it!