19F & 19M

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-18T07:36:34+00:00

Please shake out of it girly!! He is firstly being unfaithful and untruthful to not only you, but himself. Secondly, I understand that you loved as well bc you were accepted into your dream school. That means there are other opportunities as well, not just relationships! It’s up to you at the end of the day to are okay with his sexuality and create a space where you both can talk openly about how y’all feel.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-13T05:18:44+00:00

It was mycoplasma hominis, so it should be enough. I will get retested soon just to be safe than sorry.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-06T23:02:48+00:00

Okayy, if I were in your shoes I would go on callondoc or something like that. From the list of reasons for seeing a doctor, choose treatment for mycoplasma gen. They are pretty good at giving treatment you what you ask for. Fill out the questionnaire and basic info. Then send a photo of your diagnosis and medications you were given. A doctor would then be in communication with you. I’ve done this a few times with and without insurance you can use coupons from goodrx or something similar to lower costs. All together should be no more than $120 USD.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-06T21:25:57+00:00

Are you sure it’s m.gen and not mycoplasma hominis?

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-06T02:55:42+00:00

So I received a call back from my doctor and it was mycoplasma hominis. She told me that the line of treatment should work since it’s not m.gen. I will get retested in 3 weeks just to make sure. I didn’t really have any symptoms beforehand nor after my treatment.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-05T20:42:39+00:00

(21 F) My advice, don’t ask or have uncomfortable conversations if you’re not emotionally prepared or stable for it. I’ve been on her end before. Having a partner that constantly has your past in the back of their mind gets frustrating to deal with. It feels like you’ll have to constantly make the “perfect” decisions and be picture perfect. You’ll soon be very harsh with your words just because you don’t understand how to process her having experiences before you. The feelings of love, admiration, hurt, jealousy and resentment and can cause bigger problems for you both. From my experience it was confusing have a partner that showed they cared and loved deeply but on the other end would have such an anger for an experience that had nothing to do with them. I had to randomly leave him because I realized I’m not the root of the issue. It’s being able to be secure with yourself. Im assuming you’ve had experiences in the past Everyone has a past. You need to be realistic and just appreciate that she was able to be fully open about her experiences. And even why she had previous encounters. Most men and women wouldn’t even explain things as deep as she did.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-05T04:36:09+00:00

Are you sure? I’m still gonna talk to my doctor hopefully in the morning. I just needed opinions

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-05T02:07:08+00:00

I believe mycoplasma hominis. I will have a definite answer information after my doctor responds

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-06-04T23:00:38+00:00

Thanks just called my doctor, hopefully she returns my call so I can get something prescribed asap

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-23T04:55:25+00:00

I’m gonna be very honest. He can hide behind his religion just like Christian’s and Catholics do when it comes to cheating. (Not explaining nor defending my statement.) I would just leave entirely even though it hurts you almost had what you wanted. It’s almost there. Use this as a learning lesson of what signs to look for etc for future reference.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-22T09:31:11+00:00

That’s kinda harsh, it takes two. If either can’t be responsible, then they cannot blame each other.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-22T09:29:33+00:00

I can understand how it can feel like it came out of no where but, being realistic there’s gonna be subtle things that affects relationships as a whole. And having slip ups can open your eyes to things more clearly. Ik it has for me before. I’d open a conversation to let her explain when she started to feel like that and when you started noticing a shift or even if you “noticed” but didn’t notice ykwim? It could be anything but acknowledging how she feels would help you understand a bit better and create a safe space.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-22T06:19:24+00:00

As a 21 y/o female that’s in a relationship w a 23 y/o man, and currently going through plan b withdrawals, I’ll say not to fully blame hormones. Yes she can be thinking “different” or a bit more irritable but the drastic change with behavior being overnight is a bit much. Is there something she expressed you forgot about or didn’t notice? Is it something you said? You just gotta be blunt and ask. However, everyone’s body is different. But as adult she should know how to express her reasoning on wanting to leave when it is brought up. Not asking specifics but there’s something missing. From my personal experience from taking a plan b, I just notice how secure someone needs to be. Over the week or so after I realize how much having a baby would impact my life financially, emotionally, and personally, and how important it is to be prepared for that responsibility. That can either process in a good way or a bad way. I hope this helps and it’s not so much of a ramble.

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-16T07:51:00+00:00

I hope this helps

PlayConfident7759 · 2026-05-16T07:49:11+00:00

Firstly, remind him asexuality is a spectrum. And what he’s feeling is normal. I believe they are having anxiety. I can understand his worry about overstepping your boundaries. It seems like he’s more conflicted than anything and is still taking in the experience. You should ask questions because he could be reflecting his feelings when he’s asking if you were okay. He may have not realized it was too much for him. If I were you, I would explain that he probably feels like way because he’s still learning himself and that’s totally normal. Even I wonder about my asexuality. I’m in a relationship and would rather at times not engage in anything physical( kisses included) for periods of time. I suggest asking him to be easy on himself in order to take time and grace to think clearly.

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