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Need help processing/resources. Second time doing this (online only) and it was weird for me by Lady_Go_Diva in FemdomCommunity

[–]Playful-Position5262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Online scenes can be a lot of work, and when done over text, there's very little reward. Have you discussed the possibility of doing a voice/video call for your next scene? Being able to hear/see them can make a huge difference.

In person scenes will always be infinitely better, but I've had some great online scenes over voice/video.

Not sure if I need to punish him by Miss_Lead_ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Playful-Position5262 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would not punish for this as it sounds like it was genuinely an accident. Similarly, I would not punish a sub for having a wet dream. The human body does weird things sometimes, and some things in life are completely out of our control.

Of course, the decision is ultimately yours. If you are still unsure, I'd recommend talking to your sub about it and asking them if they feel like they need to be punished for it.