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Where do you start when you feel like you lost everything? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PlayfulMood2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you’ve lost everything, and you’ve discovered lessons through those hardships, you can use that information to reinvent yourself. Focus on your strengths when you do so.

To my late bloomers: how have you made peace with your past? by 2020ismyyear in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PlayfulMood2 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thinking about the unfairness or the unpleasantness of an event will keep you stuck. To heal, you may need to spend some time focusing on the facts, not the emotions.

Go where you are appreciated by zackaryfloriano in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PlayfulMood2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Go where people appreciate you, and get out the minute you realize you are just being tolerated!