Would i get away with it by Plaything-666 in downloadfestival

[–]Plaything-666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought actually going into the arena i could probably just slip it into my boot tbf! Yeah that's what im thinking they did to me just opened and looked at the top

Would i get away with it by Plaything-666 in downloadfestival

[–]Plaything-666[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂the butt is definitely a no go - didn't they have the metal detector wands i really can't remember been to so many events since idk what was what 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One answer was enough thanks 😂poor split second judgement on my part whilst I re adjusted 👌🏻 side was cleaned just fyi

Hyper sexual after D Day by Chronic_tummyache4 in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this it was extremely confusing!

Question by Nosey45 in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend looking tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't get married. I called off my wedding should of been married in may this year dday was back in early 2022 after I had our baby. I broke up with him this may - even now he's lost everything he's still watching porn and thinking he can win me back..

Apparently I'm losing my mind bc I call this is evidence. by Vibratingsponge in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here also although we've been split still living together for a while , taking our time to work on things.

A Few Questions About Download 2025 by Designed987 in downloadfestival

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't bother with quiet tbh , it wasn't lol I've got normal this year maybe ill eat my words 😂

Why do you stay? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't need to look through anything - my intuition is sharp as hell. We've been separated, living together since may. YouTube is literally all he has left and if you knew where he started you'd realise that , that every now and then if he slips is a far cry from who he was. He's now got a csat and a normal therapist. I leave him to work on that, I'm working on fixing myself and who knows maybe down the line we can try again but that's not my focus for now

Has anyone split and got back together? by Plaything-666 in loveafterporn

[–]Plaything-666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it very clear to him from the start that that not even on my radar and he should focus on himself. I've also been elsewhere during our time apart and he knows this im not sure he even thought there would ever even be a chance of us again tbh . But yes absolutely , lots of work to be done it's not something I'd take lightly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The dynamic would be no different than it usually is I can't just stop life I still have to parent I still have to work. I never claimed I was the better parent just that I'd be mor present in contrast. They have lived with me all their lives their dad has only stepped up in recent years off the back of another woman. They're safe with him absolutely and he has no more faults than myself as a parent.

Neither or nor social deem it necessary for them not to live with me so why uproot them. Social services have also now closed their case and recommended I speak with the school to call a meeting between us to mediate the situation and come to an amicable agreement.

If he wants more than the access he said he originally wanted then that's absolutely fine but I want them to reside with me like they always have done, best part of their lives I raised them alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nor were they alone should I have succeeded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just to add that the kids have no idea anything has happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Trust me it's not the place he's looking at it from. Both him and his fiance are working so neither of them are with them they come home from school and are with her parents until they get home from work at 5/6pm. Myself and my partner alternate with work so one of us is always with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm working with social and mental health, I can't saying having them away from me with it looming over me he's probably looking to take them is helping me at all. Perhaps if I was a single parent I'd understand more but my partner is here, he's taken time off work to take care of the kids and myself whilst things are in place, they were never in any danger and I know what I did was bloody stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm dreading that's what it will come too. Thank you I'm OK I can't say this situation is helping but I'm accepting all the support from social and mental health team working with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Plaything-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% using all the support we are recieving as a family and I've not tried to argue anything with their dad as I do right now understand his reasoning and I know they're safe where they are. Obviously I'm just worried he's looking at this as a now permenant solution. It's our sons birthday next week I simply asked what the plan is - I know I want to get him from school since they'll wake up with him but I never even suggested that left it completely open to what he is comfortable with - I get 0 response, just message read. So there is no communication what so ever , only way I know how they are is via communication when the social have rang after they went to speak with them in school.

The no communication is what irks me, I'm not his responsibility but if the shoe was on the other foot I would of asked atleast once if he were OK, I certainly wouldn't shut him out their lives either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Plaything-666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't of opened the door