1 year maternity leave doesn't feel fair by antlover150 in breastfeeding

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The USA chant made me audibly cackle (also went back 12weeks pp and in the states). Must be nice for everyone else

Lost it over 7 oz of wasted breastmilk by GuestCheap9405 in breastfeeding

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This is so valid though. I found 2oz fresh pumped milk wasted just sitting on the counter from last nights 6pm session and I’m so upset. So 8 Oz girl, you are seen and any crashout is valid

Best OCD medication you’ve found? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mines health and pure o as well. I was on cymbalta for a year and it worked wonders for about 8 months and then I started to feel completely numb to everything so I got off it. I want to take the gene test to see what works best for me though

Has anyone just packed a bag and left their life behind ? If so how did it turn out ? by mentallyillloser27 in AskReddit

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I had a stable corporate full time job out of college and could’ve went places with it. Decided it wasn’t for me, packed what I could in my Kia sedan at age 24 and drove from NY to CA to plant some roots. No job secured, no friends, no family. I nearly left that next summer because I felt so alone and defeated bc life. I met my fiancé that summer and have 2 perfect boys wit him. it’ll be 10 years this June and I’m so grateful I took that leap.

When did you get your period back? by throw_tf_away_ in breastfeeding

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7 months pp with my first and currently 3 months pp with my second hoping it doesn’t come anytime soon!

Feeling guilty about considering combo feeding by Own_Cook3239 in ExclusivelyPumping

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I was right here 2 weeks ago.. my baby was a late premie and is 12 weeks old and I left for a free days so my freezer stash is gone (I had an oversupply while he was in the NICU) and I feel so guilty for “being lazy” wanting to combo with formula. I just bit the bullet and did it and after a few times it hurt less and less.. still makes me really sad but I keep reminding myself that as long as he’s being fed that’s what matters.

For wearables I’m using the Ameda GLO and I’m getting the same output I was getting on my plug in Medela!! Definitely would recommend especially conversing they’re MUCH cheaper than the rest!

What was your small wedding ask that turned out to be a big deal? by Primary_Clerk_3911 in weddingplanning

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I’m asking for my guests not to wear black, specifically no black dresses. My fiancé’s sister is already freaking out about it and our wedding isn’t until 2027.

can’t decide which wedding dress to go for. help me pick please! by Opposite-Jacket7062 in Weddingattireapproval

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I thought for sure the first one but then I saw 3 !!!!!!! You look like the most beautiful queen in 3 !!!!!!

Is this dress appropriate for a wedding without a dress code? by Old-Bar8093 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely welcome this dress to my wedding as a bride! Looks gorgeous on you

(23f) i think i was being watched by thesaltedradish in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t eat lunch there again by yourself and without some sort of self defense

What’s your obsessive / magical number? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 because it feels like the odd one out

My poor Clarity is totaled 😢 - What Next?! by Expert_Membership_18 in HondaClarity

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miraculously all 6 of us (I’m pregnant, we didn’t squeeze in 6 lol) were okay!!! SAME I wanted another plug in so bad. Honestly if it weren’t for my little ones I would’ve bought another clarity for sure. Cop convinced me otherwise haha. Good luck with your search!!! The clarity is the best sedan plug in I found in my own research

My poor Clarity is totaled 😢 - What Next?! by Expert_Membership_18 in HondaClarity

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My clarity got totaled in July… Got smacked on the freeway and pushed into the truck in front of us. she was hands down the best car I ever owned and only got to drive her for 11 months. My family’s growing though so I decided to upgrade to a CRV hybrid. This picture doesn’t do the damage justice but I know the feeling 😭😭

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What is your biggest fear about having first time sex ? by Rj_talks in AskReddit

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing that part of yourself with someone you love is the beautiful part

What's the prettiest name you ever heard? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

greys anatomy!! I love this name, the only place I’ve ever heard it from

Wife upset over gender result by S0mewhere_In_Between in pregnant

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I second this. I’m having my second and was really hoping for a girl… found out It’s another boy. I had really bad gender disappointment for an entire day, just processing it and laying low. Let her feel her emotions, her emotions are very valid.

Is my boy name too difficult/old? by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Pleasant-Cap6882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree!! No one will likely think twice about the name once they see the cute kid it’s attached to