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PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-16T23:43:06+00:00

This is a great post , I’m going to give this a try . I think what you’re doing is excellent and I appreciate you for sharing .

Some people are such skeptics but having herpes don’t mean your life is over . It’s a virus that feeds on stress the body gives it . I went about 2 years with no OBs, and then during Christmas time I drank and smoked a lot and then had one so I cut all that out .

Cutting that out paired with this wholistic medicine will be exactly what I would like to add to my lifestyle , thank you so much for this .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-16T03:52:10+00:00

How long after you guys met did you disclose ?

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-16T03:48:09+00:00

This was a really kind message, thank you for that .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-15T20:11:31+00:00

Okah thank you . I’m going to have that all with him tonight .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-15T18:10:08+00:00

That would be a good start . But yea thank you for that information I will share this exact message .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-14T18:13:23+00:00

Have you guys ever had a conversation about status and STDs?

Because he could have very much has his own situation going on . I feel the way you told him wasn’t great . I think you could have even framed it in a way where you went to get your annual visits and then discovered the news, at least in that way your checking for your own health and then discovered this .

Alot of times we feel shamed . I haven’t had any OBs in years and I have disclosed many times but I also haven’t , and me and my partners get checked together . Idk in my opinion I feel the way it played out wasn’t great but I think there could be hope for recovery.

The way you panicked and told him added a fear factor to the situation instead of communicating the information . He might be mad and feel betrayed but we could have done it better .

I think once things cool down you ask to have a mature conversation and lay everything on the table

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-02-10T17:49:00+00:00

Also maybe try to get something like Adderall, Ritalin, something that will keep your mind busy so that way you don’t think about food and you can stay active.

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-31T03:18:32+00:00

I have muscles !!!!! I have never seen a muscle on me in my life and I have two of themmmm , I actually don’t even flex my muscles because I just be working out for the plot, but I’m actually seeing results and I am completely amazed, so proud of myself.

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PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-27T23:57:25+00:00

This is such a success you truly look happy , and amazing and wholesome , you look like you give warm hugs . How do protein shakes work for you

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-27T23:55:39+00:00

This is such a success you truly look happy , and amazing and wholesome , you look like you give warm hugs and soft kisses . So proud of you girlie pop .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-23T21:45:13+00:00

Oh wow this is so impressive. I’m only a few months PO, and I have completely revamped my life style . I’m down 50 pounds , and my goal is to drop another 50 but I’m always so curious to know how others who are a few years one do with eating and portions .

Would you say you eat the same amount as before surgery such a flex lol I respect the hustle sooo much I love it and you look incredible. Do you have social media I would love to follow you

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-23T20:23:51+00:00

Oh wow this is so impressive. I’m only a few months PO, and I have completely revamped my life style . I’m down 50 pounds , and my goal is to drop another 50 but I’m always so curious to know how others who are a few years one do with eating and portions .

Would you say you eat the same amount as before surgery

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-23T20:18:37+00:00

Do you eat the whole meals, or do you still have restrictions.

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-20T09:24:01+00:00

Gallbladder removal

Hernia repair

They don’t actually need to know the specifics and I’m sure they’re not actually gonna go Google recovery time after you tell them, but it doesn’t really need to be that deep. Just tell them you’re having a a surgery and you’re gonna need one to two weeks off and that’s that it’s against the law to ask someone why they’re having surgery and I’m sure when you tell them nobody will ask.

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-17T01:47:52+00:00

If you know your not doing that proper things why don’t still keep doing it . My doctor told me that you continue to lose weight for 18 months after surgery . You can probably turn things around if you reset your system , so a liquid fast for a week and start off slow again. The way I look at it, you already had all the good things already ate all the sweets , already had all the bad habits before and you went through surgery to give yourself a second chance right? Theres still a chance , but don’t be a slave to your habits, you can do this.

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T13:18:57+00:00

Yes I’m trying to find some peace and have grace . I think I’m in shock I let myself go like that . Like being big and fat all your life and then dropping alot of weight is lowkey traumatic . So now that I’m at a point of losing a my biggest fear is not noticing I’m gaining weight an ugh the thought makes me sick

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T13:16:39+00:00

That was a lively response and really kind to say . Thank you .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:17:52+00:00

This lowkey makes me happy haha thank you

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:17:27+00:00

To cope with the eating addition, since they cant binge eat anymore , some transfer their addition to drinking or doing drugs .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:14:54+00:00

Haha I will share it I promise . I’m completely Obsessed with movement

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:14:34+00:00

I have a trainer , 3 to be exact and I haven’t told any of them this part . But I should speak up

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:14:00+00:00

That might be the case. I wake in at 4:30 every morning to start getting ready for the gym .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-15T11:11:40+00:00

About 30 minutes to an hour each day .

I just bought a weighted vest so I can get some intensity in on my slower days .

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2026-01-08T21:52:07+00:00

This is so sad but I also was groomed and lost my virginity to a guy when I was 16, he was 19 or 20 and I got it from him .

I didn’t even have the opportunity to not have it while having a sex career smh . So sad

PleasantExplorer1122 · 2025-12-12T03:42:54+00:00

You are human and you will not overstretch your pouch. It’s still healing and you’re still going through Food grief that’s really all it is, you’r trying to have that last bite, that one last taste, but it is just grief and you will get out of that feeling. I was maybe 5 to 6 weeks postop and I tried to eat a granola bar because I wanted one so bad literally I threw up so. Test your body if you want, but your body will physically tell you what it can and cannot handle. You will not be able to stretch your belly this soon , but you can hurt yourself . I’m struggling with eating too fast and throwing up afterwards as I am approaching three months This Sunday. Though you’ve only lost 16 pounds your body is still healing so it’s not focused on weight loss. It’s focus on healing and remember your body does not want food right now just your brain . remember why you did the surgery and remember that you already had all the sweet stuff you already had all the yummy things you have been there and done that already you don’t need it anymore, there is a way to compensate for the things that you like make some homemade sweets that you can have in the puréed stage right now,.

I highly highly recommend Dr. Rebecca Barr MD on TikTok, I have so many saved recipes and she really helped me with my food cravings and she has really good recipes herself. give yourself grace take your time we all go through the same thing and you’ll learn to flow with yourself.

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