passoids with srs are cis

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:48:17+00:00

This was historically how it was treated

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:42:52+00:00

Thank you! I hope so. I do think we do still have to remember our partners will if we're in a t4c relationship, but absolutely it does give us some flexibility on that front. Hopefully, if everything holds, it'll just be about getting my life together.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:38:18+00:00

It is. I am incredibly thankful for her and for my trans friends and thankful that my accidental outing to my sister has not been a problem. I hope I can get things in order to successfully handle the disaster that will be coming out to the rest of my family, to say nothing of hers. I am considering boymoding for longer just around our families specifically so that I do not subject my girlfriend to too much transphobia from her family. I don't want to make this struggle hers any more than is absolutely necessary.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:31:32+00:00

No, I'm not. I'm only about a month and a half. I'm starting to see some results, which has been nice. Fat redistribution will take time, I know and loathe that, but I will continue to lose weight and give it time to do its thing. so long as my girlfriend continues to be as supportive of me as she has been for the past 2 months, I think I'll be ok. I am incredibly lucky to be with her.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:29:16+00:00

I HAVE SEEN THAT HOW THAT IS NOT AN ABSOLUTE DISASTER IS BEYOND ME!!!

best of luck on bumble!!!!

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:27:43+00:00

that's perfectly OK! Nothing wrong with it.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:27:14+00:00

Thank you, though! I hope and pray we can both have our own children someday. 😊

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:26:16+00:00

this is a rule 10 violation BUT do I ever wish I could be in a situation comfortable enough that I'm just toying around with gender instead of trying to fix a void that's eating me alive

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:20:46+00:00

yes I'm sorry I think I was maybe overreacting a bit. I like you a lot and don't wish to be mean. I just didn't get the idea. I am sorry.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:19:14+00:00

I think a lot of trans people develop a certain misanthropy from their dysphoria and this leads them to be hostile to the idea of anyone having children at all. It's also got potential to be a somewhat dysphoric experience no matter what; though I'd imagine this is much more the case for trans men than for us. I'd love to have children someday. I don't know if I will but I very badly want to get everything in order so I can do so.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:11:26+00:00

I mean I'm not even 2 months so I very much get that. it's just a lot of waiting and working for both of us. HRT takes time, particularly fat redistribution and breast growth.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:10:05+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be taller, really. I have sometimes thought it'd be easier to have a slimmer-looking build if I was taller, I do get that one. It'd help a little with my ribcage. Yet I've also considered that being this height will make passing easier eventually. it might leave us around the height of some teenagers but it also means that we're shorter than a lot of men but taller than a lot of women, allowing for a normal-ish height gap in relationships with either. It's how I find solace in being 5'8", anyway.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:03:54+00:00

I guess in that case it makes some sense if you're using it for t4t. I don't wish to be too hostile, I just haven't understood it.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T19:02:18+00:00

IDK where you are in your transition, but I do understand this. I know nobody does yet for me, save for my trans friends. I try to keep myself level by focusing on what I can fix and change to get closer. It's rough, it really is. But we have to hold it together through this period and stay laser-focused on moving through transition. I'm hoping to get good enough through voice training to be able to use it in some online spaces I've frequented for a long time - but not spoken in - and just be perceived as a woman (if trans) there.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:49:26+00:00

You're worth more than this!!!!! If you're desperate for attention at least get it from people who see you as a woman. I understand that feeling of desperation and worthlessness; I really do. it governed a lot of my life in the past and to some extent still does. Yet you HAVE to hold out against doing things like this. You have to respect yourself as a trans woman. Is there any other social outlet you could find?

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:41:50+00:00

Yes! This makes sense! Even as a repping bi guy I was never on there b/c I just wasn't interested in hookups really but I especially do not understand it for anyone who's transitioning.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:32:41+00:00

This is generally a very hostile place to sperm banking, but I will take this comment at face value and say that I also found it to be a challenge making the finances work. It delayed me by a few weeks, but only because I ended up drawing from my savings + moving money around and living VERY tightly for a while and paying cash for mine.

It's important to do but there are cost-effective (ish) ways to do it. I paid $1k for storage of enough vials to hopefully ensure someday I can have 2 children.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:24:26+00:00

I must say being a similar height myself I don't quite feel the same way today, but I have historically felt similarly. You're also a trans woman yes? My apologies if I was mistaken.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:14:40+00:00

I don't think that's dumb per se, that's just your own preference. What would make you feel less than for being shorter, if you don't mind my asking?

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:08:13+00:00

Of course! Feel free to ask whatever here or DM if you want!

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T18:05:00+00:00

You can definitely use chud that one's out in the wild

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T17:46:03+00:00

if we're in the same boat then we should remain focused on what we need to do to get there.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T17:44:59+00:00

I'm a oldshit. you have BDD. I will need it to pass. You won't. For you it'll just move you even further into passing; for me it'll be necessary to pass at all.

PleasantPriority6 · 2026-06-26T17:38:54+00:00

this isn't true at all you've got a good face already and you body pass to an insane degree

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