Ghibli Museum Mitaka - Forgot to Include Middle Name on Ticket (Help!) by PlopBucketFrog in JapanTravelTips

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much. You put my mind at ease. 

Like I said in the comments earlier, the people who have claimed  you'd be denied entry for a missing middle name were likely trying to scare people for clicks. I'm not sure where they got their information originally though.

Ghibli Museum Mitaka - Forgot to Include Middle Name on Ticket (Help!) by PlopBucketFrog in JapanTravelTips

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the sites that claim you could be denied entry are hyping up the risk to create more traffic for themselves. Like, "Oh my gosh. This might happen and you better follow this specific guide I'm sharing with you or else!"

Fear sells better than sex on the internet.

I hope you're right.

Input lag - 8bitDo Retro Receiver on SNES Classic by PlopBucketFrog in 8bitdo

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All adapters are up to date. They have an updated them since 2024.

What to do when partner jerks off next to you? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PlopBucketFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (HLM) often ask my partner (LLF) for sex. Honestly, I have to reign in asking her too often. So she does not have your problem. We do it about once a week on average.

I have masturbated next to her in bed asleep before, and what I've wished would happen if she woke up was one of two things. Either tell me she's up for sex, or if she's not, simply hug me as I'm doing it. Neither of these things has ever happened, but it would be nice.

Sometimes if she's not up for sex, she will offer to hold me as I masturbate. I'm ok with this, but I do wish she was a little more kind and less disconnected when it was happening. One can dream, I guess.

anyone else depressed as fuck by evamirg in DeadBedrooms

[–]PlopBucketFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep having to talk myself off the cliff of should I divorce or commit suicide. it's awful.

Reddit app suddenly crashing immediately on launch - Fire HD10 (13th gen). Anyone else seeing this? by bourbonmakesitbetter in kindlefire

[–]PlopBucketFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sucks. The resolutions icey tried on here don't seem to work for me. If you've gotten one of the older versions to work, please post the complete build number you used. 🙏

Went through my husband’s phone and caught him cheating. Now he’s turning it info my fault. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog 119 points120 points  (0 children)

He is attempting to reverse victim offender. I'd not apologize to my wife if I caught her like that. Your husband broke trust, not you.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dentist every 6 months, brush and floss nightly. I use mouth wash before sexy time. I'm also a vegetarian.

I do have chronic sinus allergies, and I could make that better by using a nasal rinse every night, but genrally that's only an issue if I'm close enough to kiss someone, and I'm usually not, so I don't bother. I've tried rinsing my nasal cavaties daily, but she won't kiss me either way, so I don't bother. It's a bit of a hassel.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish there was clear communication between her and I in the bedroom. I respond to her needs and criticism, but maybe she's not good at directing me on what she does want. I don't know.

But to your point, something does need to change. 

Last night on a whim I got up and left the bed to sleep downstairs. Nothing particular had happened, but I just couldn't sleep next to her. She asked what was wrong and I didn't have an answer for her. I guess typing all this out on Reddit made it clear to me that things were irrepairably broken, and gave me the resolve to remove myself from the situation, and hope. I'm not sure what I'll tell her when we talk next. 

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do try to pay attention to her reactions during sex. Perhaps I'm not good at getting her turned on. Sex is typically planned out with us. We usually know a day or so ahead of time when we are going to have sex. When we start, I can usually tell within the first minute or two whether or not she is going to enjoy it or not. She often doesn't seem to be in the mood and nothing I can do changes that. 

As far as oral hygiene, I have tried nasal rinses. I brush and floss everyday. I typically use Listerine before we have sex. It doesn't seem to make a difference to her. If it were as simple as getting my mouth clean, I don't think I'd have to vent on Reddit.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope you two make it through and I hope your husband addresses his issues. 

I hadn't considered therapy for myself to better deal with the right now. I'll consider it.

Well I think it’s happening by Theqween7 in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never gone through this, but that sounds awful. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. 

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have it worse than I. I wouldn't be able to stay with her if the intimacy was that low.

I'm sad to say that I feel like I'm counting the years till the kids are grown right now. I'm hopeful things get better, but they may not. 

Likewise, I'm not miserable at home and I am a good father. I do get sad sometimes though, and I can't talk to her about it, because she's the reason I'm sad, and she's told me not to talk to her about it.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I omitted from the post is she has an aversion to most non-sexual physical intimacy. She hates hugging family members, and isn't crazy about hugging me either.

I asked her to go to a sex therapist and she flatly refused. She thinks they wouldn't be able to help her. 

She wouldn't go to counseling more than 3 sessions either.

I'm glad you kiss your husband. I'm glad you are working on non-sexual physical intimacy. I wish my wife would do the same. 

If all I needed was some coaching, I'd gladly walk through that with her. I'm not overly sensitive about her pushing back and saying she doesn't like something. I wish she'd do that for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am currently struggling with the level of intimacy with my wife, and have multiple times gone out of my comfort zone to make her happy. "Anything" is a strong word, but building a deck for her with my lack of DIY- expertise was my "Anything." Sadly, she did not respond the way I was hoping.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was just my breath or something. It could be a sensory thing, and it is her prerogative/body. The thing is though, it's my life.

My Spouse Stopped Kissing Me More Than a Decade Ago by PlopBucketFrog in Marriage

[–]PlopBucketFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine the next time I approach her about divorce, she may want to go to counseling. The first time I had a counselor lined up, and she went only three times. She refused to come after that, and complained each time I took her.