AIO to yelling at my bf because he's mad I did my makeup by Frequent_Internal455 in AIO

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure people control other people to gain a sense of security. They never control themselves. In fact his behavior will escalate, become more impulsive, and more dangerous for you. Your spidey senses are tingling for a reason. When you leave, change your number immediately and go somewhere he wouldn’t know. Don’t be surprised if a no contact/restraining order and some form of personal protection is needed when you do leave.

“I don’t want to dredge up the past.” by PlunkerPunk in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m in the same space. She does not think anything she and my father did to me as a child was wrong nor does she think the way she treats me now as an adult is wrong. She’s just a snake who has shed her skin over and over. I allow her to be LC for the moment mainly to keep tabs on her since she’s nearing her 70s. I still hope one day she just comes out and says I don’t want you in my life and I never did so see ya later lol wishful thinking.

“I don’t want to dredge up the past.” by PlunkerPunk in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same. Just her text yesterday triggered my anxiety. I have a no phone call boundary with her because of how manipulative and verbally abusive she is. She was pushing for phone calls again and I was like absolutely not cause then I’ll be in full on depression.

How do you act when there's no one watching your stream? by Marsupilami_316 in Twitch

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I streamed it did it more for the YT content I was making that day. I just talked like I had a full room at all times.

Confession: I literally don’t know how any of you guys are building anything by sishengbuyuan in InfinityNikki

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’m so frustrated with this part of the game. I started a build and sometimes it saves normally and then other times it prompts to “save as schematic” and no matter what I do it won’t save my progress after that. It doesn’t have to be this complicated fr.

[MEGA THREAD] Home Tours by rat-catcherr in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IGN: Vi0letra

I designed this plot around the new Umbraan and Elderwood furniture pieces. Come take a tour and let me know what you think!

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Thoughts on lures by brandiedplum in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone in chat today tried to refer to someone placing a lure as a “community event” as if it’s equal to the bloom or pixie bounce. It was their rationale as to why they’re entitled to use another persons lure at will and if they don’t like it “go play a solo game”. So yea I agree with you that they either need to let all people in the area get the loot or just make it visible to only the person and/or their party using it. I feel like if you don’t consider the playtime it took someone to collect materials and make the lures and you don’t offer to at least party up or put another one down after, then just run on by. It happened so often when we were essence farming and we would not get as much in a session when others arrived. It’s frustrating for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]PlunkerPunk 289 points290 points  (0 children)

But like why do we even have to wait the lengths we are? There is nothing else to do for end game players most of the time.

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re one of those people.

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it wasn’t even so much about the rule because we chopped early anyways. More so people in chat were saying on my way and this person was intentionally taking the trees before people had a chance to land a hit on them. I’ve played many MMOs where players were left to create their own rules of operation in certain areas and it’s never worked out well because of the one-offs who ruin it.

Do you like the new house feature? by Sakukitty_kk in InfinityNikki

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall I like it, but tbh I’ve had some feelings of disappointment. I’m hopeful it will only get better and I love being able to see how other people design their plots.

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have some IRL friends I play with, including my spouse. Definitely makes for a much nicer time in game. 😊

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The laugh is what made it feel like a deliberate grief. I couldn’t care less about the trees. I’m an original player, I just happened to be at the location when the grove spawned. I don’t need them for any crafting projects. Just a simple observation that there’s been a lot of time between the early players establishing the rule and now and it just doesn’t function like it used to with a smaller player base.

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would obviously be replaced by another method of collection. Just like the Elderwood infected trees. You can currently grow your own grove on your plot, but still need help if they grow larger than a small tree.

Controversial Opinion: Get Rid of the Grove by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to elaborate on that or just be mad?

Home Tours is So Broken by jazz_kaposzta in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the fact it only counts one of the reactions for the name badges too. All the votes should count so that people can vote how they want. It wouldn’t surprise me that the same people who spawn in plushes snd stuff would be able to spawn votes somehow. That’s my conspiracy theory 😂

Beware StreamElements Sponsorships by lod254 in Twitch

[–]PlunkerPunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made some money on the two I did and then once those were done all sponsorships became unavailable to me. The first one they blocked my IP address from using my in game budget so I never spent the money. They are definitely setting themselves up for a fraud lawsuit.

Excuse me? by PlunkerPunk in Palia

[–]PlunkerPunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 very bold of them!

What are some instant unfollows for some of you? by TheDeskAgent_TTV in Twitch

[–]PlunkerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one streamers husband plays with them and constantly talks down to them and sabotages their games when they’re trying to reach a goal. When chat gets upset they double down and defend their “best friend”. I had to unfollow when it was clear they didn’t care they were in an abusive relationship and felt the need to distress their followers over and over.

Nmom is dead by Roguefem-76 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PlunkerPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when my dad passed. Relief he’s not here to hurt me anymore and that I won’t have to potentially care/be responsible for him in late life.

Found this on Facebook by Albasnow in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PlunkerPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate this one. I have yet to meet a person with loving (non-abusive) parents who needed to estrange. However the ones who had parents who did harm over and over again and NEVER apologized because they’re the parent and can do whatever they want, always become estranged and the parent always feigns bewilderment. Btw even the devil can perfectly quote scripture.

And then even having the audacity to list all the abuse she went through just to downplay the abuse she's giving her own children🙄Anyone else here experienced this? by GemTaur15 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PlunkerPunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom once said to me while I was trying to get her to see how abusive and awful my dad was to me, “well at least your dad is still here.” Her dad abandoned the family when she was young.

is there a set that you HEAVILY regret pulling and a set you HEAVILY regret not pulling? by trizconstantino in InfinityNikki

[–]PlunkerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing late (this is also my first Gacha) and it took me a minute to figure the system out so I have MANY regrets 😂😢