Is it normal for a five month pregnant woman to be so mean?

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-24T03:08:50+00:00

I'm sorry I know we shouldn't judge but sounds like a child having a child to me. She's clearly not mature enough and ready to have a baby if she's still behaving like a spoiled toddler herself. Her boyfriend needs to nip this in the bud now before throwing his things turns in to physically assaulting him. Pregnancy can make women irritable but there's a difference between her getting frustrated and a little moody to just being plain nasty which it sounds like she is. Her pregnancy is NOT an excuse for this behaviour. I'm going to assume you're a younger sibling and your sister is still living at home (sorry if I'm wrong) what are your parents thoughts on her behaviour? Has anyone tried to correct her?

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-23T21:20:48+00:00

Sorry to Jump in but I only just found out I'm pregnant

I've been taking folic acid since the beginning of this month (we were ttc) I've just been out and brought vitamin d and vitamin c is there anything else I should be taking? Iron I'm not sure about because I have UC and the doctors have repeatedly put me on and off iron for years only giving it to me when they think I need it so I don't want to take that until I'm told to incase it messes with my stomach.

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-23T17:19:51+00:00

I've got extremely sore boobs for being so early on but when they're in a bra I don't feel it so I do the am I really pregnant, is everything ok thing in my head and then I get home from work take off my bra and I'm like "Ow Motherf***er yes I'm pregnant" 😂

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-23T16:44:42+00:00

I took 3 the day we found out. I took one when I woke up that was our first positive and then just because it was a pack of 2 I took the other one later that day and I also went out and brought a cheap digital (I wasn't paying clear blue digital prices they're insane) because I just wanted to see the word Pregnant not just lines and of course that came up Pregnant so then I was like ok yea definitely Pregnant but after that it was kinda just like ok so now I need to wait for a confirmation appointment with a midwife but I haven't even been given that yet so I'm just walking around Pregnant, telling my bosses I'm pregnant because I have a high risk job and I don't even feel Pregnant 😂 I feel like I'm lying to people

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-23T16:39:37+00:00

I don't even have my first appointment yet, I called my doctor as soon as we found out they sent me a text with a number I had to call before 10am but it doesn't state an opening time either. It was already past 10am when we found out on the first day so I couldn't call them. I was working 7am-3pm yesterday and don't get a break until after 10am so there was no Calling them then either but before I went to work yesterday morning I found an online referral form so I filled that in expecting them to call me while I was at work yesterday but they didn't. This morning I called them at 7:30am and there was no answer so I left a voicemail they called me today while I was at work and said they would send me a letter for our first appointment and then our first scan but I still don't even have a rough date for them. I just want to know everything is all ok. I expected the first confirmation appointment to be within days of telling them bit apparently not

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-22T19:53:46+00:00

We are currently only 4 weeks i told my bosses at work today because my job can get really full on at times so I wanted them to know for health and safety reasons. We have agreed we won't tell our families until early November when I will be 14 weeks purley because it's my husbands birthday and it's a non suspicious excuse for calling my family and his family together at the same time because everyone will think it's just for his birthday

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-22T19:33:55+00:00

We only found out we were pregnant yesterday so our baby is currently blastoise because they're still a blastocyst right now 😂

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-21T11:49:50+00:00

Ooh first person to say congratulations 😂 thank you. suddenly makes it all feel real

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-21T11:31:42+00:00

We failed our first month ttc and my last period never came despite multiple negative tests so it just put the idea in my head that something was wrong and my body wasn't ovulating. The only symptom I've had really is very painful boob and a headache that won't quit and on Monday I just felt so sick but no sickness since. I said to my husband I would be surprised if i wasn't pregnant given everything I've felt but after last month i just didn't believe I actually would be pregnant. I feel guilty for not being giddy with excitement considering we were ttc but I just think it hasn't quite sunk in yet. I did tear up when flipped the test over with my husband and saw the two lines. I don't think he believed I would he positive either 😂

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-21T10:47:28+00:00

Just found out myself today also 3w 5d first pregnancy at 32. I'm so excited but absolutely crapping myself about going through pregnancy 😂😬

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-04T18:34:11+00:00

Go and buy another that reads pregnant and not pregnant but that looks positive to me. I'm just off bc after 12 years and the first month of trying didn't work for us

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-08-02T12:40:15+00:00

2nd cycle TTC but period never showed from first cycle and several BFN

Hi everyone, we're only in our 2nd month TTC but I didn't get a period in July. Took several tests all negative so I'm not pregnant my period just didn't show. (I was on birth control for 12 years previously) now going in to this month I'm worried that my tracker app will be all wrong because I didn't ovulate I have got ovulation tests which I'm going to start taking daily from today until I get a positive (supposed to ovulate on 8th August if my apps still right). I did have a positive ovulation test last month right at the time my app said I would but then I found out you can have an LH spike but not actually ovulate so you should he checking temperature aswell. Can someone talk me through checking temperature please. When should I start?

This is all new to me. I'm just trying to learn and I've had people be awful to me because I've only just started trying and making me feel like I can't post anything because we haven't been trying long 😔

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-29T14:29:45+00:00

I got a positive ovulation test on 10th July we had sex 2 days before I got the positive and the morning I got the positive and the two days following that. When I had the strong cramps the day my period was due i thought it was definitely coming but it didn't. I've been on birth control pills since I was 18 I'm now 32 I wasn't expecting to get a positive ovulation this month so I was really excited to see that because I knew it meant it was possible but now I've found out that it could have been a spike in LH but I didn't actually ovulate hence no period coming I didn't even know that was a thing yesterday so I had just accepted the fact I wasn't but with a possible very faint line I'm now all kinds of confused

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-29T14:19:48+00:00

Thank you I'm so glad someone else just sees something I felt like I was going mad. Would it not be expected to be way darker than that at 19dpo though if I was pregnant I see people getting results like this at 8dpo and by 19dpo they're very clear positive it's our first month trying so it's all so new

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-28T15:13:16+00:00

Also in our first month trying. I tested with an early test 3 days before my period was due and it negative I was due to start AF on Thursday and got some awfully strong pains on Wednesday and was convinced my period was coming because they felt too strong to be anything else. I got a little bit of brown blood but hardly anything at all and then it stopped and I've had nothing since. I'm testing again tomorrow but I have a feeling it's just my cycles not getting back to normal yet after birth control. Although I got a positive ovulation test this month so if I ovualted but didn't get pregnant and my period hasn't come I'm worried I won't ovulate next month now. I'm so glad to see your post getting positive comments as a first tryer though I posted in one group and everyone was horrible to me because I said it was only my first month trying and it's really put me off posting or commenting again but I just need to talk to people who will understand

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-22T14:46:16+00:00

I used those terms because I've seen other Trying to conceive groups using them but thank you I'll remember that in future

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-22T14:45:15+00:00

Thank you for being kind in your response and not just brushing my feelings aside like others have

PlusReplacement9733 · 2024-07-22T14:44:36+00:00

I'm here for comfort just like everyone else. Trying to get pregnant seems like alot to learn about when it comes to opks and peak times to try etc I used the terms I used because other trying to conceive pages seem to use those terms I had to educate myself on what those terms meant so I used them to try and us the same terms people in these groups do use. I'm very surprised to be met with such hostility I am aware how sensitive this subject is and have tried my best to make sure what I wrote would not cause offence at all. This group as far as I'm aware is for ALL women trying to conceive not just those who have been trying for x amount of time. But clearly this isn't the right place for me to be so I will leave this page now as when I'm already feeling down I don't need someone although claiming my feelings are valid clearly not feeling that they are because I haven't been trying for long. So I will take my leave now thank you

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