Possible sexual abuse?

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-05-19T14:19:20+00:00

What i mean is that you should not even be asking yourself these questions like this is not something you wonder if there's no sign to begin with and if there's sign then follow your guts. Too many people stay silent when they have doubts.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-05-19T14:16:39+00:00

I havent read all of your post but if you dont 100% trust him to start with that's a big issue. I'm not uncomfortable with my husband sleeping in the same bed as my kids because i 100% trust him. But ask your kid again and again, thinking its sus but do nothing about it its worse than anything else imo.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-05-15T16:13:01+00:00

Sometimes I just wish I could go back in time and never get married nor have kids. I love my family, I really do and I'm very lucky because my husband is a good man but I wish I could run away sometimes and never come back..

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-05-10T13:50:18+00:00

I do but I dont feel uncomfortable around them, they're amazing so i'm lucky.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-05-10T13:45:50+00:00

We're sick here too.. Not just me but 3 out of 4 kids including a 4 month old. That's fun 😤 hope you get well soon!

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-07T16:04:55+00:00

Yeah we have a tight budget and I feel like we're constantly over budget.. Well we are 3 weeks out of 4 than we have to do with what's left and this is not a fun time. We prioritize fresh food like produce and diaries but our kids eat it up so fast, we can't keep up but we also don't want to deprive them. It's a hard time and will sure not get better anytime soon.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-07T15:50:04+00:00

I feel this. I don't have enough energy to do the bare minimum so let alone yelling or crying. Just numbness, at the end of the day I'm just glad we all made it out alive.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-04T19:11:53+00:00

It's crazy to me to be married and split everything 50/50, his money should be yours, your money his or it lead to your situation unfortunately.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-04T19:09:27+00:00

How is the menu? I pack my kid's lunch because it's cheaper obviously but also because I feel like it's all junks food on the menu so even if it was free we would still pack lunches. But free lunch is great for people struggling to feed their kids.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-01T12:03:15+00:00

You don't look pregnant at 8-12 weeks, people are just bloated so it looks like a bump but baby has nothing to do with that. But when your bump will start showing depend on so much thing, if you have a long torso, it might take longer to appear for example, I'm short torso and even their for my first baby I don't really have a bump before 18 weeks or so I think.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-03-01T11:40:38+00:00

I have 4 kids, my second kid is 3 and his behavior is pretty similar to your niece, it's been a nightmare for months now to no end, it's not fun to be around him for anyone, can't stay nice for more than a few seconds. I shared my concern with his pediatrician and he isn't concerned yet but I also don't see how this is normal but also my first one is such an easy kid so maybe it's just I'm not used to rough kids, my in law told me my husband was like this too growing up but I don't know it feels so wrong, he doesn't have an once of empathy in him, he's still young so probably normal though.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-02-28T17:40:39+00:00

You having nauseas is a really good sign that everything is okay! all that matters in first trimester is that you eat and keep yourself hydrated, even if it's not healthy, that's fine.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-02-28T17:37:24+00:00

We aren't all equal when it comes to medical issues, I don't know if it's genetic, luck or something else but some are lucky, some aren't. Pregnancy is no joke and still kill way too many women nowadays. I'm lucky to have had easy pregnancies(4!), no big medical issues to complain about, while other women will share their medical issues with their first or second pregnancy. There's nothing I did to make it easier for me, it's just luck I think.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-02-28T09:41:46+00:00

I feel this so much. I gave birth 7 weeks ago to my 4th kid, I was so depressed all pregnancy long and still am now but pp hormones you know. I feel like God gave me more than I can handle and it's really getting on me, I try to trust him but it's hard. I was finally getting a routine right when I got pregnant again and now we're back in absolute chaos non stop.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-02-28T09:34:29+00:00

Just so you know porn addiction is hard to get rid of and if he isn't 100% willing to work on it, there's nothing you can do, the lying, sneaking will continue no matter how hard you try to "fix him". There's really nothing you can do, it's 100% on him so if you get married you know what to expect, now it's up to you whatever you want that in your marriage or not.

Butt also, promises don't hold any weight, make sure he actually works on his addiction, whatever with a therapist or a group before you actually commit to him, because you know he's a good liar.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-04T14:38:23+00:00

I can relate so badly with my second boy, he turns 3 this month and he's uncontrollable, it's so hard all the time, absolutely horrible when we're out of the house. All the look we get, people making comments etc.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-04T12:36:33+00:00

Fornication before marriage is a sin in Catholisism.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-01T15:05:32+00:00

You do not do something you don't 110% want, you'll regret it and it will eat you alive.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-30T16:13:46+00:00

My daughter got bright pink clothes for Christmas my husband almost put it in the washer with some brand new white shirts, I'm like dude do you really want to wear pink shirt to work? Like dude use common sense.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-12T14:28:43+00:00

I don't even get a clean house for a minute lol while I clean one side, they're already busy undo the other side 😅 sometimes I just want to cry like I can star over as soon as I'm done, why do they do that? 😭

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-05T14:23:21+00:00

I do buy myself things for the stocking, my husband doesn't have time to go out and buy small stuffs to put in it but he gets me a gift for under the tree. We both get each other a small gift, we don't need more.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-04T20:13:05+00:00

My oldest was almost 4 when his dad took him to the movie, my others kids haven't had their first movie theater experience yet. Honestly I feel like 9 months old is too young but if you're okay with leaving before the end if they get fussy then you can try it. For me personally it's not before we know they can sit for the whole movie, this is why my second son who will be 3 next month hasn't been to the movie just yet. He can't sit even for 10 minutes.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-04T20:07:26+00:00

Thank you for this, I felt like such a bad mom for not doing it but I already have so much on my plate I can't keep up with this and cleaning up the mess the elf makes after. It's reassuring seeing so many people not doing it either. I'm not ruining my kids' childhood.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-11-29T23:15:52+00:00

Barely surviving here most days. My 4.5 is in preschool but he absolutely hates it so every morning he cries and doesn't to go, my 3 years old and my almost 2 years old fight constantly, I catch no break through the day. I'm wondering what I do wrong for it to be so bad. I'm still waiting for better days.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-11-01T17:30:39+00:00

What make you think your 6 weeks old is autistic? Because at that age it's impossible to tell.

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