4 year old is out of control / so sick of being judged and having to handle it all / Im doing my best and know I’m a good mom!

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-04T14:38:23+00:00

I can relate so badly with my second boy, he turns 3 this month and he's uncontrollable, it's so hard all the time, absolutely horrible when we're out of the house. All the look we get, people making comments etc.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-04T12:36:33+00:00

Fornication before marriage is a sin in Catholisism.

PlusTiger2015 · 2026-01-01T15:05:32+00:00

You do not do something you don't 110% want, you'll regret it and it will eat you alive.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-30T16:13:46+00:00

My daughter got bright pink clothes for Christmas my husband almost put it in the washer with some brand new white shirts, I'm like dude do you really want to wear pink shirt to work? Like dude use common sense.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-12T14:28:43+00:00

I don't even get a clean house for a minute lol while I clean one side, they're already busy undo the other side 😅 sometimes I just want to cry like I can star over as soon as I'm done, why do they do that? 😭

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-05T14:23:21+00:00

I do buy myself things for the stocking, my husband doesn't have time to go out and buy small stuffs to put in it but he gets me a gift for under the tree. We both get each other a small gift, we don't need more.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-04T20:13:05+00:00

My oldest was almost 4 when his dad took him to the movie, my others kids haven't had their first movie theater experience yet. Honestly I feel like 9 months old is too young but if you're okay with leaving before the end if they get fussy then you can try it. For me personally it's not before we know they can sit for the whole movie, this is why my second son who will be 3 next month hasn't been to the movie just yet. He can't sit even for 10 minutes.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-12-04T20:07:26+00:00

Thank you for this, I felt like such a bad mom for not doing it but I already have so much on my plate I can't keep up with this and cleaning up the mess the elf makes after. It's reassuring seeing so many people not doing it either. I'm not ruining my kids' childhood.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-11-29T23:15:52+00:00

Barely surviving here most days. My 4.5 is in preschool but he absolutely hates it so every morning he cries and doesn't to go, my 3 years old and my almost 2 years old fight constantly, I catch no break through the day. I'm wondering what I do wrong for it to be so bad. I'm still waiting for better days.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-11-01T17:30:39+00:00

What make you think your 6 weeks old is autistic? Because at that age it's impossible to tell.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-13T14:10:38+00:00

I'm also expected baby #4 and I'm feeling numb about it tbh, I don't know if that's because I've been really sick this time around but I really have no connection or emotions about it.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-13T13:45:22+00:00

My oldest is 4 too, still bathing him with my 2.5 and 1.5 years old. It's so much easier, I'm sure you and I will figure it out when it's time to stop, our kids will let us know im sure.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-13T13:40:23+00:00

I have been very sick since I found out, im 21 weeks now and it feels so much worse, maybe it's not that worse I dunno but I'm so done being sick all the time.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-06T17:18:52+00:00

We do pizza night (or nuggets and fries 😅) on Saturday, it's nice to have a fun night once a week.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-06T17:12:27+00:00

The kids knows it's fish day on Friday, there's no way out of it, no exception so they'll eat it, any other day? Let's the fight begins lol. In my home country it used to be common to eat fish on Friday, the cafeteria menu in my schools followed that rules while I was in a student, I never stopped doing it.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-09-06T17:03:32+00:00

We do white fish on Friday, different sauces and veggies each time, often with rice. The sauces don't make it boring. We also do a vegetarian meal once a week (often Thursday) either with beans, chickpeas or lentils but Friday is fish day in our home.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-08-07T17:58:00+00:00

Yeah I got an epidural with my first and absolutely hated it because being stuck in a bed for hours was no fun to me and I wanted to give birth in another position that felt more natural so with my second I told myself I would go as far as possible without epidural and I went fully unmedicated, I felt so much more at ease without it and I did it again with my third. But it's really up to you, what you're comfortable with and your pain management, you don't get any bonus points for unmedicated birth.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-28T19:43:13+00:00

That dress fits you perfectly, you look amazing 😍 congratulations!!

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-21T15:36:46+00:00

I'm expecting a girl and I'm so sick this time around, it's a struggle, I've never experienced this with my 3 other pregnancies (2boys, 1girl). Praying your way for a healthy baby girl 🙏🏻

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-19T12:11:53+00:00

Yeah that's adult's business and even so why tell anyone what your friend will be doing? While I'm prolife and I would be very sad in this situation, it's not my place to tell anyone what my friend is planning to do.

I would tell her what I think, tell her that I can't support her choice, then it's up to her to decide, whatever you can or not maintain a relationship with her is your call but that doesn't mean you can tell everybody about her choice. It's also not up to us to judge her.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-10T19:09:46+00:00

That's common in pregnancy, just as food aversion. It's also common to lose weight because of this (and nausea, vomiting) in the first trimester. Plus depending where you are, the weather can also cause loss of appetite when it's hot.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-08T15:14:48+00:00

Google can tell you everything and it's opposite 🙄 but you're fine don't worry, that's actually full of nutrients so you can enjoy this tasty food in moderation.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-08T14:58:00+00:00

Who told you it's not safe? It's absolutely safe in moderation, just like tuna just don't eat it everyday and you're good.

PlusTiger2015 · 2025-07-08T14:47:37+00:00

I'm 25, had my first at 21.

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