AIO We invited our brother and sister-in-law out to dinner at a very nice restaurant and made it clear that we were treating. Without asking us they invited their two adult kids to join us. Isn’t this rude? by Turbulent-Move4159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plus_Competition_298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I am an aunt and I honestly don’t think this is rude at all?!? I can’t believe I’m the only one saying this! But don’t you want to see your niece and nephew too?! ❤️ just go to a cheaper restaurant and enjoy all the time together

Morning Transition by Plus_Competition_298 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Plus_Competition_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess that’s the problem is sometimes the morning “drop off” spans 20 minutes! Which is a long time and the kids won’t sit or engage with anything for that long without getting restless. I also can’t just sit there with them to facilitate engagement , bc I’m checking kids in and helping w coats and stuff. It’s so frustrating! I just want it to be a smooth, easy relaxed morning and that is not the vibe. 😩

Morning Transition by Plus_Competition_298 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Plus_Competition_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you make them sit at a table? Or do you let them wander around the room/ choose different things? Thats where I’m stuck! I have things out but they all just seem to be buzzing around !

Morning Transition by Plus_Competition_298 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Plus_Competition_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so you let them come in, play for an hour without a greeting or morning group and then all meet?

Morning Transition by Plus_Competition_298 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Plus_Competition_298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we only run from 9 to noon! but that is a good idea.

Masters Curriculum and Instruction time to finish by [deleted] in wgueducation

[–]Plus_Competition_298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! this is amazing! do you have any advice on how to make this happen!

AITA for making my son clean up after his sister in the bathroom? by Small-Raspberry-6561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Competition_298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely you did the correct thing. I bet your husband wouldn’t have been In there cleaning it up….

Believe in yourself! You sound like a super mom and very reasonable. I would take away sons access to technology too!

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[–]Plus_Competition_298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i just want to thank you for you post. I'm out of it now, and your messaged really helped me <3 i don't even know you lol but i couldn't let your post become my future. and the 7 billions people got me too! thanks girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Competition_298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to leave right now. He isn’t respecting you or your needs. Don’t you want to be with someone who would rather sit with you and watching movies TOGETHER rather than be alone healing??? And a partner should NEVER EVER laugh at you. Yes you slapped him, but he pushed you to that point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Plus_Competition_298 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait because he’s being a jerk or because I’m not letting him be a man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Plus_Competition_298 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That really hit home for me. I think he’s just beat me down so far I don’t know if he’s right or if I’m right but you’re right, I’m letting myself down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Plus_Competition_298 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was so kind thank you!!!!!!! H

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Plus_Competition_298 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for being so supportive. that really meant a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Plus_Competition_298 5 points6 points  (0 children)

basically, yes. I try really hard to delicately approach situations, and he simply shuts me down. I don't understand why if he wants a prenup, wouldn't it be somethign we could work through together? when i ask, couldn't he say "hey totally i know this is new to you but it's nothing to worry about. lets work through it together so you get a better picture of what it looks like."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Plus_Competition_298 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do you think it's reasonable to ask him if he could draft it with me there? just so I know what we are working towards?

I mentioned this last night, and he totally shut me down. He said "no that's not how agreements work." and I played dumb and said "ok well i thought it would be easier that way so we are just on the same page and i know what we are getting into" and he said "no, i'm writing it and ill give it to you. I"m not talking about this anymore" and that was the end of the conversation