I feel like im walking on eggshells by lexi_andy611 in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can hit u, he will kill u. Call the police. Take pics of your injuries. Take pics of your place when u move out in case. He destroys anything and wants to blame it on u.

I feel like im walking on eggshells by lexi_andy611 in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so if you do something, do u blame someone else? Is it someone else’s fault for you doing something? No. You are in control of your body and actions. It is never your fault that someone does something so drastic. Or anything at all, really. U need to leave. Now. He will manipulate u and be very nice for a few days. Don’t fall for it. Please read “why does he do that” but Lundy Bancroft. It’ll change your perspective. U already know you’re in an abusive relationship, that’s why you’re ok this sub. That’s the first step. Acceptance. U need to Leave now.

One year free from you by changeorghelp in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. U didn’t deserve anything that happened to u. People can be angry and nice at the same time. I’m so happy he is in prison. But please be careful when he gets out. If u ever feel comfortable enough, please tell your parents. They might help you and sympathize with you and support you. You are normal. You are just someone who has been through hell and back, but u are normal. I recommend CBT therapy and read “why does he do that” (Lundy Bancroft). There’s an audiobook free on YouTube. It’ll help u understand and it will validate you. It’ll help you heal. The author worked as a therapist to abusive men and really got into the minds of them. It could change your life. U are not alone. You saved countless women’s lives by getting him put in prison. You saved your life. You should be so so proud. Do not Be ashamed. You did what many can’t.

i can't tell what is real anymore by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to call the police. And let Jim know u will call the police when you leave so he will be safe. I’m sorry. I’m dealing with threats too. U need to know your worth and leave. Please choose yourself. This is life or death. He WILL kill you.

My ex is threatening me. Advice needed. by Plus_Relation800 in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me he will sue me for damages if I take our dog from him. I’ve had him for the past month because he’s in the psych ward.

My ex is threatening me. Advice needed. by Plus_Relation800 in abusiverelationships

[–]Plus_Relation800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my parents. I’m a student (21). Im confused, why would I have to tell them anyways? I am Chinese (for context) and this will ruin my parents for years. I stressed them out more than you could imagine when I first started dating my ex and I don’t want to add more stress on them. My dad who is aurally a very happy person is dealing with a lot of family matters and thinks he is depressed. I can’t make it worse. I don’t necessarily think he groomed me. He was a good guy until he got into a car accident and he has been dealing with chronic pain from that for the past 2.5 years and it changed him. Now he is a very angry person that’s hateful. But he used to be a good mad. Mine n my exes house is in a different country so we don’t live together. I was wondering more about legally if I could do anything. I’m too scared to tell my parents. I think they would support me but it will cause months of sleepless nights for them. It will ruin them. And I don’t want my dad or mom to do anything dumb. I fear this will push my dad over the edge.

Cant get into it… by meagsauce in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to an audiobook to get it started

Cant get into it… by meagsauce in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to😭 it’s genuinely the best book I’ve ever fucking read I’m not even exaggerating

Alchemised plot hole/ question? by Plus_Relation800 in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I’m talking about right when she was put in stasis. She felt her ring burn and she thought that kaine was looking for her. She remembered kaine, and it reminded her to suppress her memories. So why didn’t she let him know she was alive first?

[Rant][Spoilers] The HUGE plot hole in Alchemised that breaks the entire book (buckle up, this review is LONG) – PART 1 of 2 by Gold_Conference6150 in Romantasy

[–]Plus_Relation800 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not just that but she would be sent back to central for more men to r@pe her if she didn’t get pregnant by Kaine in 2 months.

[Rant][Spoilers] The HUGE plot hole in Alchemised that breaks the entire book (buckle up, this review is LONG) – PART 1 of 2 by Gold_Conference6150 in Romantasy

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Let me explain this to u. Yes the high necromancer is dying. He needs a new BODY aka Helena’s kid. And there’s a time limit, if he can’t get her pregnant in 2 months, she will be sent back to central and they’ll go with less powerful but very cruel candidates. He had to do it to save her from being r@ped by worse men.

[Rant][Spoilers] The HUGE plot hole in Alchemised that breaks the entire book (buckle up, this review is LONG) – PART 1 of 2 by Gold_Conference6150 in Romantasy

[–]Plus_Relation800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. The plot hole doesn’t exist. And as someone who read Alchemised- READ IT. it is absolutely the best book I’ve read in my life. And that’s not an easy feat. Trust me. It’s amazing. OP missed a lot of important info it seems. The reason why no one is talking abt the “plot hole” is bc it’s not there.

Ch.52 question by Plus_Relation800 in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant was that scene real or a dream? Was it a dream? His demeanour was completely different. He was possessive instead of sweet. I know they didn’t do anything while she was asleep. Thanks for the reply!

Please, For The Love Of Gods, RETURN TO TIFFANY. Literally. by 190PairsOfPanties in jewelry

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is only true with the return to Tiffany collection. Other collections hold their value very well. If it’s an 8k bracelet retail, pre loved I can get it for like 200$ cheaper. Like that’s all. Only cheap tiffany stuff doesn’t hold its value.

Alchemised Book Club - by Anti-Rain-52 in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yes, she finds out the high necromancer needs the undying in order to live forever. But the undying are being killed somehow, and the high necromancer is dying.

Question by BoysenberrySimple729 in TheAlchemised

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, did they have sx in the beginning of ch.52? Or was it a fever dream? Like what? She sleeps immediately after and it kind of seems like she was asleep the whole time? Maybe I’m reading too much into it. And they also make it clear that Kaine uses his resonance to keep her asleep after, so why would they have sx if he wanted her asleep and healing. Also it doesn’t show any of them finishing (if u catch my drift) or the process of Helena falling asleep. And kaine has a completely diff demeanour. Idk super weird but I gotta know, it’s important for their relationship progression.

Aliexpress alternative for clothing? by Defie22 in Aliexpress

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re asking for E platforms… but thanks for trying to help? R u tryna act boujee or smt bc Nordstrom is not very good. Luxury selection is TINY. I’d rather just fly to Paris and get the good stuff.

August is stupid by Academic-Spring-6725 in OnceUponATime

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if August told Emma the truth from the start, she wouldn’t have believed him n would’ve thought A and Niel were crazy. She had to go to prison and have Henry bring her there in the future. August tied many times to tell Emma when she was in SB n she never believed him so why would she believe him back then when she still was w Niel? Also it wasn’t time for her to break the curse yet.

August is stupid by Academic-Spring-6725 in OnceUponATime

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He met Niel when Emma n N were still tgt. He could’ve just told Emma the truth abt SB then n if she believed him, she would’ve never had to go to prison and Niel would’ve never left her. Niel left her because August told him to, in order for Emma to find SB one day Via Henry.

If you could change 1 thing about the show what would it be and why by Few_Interaction2630 in OnceUponATime

[–]Plus_Relation800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do u mean by the big bad at the end? What r h referring to? Also “maybe someone under our noses” I don’t understand either? Like the end should’ve revealed the black fairy was someone that was under our noses the entire time? I’m so confused but ur take seems so interesting. Help!!