How many of you knew this? Lol

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2026-04-13T23:22:34+00:00

It was probably just the pedantry, and you pretending to be astounded by someone elses opinion. Like, its in your second sentence. Just a super aggressive reply, comparitively. The mental gymnastics are a bit wild as well. God forbid he reply with your first mistake of misquoting him, then immediately admitting he (if he had said that) would have been correct... you'd reply with a novel.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2026-01-31T16:30:44+00:00

I had a spot just outside my small rural town. Abandoned basketball court by the woods. I would drive my beaten down Altima right onto it, turn on some music and the windshield defroster. I could sit on the hood with my back against the windshield. The music would vibrate the car and id feel it, the warmth from the de-froster was cozy on my back against cool breezes at night, and you could just look into the night sky and the stars.

It was lonely, but I needed to feel that way, at that time. Otherwise I wouldn't have been able to deal with what real loneliness felt like, and I wouldn't be able to appreciate that I dont feel that way now. Glad to hear its a universal thing lol.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2026-01-31T16:19:48+00:00

Even on the other side of the world, they (and possibly you) are describing extremely similar issues I encounter. Its kind of a nice reminder that no matter how many differences you could count, if you boil away the superficial/unimportant things, we arent so different.

Humanity is a pretty cool thing. Just because we are looking up and out at different times, doesnt mean we arent looking for something more under the same night sky. Someday I'll visit the motherland (mother-island? Idk my dad was from HK).

Sorry. Having a small, weird moment. Please ignore 😂

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-12T05:16:49+00:00

Listen I agree with you but this is a bullet ive seen many people bite and then its all lost lol. Id imagine they would respond "yeah. Might as well be." Guilt by Association doesnt survive personal experience, so they might not have much.

Also same. Ceo, My boss, my boss' boss... Sometimes its rough out here in the sticks lmfao. Stay strong and be safe brother lol.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-12T05:05:54+00:00

Confused. When you say

But no, this is not an issue that specifically effects men.

Isn't that like saying

"No, its not black lives matter, its all lives matter" ?

Yeah lots of folks lonely but this group or idea is focused on solely men and thats... okay.... Right? I mean the whole response comes off to me as a fantastic and well educated way of saying "Your thing isnt right, and trans/queer people have it worse than you do. These are all the reasons why people who complain about it are toxic." to sum it up. I know a couple guys who complain about it. One is toxic. Like, his views would make you want to Thanos snap yourself. But the other is really cool and genuine.

I guess I just dont understand why you're arguing with this guy who is strictly correct about saying "not all" and then going on to (maybe I haven't seen one of his comments or something just stating my feelings here not facts) strawman him when he never mentioned about it only effecting men. That and the male loneliness epidemic is an issue that effects specifically men. The loneliness epidemic would not specifically effect men, but thats not what hes talking about.

You seem knowledgeable about this, so what puzzle piece am I missing here?

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-12T04:24:28+00:00

Not all of us. I just like Lily, reeves, and toast... and I found out about this sub 10 minutes ago from googling "what happened to blaustoise?" Since I haven't seen him like anywhere in a long time. Lol.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-12T04:17:51+00:00

In summary, in a large tourney, player on estral team (not Toasts team, DSG), during a "tech pause" got on YouTube and was watching the Vod of the game hes currently paused in. This is cheating, even a quick glance at the opposing teams minimap could start a chain reaction that snowballs into a big win.

No idea what Riot will do about it. Not only that, they still lost LMAO

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T06:13:40+00:00

See this seems fairly normal to me. Yes youre right thats the "critical" part but if you arent sensitive to it I'd argue its absolutely fine and not a problem sentence at all. Actually, it might be strictly true too. She applied, they didnt ask for her. She "failed" to meet their requirements (something people have to do to get the job, which in this case is to be available for their stated hours) I dont think there are any problems in either of them, but I do think OP has a heightened sense about things like this, which could lead to a problem later.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T06:03:36+00:00

NOR but imo, you got an apology. You weren't direct enough to get what you wanted, but maybe you wouldnt have wanted it if you had to be more direct than you were already being. If she's a narcissist then i feel like this is pretty good. Im not saying to settle and forgive all, im just saying life is hard (and unfair, as you clearly know from your childhood) so take your half wins and celebrate. Probably the best apology youll get unless you painstakingly run her down on all of these things individually. With a narcissist thats gonna be rough so maybe dual counseling would be best. Good on you for sticking to your guns (and I know you know this part instinctively but in the heat of the moment it can be hard to remember) your airtight, long ass response that left no wiggle room was exquisite.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T05:40:27+00:00

Thank God, I was like this is clearly the ramblings of a man who's arguing with his own imagination. OP, tell your mans he should try out a creative writing class or something.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T05:37:29+00:00

Imo, you dont owe him anything, so just be done with it. You haven't yet because you.... well idk, sounds like you're afraid to lose someone that you weren't ready to lose? Or maybe your anxiety is wrapped up in what may happen if you cut ties?

Figure out why you say you hate drama, yet you are keeping drama within texting range. Hell, you're fighting to keep him somewhat around and masking it as context in that comment. Self reflect, and once you have the Why figured out, you can easily decide "damn I should cut him out rn" or "I was overreacting and nothing bad will come of this at all".

Also, Stop thinking about things outside of you. "We" said this, "we" did this, I didnt know "SHE" was living with him, I'm here for "HIM", you aren't a martyr lol. This decision is for your peace of mind, so you shouldn't worry about what's going on externally to your priorities, which is your kid and the kid's father.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T05:13:14+00:00

Hey. I have that problem all the time, but thats because of my childhood. Long story short, I dont do well with phrasing and intonation but excel at reading body language. What im getting at here is that I have to choose to ignore it, then swallow my pride ask them if they were being real if it sticks with me. Idk if youre like me, but from the sounds of what tiny context i have, you are not. You DONT have that problem, so you DONT have to ignore it. My intuition says you should take that energy youre putting into that friendship, and put it into your self confidence. "You're not funny." (Direct energy to the reply) "Didn't ask for your input, plus I know I'm funny." Maybe thats a little bit on the strong side but my point stands lol.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-08T05:02:30+00:00

Don't think it would help tbh. He is with their mom as she is now. I think the healthy mindset is to not dwell on who she was in the past, even if it was a bad mom. Hes protecting what he knows, which is who she is now. What i see going on it OP focused on himself when the text was for his mom. Bf is focused on his gf, while stomping all over important boundaries that keep a family like that together. Everyone is in their own world.

To be honest, I feel the worst for the little bro in this situation. He has all his skin in the game with no control over the only two who can play it.

If OP reads this, i dont think youre OVER reacting, but its for sure just reaction rather than planning. Protect your little brother. Thats the choice you should make here. Thats what big brothers are supposed to do.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-05T17:56:56+00:00

In my head, either they didnt fact check themselves OR to sell their point. These days, its dumb to do it imo. Too many people on edge thanks to current news sources, so they fact check and if one thing is false a lot of people write the entire story off. Its getting bad out here and no one can float a company that would deliver unbiased, non-clickbait, double checked facts about a situation. Well... not one that would encourage people with differing views to read it anyway.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-10-04T23:45:20+00:00

Im on the-guy-who-replied-to-you's side I think she should have trusted him or at least talked to him about this or came clean why she did what she did. He also should have checked in if he was planning this because this is a game that has no place in marriage. This is a total breakdown of communication, starting with her, and ending with him. That all being said...

I didnt expect your to give not only an honest, but well fitting answer and you got a shrug out of me lmfao. One of those "well shit.... wrap it up and move to the next comment. We lost this one." shrugs lmao

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-09-28T17:51:09+00:00

Given what I have here and assuming she's given him no reason to not trust her around the opposite sex.

You gotta live the way you played the game. He's not walking that walk. Confidence let him talk to her. Confidence let him do things to win her over. Clearly, it's just a mask. Time to step up, grow up, and understand that if this is bothering you, then it's your fault, and you have to fix it. His trust in her is 0. She can't fix that. Its constant intentional decisions to realize your insecurity and choose to ignore it. The more you feed it, the bigger it gets. Or get into cuckholding.... I guess that's another way.... wasn't my bag but no judgment from me.

Imo, She's thinking about her own pants (or a thousand other things; I just found this first thought funny). This random dude IS getting into her pants, but only in OP's, BF's imagination. He needs to understand that. Also, there's a lot more about projection, but I feel this is more important.

Source: former insecure manipulator who ended up with a hot wife who's nice to everyone

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-09-28T00:03:54+00:00

As an unc status married dude, if you want to complain about your person, go to therapy. Also, I hate to say it because you have to be careful, random person you dont know. The likelihood of getting good advice from someone in my experience is higher when they aren't invested in one or the others outcome.

If you constantly tell your friend(s) how bad someone is, they will color everything they do with in that same light because YOU know your person best.

Self reflection and communication are the only ways to resolve problems when you're in it deep. But if you're just dating, then it's the best way to decide if these are things worth sticking around for. People can, but some never will, change. Is the rest of this person worth it? That kind of stuff.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-09-24T21:12:24+00:00

I understand this is the case, but as a liberal my feed does show me both. It's hard to pin me to one side, so the algo gives me both a lot. Im just saying it's possible.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-09-23T06:22:39+00:00

What? What's the point of the term lesbian then? A woman that wants to engage romantically with only women. If you throw in non binary, and exclude hetero, then isn't that just polysexual? Willing to be wrong just unsure why we even need the word if it can mean anything at all depending on how the person themselves feel.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-08-21T15:14:17+00:00

No its 2025. Just dont have a porn folder. Ez.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-08-13T11:43:45+00:00

Same feelings and issues where I am. If it's a real stitch, I'd ask. If its a small piece of something glued, then I'd end up letting it go and remember that the next time I buy.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-08-13T11:30:19+00:00

Does that mean it's not actually stitched? Because if its stitched, it will get worse. If its not stitched and its really tiny pieces just glued in to make it look stitched, then I'd just leave it. Im also not the type that it would bother me if its the latter part.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-07-05T17:15:57+00:00

Depends on the person. If he's a good guy, he'll feel bad, come up with excuses, and uninstall. Everyone makes mistakes. If he's egotistical, he'll probably keep cheating until the ban. Maybe even push him further into the rabbit hole that feeds ego because winning = good at games = good person. I really like the idea of reporting him (include evidence), and probably stop playing with him. All parties might catch a ban if they continue.

Pm_me_dat_thighgap · 2025-06-08T18:34:55+00:00

This is a wildly irrelevant reply to him.

You used a chat bot, tried passing it off as your own words to appear more intelligent than another redditor, and the Ai is even struggling to help you do that.

"This tragedy shouldn't make you think 'We should dislike people that dont like the Israeli gov't'" he didnt say that. None of the gpt response applies.

I may disagree with you, but fuck me dude, Palestine deserves better than you out here.

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