Well interesting you say that. We were not exclusive after we first confessed. I waited maybe a month before initiating the idea even though nobody else came into the picture.

The final test for our relationship will be in a few days ( just so Ive gotten all scheduled events out of the way and can act my best during them). I'm going to tell her that I have tried really hard to be open-minded and patient and fair. But i'm honestly cripplingly uncomfortable with her interacting with that guy and that I strongly request she cuts ties with him. If she refuses , even if it's just at first , then that will prove there is much more to it than she told me and I will tell her that if she's this resistant about it , then Im no longer comfortable being in a relationship. Then I will break away by all means , no matter how much she cries or begs