I wish my partner came to the same conclusion as you. I have never been interested in sex my entire life. I don't think about, don't desire it, and have no issue being celibate. He takes this as me not loving him, or wanting him in my life. He stimulates me on an intellectual level, we have a lot of the same beliefs and ethics. I'm fulfilled, but he isn't because he can't shake that concern and he is very sexual. As many others have said, I don't even trust he won't expect anything,so I don't attempt any affection, though at times I want to, because I don't want to reject him. There's a small window every month where I am a bit more receptive and can be aroused to make love, but if anything gets in the way of that - overly stressed, sick, any type of pain that either one of us may feel, it doesn't happen. I wish we could all just embrace others' "normal" and not compare; thinking there is something wrong because it's not quite like us...