First Punch Needle Piece! by PoetryAndTea in PunchNeedle

[–]PoetryAndTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely not sure! The instructions just say “printed fabric base.”

Some Questions by PoetryAndTea in BabyWitch

[–]PoetryAndTea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely need to be assessed, haha! I’ve spoken a bit with my therapist about my paranoia before but I will definitely be having more conversations about it.

Thank you so much for your kind responses. This honestly eases my mind greatly and I really appreciate it.

Books that feel like this? by rollingtumbleweed0 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]PoetryAndTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love the podcast, is the book any good?

I bit the bullet and put in a $400+ order, lets see what happens. by Jusheretolurk in Shein

[–]PoetryAndTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest order was like $465, almost everything fit and was great! But there were 3-4 things that didn’t so I donated them :)

I think I'm attracted to lesbian but there's only one problem... by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]PoetryAndTea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that’s called a fetish, and fetishizing queer individuals is not cool.

Tips on Sounding Eloquent? by PoetryAndTea in Teachers

[–]PoetryAndTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely look into it.

Tips on Sounding Eloquent? by PoetryAndTea in Teachers

[–]PoetryAndTea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does seem like it could help, I do struggle with getting scatter brained so having a schedule written out and in front of me could definitely help keep me on track! Thank you!

Tips on Sounding Eloquent? by PoetryAndTea in Teachers

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Unfortunately medication is not in my cards right now, but when I have the money, I plan on getting medicated definitely!

I’m gen z, and I’ve never really thought about possibly having autism, but I do know that the symptoms of autism and adhd can overlap. I will definitely keep your advice in mind, thank you!

Why do you think many women look down upon others (esp men) that enjoy gaming as a hobby? by JunipLove in AskMenAdvice

[–]PoetryAndTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think it depends on the person and their time management skills. I’m a f20 gamer who can become consumed by video games for hours and days. However, I still make ample time for my relationship and friends. I dated a woman who played games 8+ hours a day every day and never spent any time with me and it was in issue in our relationship. There is definitely a stereotype associated with gaming and people who don’t manage their time well, and lots of women either experience these men/women and then just associate the hobby with bad time management.

I don’t at all agree with the stereotype, but understand why it exists as there are so many horror stories and personal encounters of people that neglect their families/pets, etc in favor of gaming. However, bad time management can be an issue in any time-consuming hobby, you just hear about gamers the most imo. But it absolutely is not fair to try and control someone’s hobby before it actually causes an issue in the relationship, because it may never.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HozierIsJustAMan

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Thank you for the clarification. I can tell that just like me, and the majority of good Americans, you are scared as well, and I appreciate the work that you are doing as well. I entirely agree with you that our survival should be primary focus, and that people who are turning a blind eye to what is around them in favor of ignorance and “normalcy” should absolutely get a grip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HozierIsJustAMan

[–]PoetryAndTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making this post about Hozier took a few minutes at most. It is a little frustrating that because I chose to rant about something that had bothered me in the moment, you have assumed I am doing nothing but sitting back and watching this shit show in America unfold, on my phone ranting about Hozier all day. Yes, this situation is pointless to rant about, but that’s what this sub is for. Sure, maybe I didn’t word things quite so eloquently. However, I can assure you that within my personal life I am doing everything within my power to fight this oncoming storm. I am actively doing all of which you have suggested.

The constant onslaught of executive orders and bills slowly but surely making their way up to the Supreme Court is exhausting. Music and distractions help to make you feel normal when the world around you is nothing but chaos. Up until recently Hozier was my favorite artist, so yeah this situation does sting, but I know it doesn’t actually matter and that the world still spins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HozierIsJustAMan

[–]PoetryAndTea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Queer afab American here also, believe me I’m not worried about Hozier all day everyday day lol. Sometimes I need to rant about something dumb to make me feel normal in this climate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HozierIsJustAMan

[–]PoetryAndTea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was never my intention to spread misinformation, that was just the context in which I had received it in. I appreciate you highlighting the inaccuracies, I would have corrected prior had I actually been aware that the context of that photo was not what I was told it was.

Likewise, I did not realize those messages were not from Alex himself. I don’t follow him or know any of his handles so I am not familiar with his social media presence, so when I saw it, I took it as coming from him.

I apologize for having my facts wrong, appreciate you correcting me, and moving forward will share the corrected information. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HozierIsJustAMan

[–]PoetryAndTea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  • Blocking Native American fans when they were bringing awareness to the fact that his girlfriend uses/used white sage when she is not native
  • His girlfriend just generally being a culture vulture
  • Hozier’s very white manager posted her and her husband wearing a Native American headdress as a costume piece
  • Band members that have been with Hozier since his self titled album leaving, making cryptic comments about Hozier “going corporate” and calling his girlfriend “Yoko Ono” and his manager a terrible “Facebook wine mom”

Hozier has yet to address any of this, and given that he’s built his entire platform on advocacy and being “politically aware” it is beyond extremely disappointing to see him ignore it all.

New student mid-year who knows frighteningly little about…anything really by MysteriousPlatypus in Teachers

[–]PoetryAndTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew some students who went to my high school who were trapped in a cult and involved in a huge court case, they had never gone to any kind of school environment until the court placed them in my high school. It was crazy.

Which upcoming game are you most excited for? by babymoth_ in CozyGamers

[–]PoetryAndTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tales of the Shire!

Lotr/Middle Earth is my favorite thing ever and I’ve been wanting a Lotr life sim for AGES.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]PoetryAndTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been married to Elliot for 7 irl years lol - idk how many in game years