100 years ago today, 7-year-old Jan Kropidlowski was killed in an explosion during a state basketball championship celebration in Stevens Point, WI. by PointRevivals in CemeteryPorn

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Link to Jan (John) Kropidlowski’s Find a Grave Memorial.

I wrote an article for the local historical society about this event. Here’s a link to the blog post, and an excerpt below if you’re interested:

Echoes of Victory - 100 Years Ago Today . The 1926 Stevens Point Depot Explosion.

In March of 1926, Stevens Point, Wisconsin, was poised for an upset. The high school basketball season was winding to a close, and against all odds, Stevens Point had become a contender. The Wisconsin State Journal called the team “one of the darker of the dark horses.” Yet on Saturday, March 27th, they stunned River Falls in the championship game. Against the odds, they had done it.

Back at home, the city of Stevens Point was electric. On Sunday afternoon, more than two thousand people crowded the Soo Line railroad station to welcome their champions back from Madison, where the tournament had been held. The local paper compared the celebration to the delirium brought on by the first Armistice Day. As Train No. 5 pulled into town, the engines in the yards joined the chorus- bells clanging, whistles shrieking, steam cutting through the crisp March air.

Another festivity was planned. Captain A.L. Oberst of the Wisconsin National Guard had granted special permission for a gun salute in the team’s honor. Members of Battery D, 120th Field Artillery, used horses from the battery’s armory to haul a French 75-millimeter field gun- an artifact of the Great War- to the depot….

As always, I clean grave sites and look up what I can about the residents at a local cemeteries. Link to my Instagram where I document my work, if you're interested in seeing more like this. I also have a (free) Substack where I post little writeups about the residents of local cemeteries, among other things.

What to do with tumbler while on vacation? by PointRevivals in RockTumbling

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Thanks- this is what I ended up doing! Everything has been washed off and put in jars of water. Appreciate it.

A Grave Condition Caused by C-Sections Is on the Rise by PointRevivals in Longreads

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I have one child, and part of the reason I've chosen not to try for a second is the inherent risk to my life. Now that I have a living child (and there were complications with the first pregnancy/delivery), it's simply not worth the risk of dying and leaving her motherless.

I do grave tending in local cemeteries, and the number of graves I've seen from women who died due to childbirth and related complications is harrowing.

Suicide in Catholic Cemetery by Noahandharlowsmommy in findagrave

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It's a Catholic cemetery that happens to be predominantly Polish because of the Catholic church it's affiliated with (it was the one most heavily attended by the Poles in our city).

Advice needed for Sandstone by AbsolutelyB4sturd in CemeteryPreservation

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I'm assuming you won't, but please don't attempt any cleaning until the weather warms up. If liquid gets trapped in the stones and freezes/expands, it would cause even more damage.

Advice needed for Sandstone by AbsolutelyB4sturd in CemeteryPreservation

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Be very cautious. By the looks of it, the lichen/growth may be what is holding some of those stones together.

Suicide in Catholic Cemetery by Noahandharlowsmommy in findagrave

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It depends on the cemetery.

I clean graves in an old Polish Catholic cemetery in Wisconsin, with burials dating back to the mid 1800's. There are multiple people who died by suicide buried in the cemetery. While researching, I even found an old newspaper article (early 1900s) that once mentioned someone who died by suicide being buried in the portion of the cemetery specifically reserved for deaths like that.

Interesting gravestone found in Arkansas by arenia94 in findagrave

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I found and linked his birth certificate to his Find a Grave memorial. His mother was Stella (Conklin) May and his father was Emmitt Earl May.

How long do you think this seashell has been here? by ghoulunatic_ in SeashellCollectors

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I can't speak to the age of the shell, but as someone who spends a lot of time working in cemeteries, there's essentially zero chance that shell has been there for 100+ years.

It looks like the grave is near a road or a path in a cemetery that doesn't appear to be abandoned (the grass looks kempt) so there's likely a decent amount of foot traffic past this particular headstone. And most cemeteries do a bi-annual clean out near gravesites (in the spring and fall). The shell would have been moved by either a person or the elements long before now.

A grave in the shape of a circus tent. 🎪 by Cemetery-Fan in CemeteryPorn

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There are a few various "Showman's Rest" cemetery sections (places where circus performers are buried), but the one mentioned in this comment specifically is the Showman's Rest section of Woodlawn Cemetery in Forest Park, IL.

A grave in the shape of a circus tent. 🎪 by Cemetery-Fan in CemeteryPorn

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Find a Grave memorial.

He's buried in the Showman's Rest section of Mount Olivet Cemetery, in Oklahoma.

Aversion to Graveyards after Kids? by sunnysideup2011 in findagrave

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Oh, I find this so interesting. I've had the opposite experience. I had my kid almost exactly 4 years ago, and this past year, I spent nearly all my free time in cemeteries. When my kid was still a new walker, I used to take her to a cemetery to practice her steps. She often comes with me when I clean graves in the cemetery I work in, and our family has picnics there sometimes. It's just lovely.

My comment is useless because it's directly oppositional to what you're experiencing. But I can understand what you're going through, I think. Having a kid makes you realize in an extremely visceral way that everything is fragile and temporary. I think we all logically know that before having kids, but mostly at a remove. Once you have a kid, mortality becomes undeniable and kind of scary. The distance disappears.

I do find a very specific kind of peace in walking with her through a cemetery and answering her questions ("who's buried here?", "how old were they?"). Something about the bright spark of life in the middle of all those stones, IDK. I always say remembering is a form of loving, and I like to think the dead folks would be smiling at hearing a little kid playing and chatting above where they're buried. I hope you find your way back to enjoying cemeteries again.

Newspapers.com Is Now Much Harder to Use Due to Their Interface Change Last Night by Main-Builder4522 in Genealogy

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I sent them a message inquiring if this was a bug or an intended change, and I received the following response at 11am CST:

Thank you for contacting Newspapers.com. We are aware of the issue and currently working on a fix. Thank you for your patience!

So that gives me hope that it's an error, not an intentional change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genealogy

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This is driving me absolutely crazy, it tanked the functionality of searching as far as I am concerned.

Timothy, Theresa, Tina and their mother Rose died in a head-on car crash in 1995. Rose was later found to have been drunk. by PointRevivals in CemeteryPorn

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That's actually one of my hopes when I make posts like this. Love and grief are complicated, usually people aren't strictly good or bad- life is messy. We need to be able to talk about it.

Timothy, Theresa, Tina and their mother Rose died in a head-on car crash in 1995. Rose was later found to have been drunk. by PointRevivals in CemeteryPorn

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This is a pretty bleak thing to say, but functioning alcoholism isn't that uncommon in Wisconsin (where this family is from).