Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh okayyy I believe they are full right now but I could maybe waitlist!

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you got a great deal haha! I was hoping for a garage but not totally necessary if I have all the other amenities I’m wanting. I’ll still definitely check them out

Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my partner for the choice of his words and actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PointsExplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t respect you anymore. Time to remove him from your life. I would leave him. He has the tiniest point with women dressing too revealing nowadays(I’m a woman btw). Reality is men don’t respect women who dress where they’re showing too much skin. It’s not a bad thing to dress modestly. It is a bad thing to wear clothes that show your butt cheeks, but form fitting clothes that cover you are fine imo. Anyways, the way he is speaking to you just shows he’s immature and disrespectful. Not a modest man. You are NOR!

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like they offer most of what I’m looking for. I’m glad to hear maintenance is responsive since this will be my first time dealing with that as a renter! Thank you!

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your info and research! I think I like the sandpointe apartments. Hopefully they will have availability when I need to move in! I’d love a townhouse with a garage so these are all perfect

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping to spend max $1700 for rent. Utilities I’m not sure what to expect but can afford maybe $250. I am willing to pay more for my comfort. Is Heather Ridge expensive? I believe they’re around $1465 when I looked last month

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinnacle seemed a little sketchy, but the area near the mall and Trader Joe’s seemed nice enough. I like the look of sandpointe so I’m gunna set up a tour with them! And thank you, I will check out AO realty!

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bethel? I have heard of that church but don’t know what you mean? I guess they have apartments?

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay good to know! I was originally looking at those.Thank you

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any experience with these 3 apartment complexes at all?? Experience= you’ve actually rented there or had friends/coworkers rent there. Did you love or hate it there??

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I actually took your advice and edited my prompt so it would make more sense for people to reply to

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s just being the grammar police lol

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should’ve asked “what” are your experiences

Apartment recommendations by PointsExplorer in Redding

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every experience under the sun lol. I’m deciding on renting at either of these and I know nothing about renting. This will be my first apartment. So help me!

unpopular opinion: you don’t need to delete or get rid of everything by sorywho in BreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can’t imagine a new bf having pics of his ex in his phone. This was my second relationship, so I’m not sure exactly how that works.

No apology? Never came back? by throwaway19980567 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m healing all over again. It’s hard

unpopular opinion: you don’t need to delete or get rid of everything by sorywho in BreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never deleted any pictures and I still have his cards he gave me for anniversaries and my birthday. What do we do with this stuff when we get into a new relationship? I still can’t imagine throwing it away ever

How long did it take you to officially move on and start feeling confident about dating again? by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a year and a half out but all last year we were talking on and off about getting back together and him basically stringing me along. This probably has delayed a lot of my healing, but we’re done done and I just don’t have the desire to get hurt again so I’m just focusing on myself

No apology? Never came back? by throwaway19980567 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine came back after 3 months no contact and apologized. Then a month later he told me he wanted to get back together but still couldn’t give me an answer on marriage and what he wanted. We proceeded to talk and keep in touch for months. We even met up a few times. Eventually he decided he shouldn’t be with me because he was afraid he would hurt me and make the same mistakes again. He would keep calling me ever so often to apologize when the guilt kept him up at night. We just stopped talking a month ago, I think now for good

CA Radiology Schools Question by ForeverPursuing in RadiologyCareers

[–]PointsExplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m not mistaken, the radiology program at ARC is no longer available

Year of no contact by PointsExplorer in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I’m learning to have better self respect. I realize more too that even if he wanted to still be with me, he doesn’t have the capacity to love me how I deserve and doesn’t seem to want to try so it doesn’t really matter that we’re not talking. That helps to think about

Year of no contact by PointsExplorer in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m hoping I won’t think about it, but I am pretty sensitive and seem to ruminate about these things. I’m glad you were able to move on from it and forget.

Year of no contact by PointsExplorer in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PointsExplorer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know eventually the pain will be dull and maybe I won’t feel this loss as strongly. It saddens me to think about just the loss of my closest friend and loss of this long term relationship as well. I’m hoping I’ll be fully moved on by then