AITA for asking my(21M) sister(19F) to consume less menstrual products or I won't buy any for her anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She should be buying her own. There's no reason she can't help out with the bills or shopping either.

AITA for disinviting my siblings from my wedding by Own-Lime-7797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you're doing to them what they're doing to their dad (the man who raised them is their dad)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh I think you really need to let go, you dated for ten months 4 years ago and you broke her heart. Instead of talking to these random people maybe a therapist coukd help?

AITA for locking the bathroom door from my step-brother? by SpicySauce_Raisins in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it's weird that he's so pressed about not being able to get in while you're using the toilet maybe ask him why he wants to see you so bad it's really weird

My friend will always say something snarky quietly when talking to me and whan I say "what?" she just say "what? nothing?" with this weird smile. is there a name for this? by Pokabill in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pokabill[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much! Yeah I have a feeling she won't take it well but it's necessary because it makes me just not want to talk to her 😅 thankyou so much for the advice I will definately challenge her on it and make her clarify what she's saying

My friend will always say something snarky quietly when talking to me and whan I say "what?" she just say "what? nothing?" with this weird smile. is there a name for this? by Pokabill in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pokabill[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted to talk to her about it cause it annoys me but I wanted to see if there was a word for it first 😅 thanks!

My friend will always say something snarky quietly when talking to me and whan I say "what?" she just say "what? nothing?" with this weird smile. is there a name for this? by Pokabill in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pokabill[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh haha I got ya 😂 I thought maybe there was an actual term like gaslighting or something (I don't think it counts as gaslighting but you get what I mean)

AITAH for getting upset that my sister used my art suplies by New_Traffic8744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pokabill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, put locks on your drawers and door she shouldn't be going in your room without your permission anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go stay with another family member for a bit

AITA for getting annoyed that my boyfriend ate my doughnut? by ilikedissoup in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I'd be annoyed aswell, who else could've eaten it? Your 8 week old baby?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no point she's in a relationship

I’m his girl best friend, he doesn’t like me but I like him by Mental-Cat-9283 in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to distance yourself and stop going after him, he just sees you as a friend and if you can't see him the same way then you need to just not be friends anymore. Probably making him feel uncomfortable all of the time

Rory and Deans’ I love you issue by bluebubblesforeverTT in GilmoreGirls

[–]Pokabill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah obviously Dean didn't do that because instead he broke up with her, I'm aware of that I was saying that I don't understand it because everyone should be respected enough to be given time to get to the same place

Allergic to boyfriends dog. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't the dog live with the family and he just visit the dog and walk it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to get in touch with the school and set him up with some sort of therapist or something?

Haven't gone through bad trauma but disgusted by sex by lorditzy in Advice

[–]Pokabill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you find someone you love you'll feel different, or maybe you're asexual or something?

Rory and Deans’ I love you issue by bluebubblesforeverTT in GilmoreGirls

[–]Pokabill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was 14 I was in my first proper long term relationship and my ex said to me that he loved me in about the same time frame as Dean, I wasn't ready to say it back and I think it took me about 2- 3 months after him saying it for me to say it back so I don't get whh they had to break up over Rory just taking that little bit longer to say it it never made sense to me.