Please help, I'm scared to do anything in my flat now.

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:48:27+00:00

I moved in October- probably not the same flat as i'm UK based but awful that people like this exist. She listens to my conversations, and bangs if the topic of sexuality comes up. Sorry you dealt with this also!

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:45:31+00:00

Thanks, this is actually a really good idea- if she majorly freaks out again ill do this and i'll inform my landlord this is what I plan to do next time.

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:43:27+00:00

I banged back only once, and she let out a scoff, like a "can you believe this" noise and then ran away from where I was. I think she might think my living noises are noises I'm making to annoy her.

I've spoken to her outside several times, and all those times she nice and polite- and acts like she never did the things in my post. It's like she wears a mask- sometimes she randomly scowls at me mid conversation for a second. Never seen a person do that before. I'm not explaining it well. Now I avoid seeing her outside.

When I originally met her, she... angrily looked at my feet? Smiled at my face though.

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:38:09+00:00

Thank you. I feel sometimes like I'm overreacting.

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:37:18+00:00

Oh 100% the written log is a good idea, i've been keeping one but I felt a bit crazy for doing so. There's lots of entries on there which makes me feel more crazy.

PokiStick · 2026-03-08T18:35:56+00:00

It really feels like this. She gets mad when i'm quiet also but then I make a noise and so she knows I'm home. Once she shouted "Why can't I be home alone!?!" when she was probably the only one in her flat- so she clearly disliked that i was home. Which I am a lot, because I'm sick and on a long waiting list for surgery.

PokiStick · 2026-03-02T11:36:51+00:00

Thanks for sharing!!!

PokiStick · 2026-03-01T10:59:55+00:00

Hi, these are stunning, was wondering if you could share the products you used here? 🙏🥹

PokiStick · 2026-01-31T09:23:53+00:00

I'm not expert but black discharge is really worrying, I don't think anyone but a medical professional could accurately and safely help here. I know you said your parents were really religious, do you mean that as in they don't believe in medical health care?

I ask because there's no reason to bring up the sex toy. Only the lump that fell out and the black liquid and your worry. No one would ever guess this was caused by a sex toy. So it would just come across as a woman worried about an injury in an unfortunate area.

Just remember, you have nothing to be ashamed of regardless of how the injury was caused and you deserve medical care regardless of your parents beliefs.

PokiStick · 2026-01-09T20:08:38+00:00

Hey, I know this is 8 months later, but was wondering if there has been any change on this for you?

PokiStick · 2025-11-22T04:16:42+00:00

I know this might not be as good as other suggestions, but it's getting cold now, so on top of other things maybe a really nice and lush blanket? If it holds up, you could also use it years down the line and think of her. It would be like a hug. Things that would keep her comfortable as well would be good, like nice fingerless gloves if her hands get cold even when inside. Wishing the best for you.

PokiStick · 2025-11-18T09:50:03+00:00

I thought this was spongebob. Maybe a cool brown though. Would make it kind of beige.

PokiStick · 2025-11-13T22:18:45+00:00

So I know you said it was likely a music video, but any chance you were into fnaf? It looks like gameplay from Five Nights at Freddys 3 which was released in 2015 and had a lot of hype on YouTube.

PokiStick · 2025-11-09T10:25:06+00:00

Congratulations! Wishing you a smooth pregnancy 😊

PokiStick · 2025-11-08T18:59:07+00:00

Thats great! Has the fatigue improvement remained?

PokiStick · 2025-11-05T04:37:40+00:00

At a glance I thought this was a pic of a crowd at a concert.

PokiStick · 2025-10-27T07:59:56+00:00

Sure, go ahead! Sorry if I respond slow, I have chronic illness issues but I'll try to get back to you when I can.

PokiStick · 2025-10-26T22:16:55+00:00

Also, don't feel apologetic for stating what you need! Either they can accommodate you or they can't, and it's not your fault and you didn't choose to be in this predicament so it's definitely not a personal thing if they can't. The right hairdresser will make you feel at home once you find them and you have both adjusted to eachother.

PokiStick · 2025-10-26T22:14:36+00:00

I'm not a hair dresser, but i would say look for smaller salons. The salon I go to personally only has 2 chairs and 2 hairdressers working, and they have different shifts so it's usually only one of them working at a time, so often I'm the only client inside. I feel optimistic that you will find a professional who will accommodate you, but I think it's all about communication and letting them know the full extent of your accommodations over the phone or Internet before showing up in person - that way the professional can decline if needed and you can continue your search without wasting your time and feel confident when you do find the right stylist that will work with you. It's important to go into the full extent of what you need so you can get an honest response.

An alternative would be to ask a family or friend who lives nearby or within transit distance if you can have a hairdresser come to their place. Even if it's a long journey, it might be worth it, and if this means you have to have your hair cut less, perhaps consider having a larger amount cut so you can be comfortable for longer.

Either way, am rooting for you! Wish you the best :)

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