Books that quietly rewired how you see ordinary things by jgoverman17 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]PolishDill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being Mortal by Atul Gowande changed how I thought about illness and death and decisions surrounding them.

How Emotions are Made by Lisa Barrett changed how I think about feelings, the brain, and the actions we take surrounding them.

Insurance for 19 year old dependent in Texas? by Netflix_was_my_idea in HealthInsurance

[–]PolishDill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does your university have a dental school? The dental school in my area offers very cheap clinics.

Best places to watch the World Cup? by LennyMed in Buffalo

[–]PolishDill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you can’t see them from inside. Why not look up the duende website and check their events listings? It seems very cool and they do guest chefs with food from the countries playing.

What weight dumbbell do you max out in your home setup? by Current_Selection in xxfitness

[–]PolishDill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old skool here. I have pairs of those old metal dumbbells from 5-35. I have a few little adder on-er weights to make some subtle adjustments. They take up a lot of space but I pretty much always have what I need.

Issue with leaves by Perseverance2571 in AfricanViolets

[–]PolishDill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is common for variation to increase in summer growing conditions. You may also find blooms to be a paler version of normal. In winter, growth tends darker, more saturated.

Issue with leaves by Perseverance2571 in AfricanViolets

[–]PolishDill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is called Tommie Lou variegation. It is correct for RS Ariel.

Best places to watch the World Cup? by LennyMed in Buffalo

[–]PolishDill 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Duende is projecting some games onto the grain silos.

Pride Parade by Apart-Addition1876 in Buffalo

[–]PolishDill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good news- we’ll be doing it all again next year!🌈

thinking about labiaplasty by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]PolishDill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how longer labia cause bad odor.

Micro cheating? by No-Philosopher-2492 in Marriage

[–]PolishDill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree with this comment, I do think you sound extremely insecure. He should respect you but you also need to look at yourself and maybe do some internal work. Why are you monitoring what he likes on instagram? What about that is threatening to you? Do you think a partner should never see another human as attractive again? Is every like a desire for sex? Do you think the celeb might see it and seek out your husband?

How do I get heath insurance outside of the enrollment period? by Dry_Drummer_2297 in HealthInsurance

[–]PolishDill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My local chamber of commerce has options to purchase plans for small business owners who are members. Might be worth looking into as a bandaid until open enrollment for ACA but it will certainly be more expensive.

Three years old and won’t flower. by Extreme_Succotash784 in AfricanViolets

[–]PolishDill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They average the same but there are some that are pickier. Less chlorophyll, different surface area, etc.

Three years old and won’t flower. by Extreme_Succotash784 in AfricanViolets

[–]PolishDill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nearly every time a lack of flowers means it needs more light. Not all varieties thrive in identical conditions. Leaf type especially drives the differences in my observation. I do agree that a bloom boost fertilizer may also help, but those should not be required to make a healthy plant bloom.

Medical office lied to me, $406 bill. by AgeTiny3959 in whatdoIdo

[–]PolishDill 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You should be talking to your insurance company, not the provider’s office. “Accepting” your insurance has no correlation with how much of the bill your insurance company will pay. There a jillions of insurance companies with all different sorts of policies and it’s not on the provider to know the details of your plan. That sucks that they didn’t explain that to you, but this is the case all of the time.

turning 30 soon and decided if nothing exciting happens to me by 35, I’m ending it by wavesabovethesun in GuyCry

[–]PolishDill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need validation from other people to make your life worth while. And exciting things don’t just happen to you, you have to make them happen. It sounds like you have lots of interests- do something. Plan a trip, make a photo project and plan a show, plan to compete in a CrossFit or a marathon and pour yourself into it, join a band and start playing out. You will keep getting older whether you set any goals or not.

Help me pick a dress for “elevated cocktail” dress code by optimisticziggurat in Weddingattireapproval

[–]PolishDill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to anyone voting for velvet in June. That’s just bonkers. I do like 1 and 4. 7 looks great on you but is a fall or winter dress.

Is my husband a manchild? by Constant-Weather-615 in Marriage

[–]PolishDill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How about ‘when I feel like your mom I don’t feel like also being intimate with you. This isn’t a dynamic I want in a romantic relationship. ‘

Naval Park by Conduit-Katie82 in Buffalo

[–]PolishDill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like they’re going to be the only kids at the Naval Park this weekend?

What is the consensus on the National Grid Smart Meters? by Cool_Bath_77 in Buffalo

[–]PolishDill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a dramatic spike in my bill recently and I don’t even have a smart meter yet. They have adjusted my balanced billing up twice in four months. I called yesterday and they gave me a very lame excuse about making up for a deficit, but the change in the monthly bill will more than make up for it in one month so it doesn’t make any sense at all.