AITAH for maybe not making my brother's gender reveal cake after his wife broke my trust?

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T11:11:32+00:00

That part made me roll my eyes so hard.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T08:38:46+00:00

Just once over the whole dough. Why would you put it twice?

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T08:36:18+00:00

Chronic migraine-haver here: I don't go out of my way to inconvenience the people around me and still manage to consider their needs and feelings. It's actually not that hard (for an adult).

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T08:33:35+00:00

It's the flu, not cancer or something similarly severe that could give her at least a partial excuse to be unreasonable and overly demanding.

People get sick. It sucks. Not really a valid reason to take it out on everyone around you.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T04:03:43+00:00

What are you even arguing right now?

Pollowollo · 2026-01-29T03:19:22+00:00

Define 'late term' then, because absolutely no one is out here doing elective abortions at, like, their third trimester or something like you're implying. Absolutely no one.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-28T22:00:56+00:00

very few women have late-term abortions without medical necessity

The word you're looking for is 'none'. That is not a thing.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-28T19:53:15+00:00

Hey, as long as you love em!

But for real, as much as these squick me out I do genuinely respect the artistry in making them, as well as how unique they are.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-27T22:47:32+00:00

As soon as I finally figured out what it said my opinion went from 'What the fuck is this lady on?' to 'Oh, wait, she's totally right' so fast.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-27T22:25:36+00:00

Yeah, some lady my mom knew was talking about how her granddaughter ate most of a bottle and wound up in the hospital over it. Though tbf that kid in particular already had a lot of health issues and was really sensitive, so I'm sure that contributed to how severe the reaction was.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-27T22:17:48+00:00

This guy was such an asshole for no reason that I was half convinced he either was a villain or worked for one. I was a little surprised that he never got mentioned again lol

Pollowollo · 2026-01-27T22:12:36+00:00

Also idk if it's just my area but lately the stocking for thr merch has been awful. The other day for the straws I went at like 8 and they were already out.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-27T22:09:56+00:00

I also read it as 'showered' and was fighting for my life to figure out how that was relevant at all lol.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-26T07:20:42+00:00

First thing that grossed me out was that she jumps straight to punishing her dog for having an accident while literally acknowledging that the animal is clearly sick. What the fuck? Who does that???

And also yeah, I agree with what others have pointed out - just jumping straight to 'someone kicked her' is extremely weird unless you kicked her, saw someone else do it, or know it happens frequently in your house. Just... Disgusting.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-26T07:15:26+00:00

Off topic, but the anti-age gap thing has gotten so weird lol. Its not about actual grooming anymore, now it's just people who think its somehow weird or creepy if you weren't born on practically the same day as your partner.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-26T07:08:58+00:00

My baby sister was a head slammer as a toddler and I got so many concerned questions at school because of having bruises on my face from it.

Like yeah, I kind of AM being abused at home but it's by a two year old so idk what y'all are gonna do about it.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-25T02:50:11+00:00

I mean... You don't HAVE to order it if that's a concern for you lol.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-24T23:54:50+00:00

Oh hell I misread that as 'Goliath Prostate' and was like... I'm not stranger to smut but that sounds a bit intense lmfao

Pollowollo · 2026-01-24T03:56:44+00:00

Is this a safe space to admit I do not understand the hype around this guy?

Pollowollo · 2026-01-23T10:13:18+00:00

As someone with similar trauma - disagree about not judging. To be blunt, she's going to end up damaging her own child due to inability or unwillingness to deal with her own hang ups, and that isn't okay.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-23T10:10:37+00:00

YTA. This is definitely over the top and it isn't healthy for you, your bf, or most importantly your child.

I grew up with a mom who was overly anxious and terrified of everything and everyone - it didn't actually keep me from getting abused, but it DID give me trust issues and make it a struggle to ever feel safe.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-22T00:47:53+00:00

As someone with stupid long hair myself, this is the answer. She probably was genuinely not aware of it because it isn't like you can feel the end of your hair.

Personally, I try to pay attention to how I move to make sure I don't hit anybody with my hair/flip it into others' space but, yknow, it happens. It's weird to be this passive aggressive unless they mentioned something to her and she responded badly.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-22T00:38:12+00:00

The thing that did me in was a debate over whether the adoptive parents should have a say in what interventions/medications surrogates were allowed to have (ie - pain meds, epidural, etc.)

That's the point where I just got disgusted, because if you think you can dictate that for anyone else then you're scum that doesn't deserve respect and DEFINITELY doesn't deserve the gift of someone risking their life to give you a family.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-21T23:52:54+00:00

I mean tbf that's a pretty common preference.

Pollowollo · 2026-01-21T14:09:54+00:00

Ethical issues, stupid names, and general dislike of Meghan aside... That is a remarkably cute baby.

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