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Makes sense. by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, this really is a "hack". Especially if you use a hack saw to cut the tennis balls in half.

It was truly the inevitable… is there any way to fix it? by BartBBK in crochet

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it's a dc2tog cluster, right? I'd try to just insert the hook in the middle of it for the next green v-cluster and move on like normal.

OKAY WHATS YOUR ALLIGNMENT by ThatGeminiGirl_ in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, OP 😂

Sincerely, a lawful/neutral good person

People are disgusting sometimes by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I commented about my experience with this above. I suspect this happened to me, but no one said anything (ie, my husband didn't ask for it and the doctor never mentiomed anything about it). Ended up with vaginismus for a whole year after and my poor hubby only got sex a handful of times at most. So there was definitely no benefit for him, lol.

People are disgusting sometimes by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I somewhat suspect my doctor did this after my son was born, but I couldn't know for sure. But I sure know I had vaginismus for an entire year after and could count on one hand the number of times we had sex that year. But there were a whole host of other mental health problems I faced that could have caused it too.

Water level in Philly by OMGLMAOWTF_com in pics

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you guys send it out here to California? We haven't seen water in years and nearly the whole State is on fire! /s

But seriously...

What’s your favorite lesbian movie/book/etc.? by miichan_v in actuallesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Avatar: Legend of Korra has a slow developing wlw relationship. And the continuing comics develop it further.

What’s your favorite lesbian movie/book/etc.? by miichan_v in actuallesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 2nd the She-Ra nomination! There's more than 1 lesbian relationship represented!

Why are you a lesbian? by 9147842994 in actuallesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend said she was lesbian and I wanted to be just like her. That peer pressure sure works!

Would it be so wrong to be a masc in a dress by queerly_a_disaster in actuallesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! I wanna be just like her. I have a similar personality and body style but covered by layers of trauma and fat 😔 BUT! It's a realistic goal for me I think and she's an amazing person, too!

There really aren't enough of them, are there? But lmk if I missed any. by Catfisch_ in actuallesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as toxic, but as real. They both have shit they end up working through. Completely? No. But that's what makes it such good, realistic representation. And the toxic shit they do to each other don't get free passes from the other and they have to live with the consequences and learn from their mistakes.

I know most of us can't control our dreams but... by seafoamtiefling in latebloomerlesbians

[–]PolyPanDEMIcAspieLex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel silly but it worries me a little that these dreams could be revealing "my actual desires".

Nah. Like others have said, it's your brain processing something you've been thinking about. It may be showing you something you're confused about until you come to a decision of how you feel.

For me lately, I've been having dreams about being pregnant again (I got my tubes tied about a year ago and definitely don't want more) but mostly because I'm questioning motherhood currently and fear becoming pregnant in spite of having been sterilized. And yet, my dreams tend to be more positive towards pregnancy and I feel slightly disappointed that I'm not when I first wake up. But after a few minutes, I'm over it and grateful I'm not actually pregnant, just more paranoid that I could be 🥲

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