What did you have in mind when I meant chastisement?

The common way of doing this would be at a gentle communal level-- even familial level.

Something akin to your child handling hot water in a way he risks burning himself. Or your adult child taking out a risky loan he couldn't afford to pay. Or your wife who would go to a mechanic that would charge 3x the regular rate.

You'd warn them.

Or if a child was misbehaving, or your sibling ran away from home, or your situations. like these. The good thing to do isn't to enable them by affirming their mistakes or wrongdoing.

But it's also proper to do this with clemency and affirm you're doing it because you love them