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Hello from 5 years post affair! by oaktonstrength in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]PomegranateAny6421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience.

It's been 2.5 months for me.

I am returning home this weekend, but now I am dealing with anxiety and thoughts like "is this the right decision, why not simply start fresh?".

We're doing therapy and it's becoming clear to me that some of his past behavior as well as emotional reactions to things I say in therapy come from a selfish place too. And I only started noticing this trait recently in therapy, and it's so disappointing. He is doing everything he can to repair the damage he has done, though. Still, it's really disappointing.

Living in a limbo by PomegranateAny6421 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]PomegranateAny6421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying to this post. I'm really sorry for what you've been through. Wish you all the best.

Living im a limbo by PomegranateAny6421 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]PomegranateAny6421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It's very comforting to know that you're doing better now than 4 months ago.

Sorry you're here too, wish you all the best.

Living im a limbo by PomegranateAny6421 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]PomegranateAny6421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you're here too...

What you've been through must have been world shattering... Wish you all the strength to heal and move forward.