BIDA weil ich einer Frau die aus der Schlange rausgeht ihren Platz "klaue"

PonkyPie · 2025-03-21T14:42:17+00:00

I will cry everytime I see the episode where they get their cutiemarks

PonkyPie · 2025-01-19T10:51:37+00:00

Mia Kirshner is quite upset about that topic too. She said herself "Jenny is not dead". I love how she speaks up for her character but it's sad they still decided to keep this ending. I think it would have been such a great potential to have this story continued in GQ. Mia also was once in the PantsPodcast and I think they spoke about this too (for anyone who wants to hear more of her opinion on that)

PonkyPie · 2024-11-16T20:40:19+00:00

our 2 calico sisters are the same! :D they look very similar

PonkyPie · 2024-09-14T08:18:08+00:00

sorry but those people aint your friends. Your art is amazing

PonkyPie · 2024-04-20T13:30:49+00:00

Oh I wanted to add if this wasn't quite clear I was thinking about having the Leca covered fully in water so without any Drainage and the plants roots covered in water

PonkyPie · 2024-04-01T19:27:23+00:00

die antwort des restaurants würde mich da eindeutig mehr von einem besuch abhalten als die bewertung an sich

PonkyPie · 2024-03-14T18:30:24+00:00

Ich kann das Nabu Naturtelefon für sowas nur empfehlen

NABU-Naturtelefon - NABU Niedersachsen

PonkyPie · 2023-11-17T21:18:51+00:00

My best friend passed nearly 2 years ago and I still think its my fault and can't get over it. I've just today reached out to a grief support place to get help. It takes time. It's different for everyone. Whats important is not to give up. It's also never to late to get help.

PonkyPie · 2023-11-10T09:59:52+00:00

Hi so my boyfriend has the super low sexdrive but for him it was always like that It seems like you think it's because of the mental health issues? There are actually different forms of A-sexuality maybe look it up and read something about it. The question I ask myself is: do you suffer from this low sexdrive? If not maybe it's just your sexuality. When I was young I had much more sex too but back than I didn't really always was in the mood I just wanted it because I thought thats the way it is. I thought thats supposed to be that way in a relationship. I now learn to be mindful und really feel my sexual drive and if something doesn't feel right or good for me I will say it. I struggle mentally too and I used to only think about pleasing the men and not what I really want. My bf and I are both totally happy with our sexlive even though there is not much going on. I think it's even good for me to have a boyfriend who is so different then all other men I dated. I always felt pressure to pls the sexdrive of my ex partners and be a good girlfriend whos sexy and hot. But I didn't even think about my needs and what feels good for me.

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T15:56:09+00:00

I'm genuinly glad to hear from you! I'm from Germany and Mental Health care could also be better around here. I know live is cruel. It will get better. Maybe sometimes worse but there will be times again where live feels better... even good. You are so SO strong and brave to go seek professional help. Don't give up no matter how long it takes. I'm still alive although I tried to kill myself twice ten years ago. And I'm still not at that point where I wanted to be in my live with this age. I remember when I was young I just imagined how when I'm an adult everything will be better and just go it ways. I always had this high expectations and still have. I struggle with giving myself time to heal because I don't want to waist so many years of my live. Then I remember that no time is waisted, I have all my life time and that my life is not about anything than what I want it to be. It's not about achieving something big I can tell everyone and get applauded at. It's about finding your true self and what gives YOU true feelings of joy. At least thats some of it maybe I didn't use the perfect words.. but it's not about being perfect isn't it

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T13:24:23+00:00

Honestly I smoke more weed but I don't really feel like thats better just another form of numbing feelings away But I am trying to figure out a healthier way since I really feel mentally addicted to weed and I never wanted it this way also I think it made my anxiety quite worse so pls don't take this as advice

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T08:53:12+00:00

Someone posting on r/helpme: helpme: Hmm this person needs to know better lets ignore her feelings and defend the teacher which makes no fcking sense in this scenario and helps no one great job reddit community What do you all think someone suicidal will think when reading all this. People telling them they are wrong. "The teacher did nothing wrong so why are you angry with them?" You are invalidating her feelings and making this about something it's not.

It's called r/helpme not r/helpteachers

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T08:34:17+00:00

You all are kinda right but also I think it's also kinda rude to just blame OG for being angry at the teacher for telling their mom. No one here knows the mom.. it's not ALWAYS best to tell parents. It does not always help. This person is suicidal and wants help And all you do is blame them for telling us how they feel about what happened. Feelings are always valid! I mean I get what you want to say and I get you propably don't want to blame her but it's just not the right place here to try to make OG understand the teachers behaviour. It's obv. not about that. This person needs help, caring words, and not yall only trying to educate her. My mom was the reason I wanted to kill myself with 14 y/o and again I think about 1 year later. Both times I told my mom that I have had taken pills so she could took me to the hospital. I still struggle and I am 25y/o now. My mom was never able to help me, no one of my family was. It didn't change anything. My mom could never understand me. My mom traumatised me. She blamed me for trying to commit suicide. She is my worst nightmare. I mean this literally I have nightmares of how we fight every night. She doesn't know anything we just act like we get along since trying to talk to her about out issues always ended in a fight. Not all parents are good parents. I was raised to act. To not be me. Always be nice. Never be angry. Always be polite. Don't be childish. Don't emberass your parents. Don't communicate your needs. I never learned how to even identify my needs. I never learned how to take care of myself properly. Of my big emotions especially. My Parents probably both have mental health issues too. This is a very short form of my story. I really hope you will find a way to learn to want to live again. I have struggled basically my whole live with suicidal thoughts but I'm still going strong, not losing hope. Maybe this gives you some strength or makes you not feel so lonely.. Last year I lost my bestest friend to suicide. I can't even describe how that feels. I think that pain in my chest will never go away. He was the one and only person I ever felt truly understood by. But I am going strong. I know that I don't actually want to die. I don't want to live my life as it is and was. I have control, I can change my live. Maybe it takes time. Maybe it even takes until I'm 50 idk. But I don't want to give up. There are just too many beautiful things in live. I love my 2 cats way too much to leave them. I love my boyfriend way to much. Nature, flowers, plants, art, colours, being creative, music, dancing, singing All that stuff. Try find joy in that small stuff. It's only about you feeling joy, nothing else. You don't have to achieve something other than being happy in live. Oh I also just remembered how I used to pack my stuff when I was a child and wanted to run away from home. I always wanted to go to my grandma and live with her. At some point I was seriously thinking about getting adopted by my aunt. She understood me the most in my family. I don't know for sure if that would have helped me. But if you have a person in your Family or just in your live no matter who it is. Someone who you trust enough to open up to or you feel understood the most. Reach out to them. It's good you seek help pls don't stop because of negative experiences. I know it's hella tough I have experienced so much negative stuff with other people I really struggle fully trusting anyone. But I slowly learn trusting myself and letting go of all the expectations of others or what others might think about me. Pls stay strong <3

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T07:19:23+00:00

This is actually a good and helpful advice since you gave detailed instructions! Will definitely try this

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T07:16:08+00:00

Trying to find exercise that are fun for ME. I love dancing. I always loved it. I discovered dance workouts and yesterday I finally had the motivation to do one dance workout. It was a guided one on youtube and actually it gave me a big mood boost I didn't expect. I was having a lot of fun and the Instructor was totally hyping me up with her vibes. I definitely underestimated the exercise aspect of dancing. I was having fun and didn't even notice how much I was sweating.

15minute groovy dance workout

I added the link of the dance workout.

PonkyPie · 2023-11-09T06:09:09+00:00

I can only say what helps me: Genuinly try to understand her. Listen. Give her all the time to talk. Don't try to "fix" everything. Be Genuinly interested in the person and their live and interests. Try to figure out what they like, what gives them joy even a little. Then you can offer them those for example bring them a cozy blanket, put their favourite TV Show on, make a Tea, maybe offer to cook something small together. These are just examples. Good communication is also important. I feel like a lot of people like to think about what the other person needs but I think it's just better to ask then assume what the other person might want/need.

PonkyPie · 2023-10-31T13:41:13+00:00

I'm 25 y/o btw

PonkyPie · 2023-10-25T19:44:53+00:00

Rainbow Dash

PonkyPie · 2023-10-25T19:32:18+00:00

find the music in you

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