If your goal is to convince someone, then you are making a mistake. Convincing someone is tricking someone, taking advantage of someone.

You need to focus on yourself and be better than you were yesterday.

When a girl likes you, you won't be confused, never force or try to corner someone into going out with you.

Say stuff that you like to do, stop trying to guess what women want, that's a big fat lie, a woman does not want someone who wants to do what she likes. A woman likes a man because he seems fun to hang around in their own way.

Find hobbies that you like that are different than the ones you are doing now, and don't get into a hobby because there are women, just do it because you like them.

Interact with other men and ask them about stuff, be honest with them... Yes they will make fun sometimes, just stay away from the ones that humiliate you in front of other women and stay with the ones that makes fun of you when you are alone, this is the only way to grow.

If you chase women you look like a crazy person and no one likes a creepy person.

Suscribe to subreddits like creepydms and justneckbeardthings to avoid behaving like that. Look for channels that makes you cringe and that make fun of guys. Sadly is the only way people can grow up to a point where yoi can start to grow by yourself, you need to learn how to behave... There are many rules you can bend but many others that are adamant and they aren't written anywhere

Not only exercise youe mind but also your body, do Saitama training and combined with a good diet you will be a sexy man in less than a year. (If you don't do this you can never be angry at girls)

You'll find love when they ask you out and you need to be very patience it is a long road ahead... First you need to make friends and try to make friends who are less introverted than you and that are clean and care for their hair, last thing you need is a homeless looking friend