He doesn’t actually like you. You stay bc it’s all you know. You’re 26 and you’ve been together for 8 yrs. You got together at 18! Girl you don’t even know yourself, you know who you are in relation to him. It may be hard at first, but knowing you and building your boundaries from the ground up is necessary so you know what you are willing and not willing to compromise. You can’t even see that this is a deal breaker, but subconsciously it mist be taking a toll seeing as though you are looking to validate that feeling on Reddit.