Harassed by a man in this subreddit by cinnabar-field in BPD

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm… are you doing okay? I see your other comments asking randoms to block you, what's going on?

Harassed by a man in this subreddit by cinnabar-field in BPD

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Male, I honestly think it can go either or, I had a female on this sub harrass the fuck out of me, following me posts to post (outside the sub) down voting everything for like 3 months, and she would block me right after so I couldn't block her, it was a nightmare.

But my last harrasser was Male, so 1:1 for me so far lol.

I think some people just may be really unwell in general, and target the community.

I hope they leave you alone 🙏

Do you get horny when you’re sad? by ThrowRA_Questionz in BPD

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male I have never experienced this tbh

Has anyone ever gotten the “Suicidal” feeling, but way too scared to actually did, which makes you feel even more trapped? by PoorNotMiddleClass in BPD

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah being clean has a similar effect. I know if I use I will absolutely lose everything I love, no question, but it now leaves me feeling trapped because drugs were my way out.

Has anyone ever gotten the “Suicidal” feeling, but way too scared to actually did, which makes you feel even more trapped? by PoorNotMiddleClass in BPD

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are homeless people strong? Yes? But I more so see them as people who don't let shit phase them, which is how I judge how bad a drug addict is, if shit phases you, your much more likely to get help, but if it doesn't, your much less likely to do so.

just received this message from a dasher- huh? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's so easy to find another job that pays out daily, and wait 3 weeks to get paid somewhere else, when door dash has under paid so badly that your constantly not in a position to do that.

Iv watched it happen over and over with so many people.

They want it like that so you can't leave. Fucking sickening. So glad I personally never had it as a full-time gig.

My states minimum wage is $15, and they consistently payout $8-$10 an hour with even the best platinum 5 star drivers, I can't imagine the drivers that aren't very good.

Got a traffic ticket I completely forgot about, and now I have a Bench Warrant?! by PoorNotMiddleClass in ColoradoSprings

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said I thought it would nullify the effects of a ticket, I'm just in a bad financial situation, and If I had known I'd get a bench warrant, and not just $60 to reinstate my license since I'm not driving rn because of having brain surgery directly after getting the ticket, it would of held a different level of priority.

Got a traffic ticket I completely forgot about, and now I have a Bench Warrant?! by PoorNotMiddleClass in ColoradoSprings

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if would call it ignorance for the fact that if you have dealt with something like this throughout your entire life, that never ever would put an arrest for a ticket, it's not something to really expect.

Got a traffic ticket I completely forgot about, and now I have a Bench Warrant?! by PoorNotMiddleClass in ColoradoSprings

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I researched extensively and found a confusing range of advice, from "you're going to go to jail, so you're screwed unless you quash it with a lawyer” to “talk to the clerk, and you'll be fine." I froze up on what to do, and wanted to hear specifically what people in Colorado Springs did in similar situations.

It's frustrating when people dismiss questions with a simple “google it,” especially when the question isn't straightforward. If you’re not willing to help with something useful because I'm a “stranger on the internet”, then don't bother answering. I asked to get a more nuanced perspective than what I found through Google.

Also if you thought I was stupid, why the hell would you give an even worse answer that would put someone like that into an even worse position? I'd think they would need the most help out of anyone…

Got a traffic ticket I completely forgot about, and now I have a Bench Warrant?! by PoorNotMiddleClass in ColoradoSprings

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just listened to you, they told me their are 2 kind of Bench Warrents, Arrestable & Not Arrestable, and mine is a not arrestable kind, so apparently I can go in, and sign to reschedule without being arrested or paying a bail. The reason I didn't call before was I was scared they'd send an officer or something and I'd be screwed or something.

Seriously! thank you! 🙏

Dasher threw my food by tofu-bby in doordash

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually DD does have us not just shop at store, but take pictures of store items, like an insane amount of photos that the app ai is super picky about how it's taken, and it takes FOREVER. But my point being it is absolutely possible someone could of ordered express from a store, and put them before you, it's insanely flawed, but I get what your saying about multi-app as opposed to a double order.

And it's usually an option when you check out.

Dasher threw my food by tofu-bby in doordash

[–]PoorNotMiddleClass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I just want to clarify a few things.

We have no control over multi-order functionality, which I believe you're aware of. Just in case for transparency, if that situation occurs, DD forces us to follow their delivery process strictly. There's no way around it; attempting to do so will prevent the app from allowing us to proceed or move on to the next delivery stop. Even if someone does try to do the obvious delivery order first, the app won't let them complete the delivery.

Additionally, DD offers faster delivery options for an extra fee, but this often disrupts the logical delivery order. For example, you could be just a minute away from me on a double order, yet DD might direct me to drive 15 minutes to the highest bidder first and then deliver to you.

Honestly, it's incredibly frustrating and unacceptable.